I offer the same in return. While more a bondage bottom than top, I enjoy switching with a partner who likes being tied. While open to a play-only relationship, I'd hope to be friends and do non-kink activities together as well. On the vanilla side, I'm a semiprofessional cellist, writer of musical parodies, lover of good food and wine, and science fiction fan. I have two long-distance relationships, and I'm really not able to handle any more. I just recently started a new relationship with an amazing local woman who is in communication with my long-distance partners. But I'm open to new friends, and if you hit it off with my partners, there's a possibility of more.