Just ask I am an open book, if you appreciate an intelligent, smart, optimistic and playful woman who knows what she wants in life consider making a connection. This is my first time trying a dating app. lost my husband to brain cancer and I have come to understand that life without love is like a harp without strings. I am looking for something serious. I'm open to meeting in person to find out if we both have good chemistry. Drop me a phon and I will share more.
***I only respond to people that ACTUALLY LIVE IN VANCOUVER*** If I wanted pervy penpals I'd be charging for it ?
I want someone to share vibes with…talking and laughing with ease and comfortable moments of quiet. I wanna go explore and adventure, I also wanna stay in, not necessarily to play but to have that time to relax and enjoy each other. I wanna be pumped to hang out with you and you the same for me. Laughter is everything to me, quick witty and sassy banter is my signature.
I won't be your hookup. I'm Demi-Sexual, if you can get to my brain and heart I can promise you fire. , I’ve realized hookups do nothing for me, everythings more fun when we actually like each other.
I also think it's important to be clear about 2 Non-Negotiables:
1.) I will not (and do not) have ***. This is both because of health and preference. I am the human equivalent of being spayed :)
2.) I worship miss Mary Jane.. I’m a frequent imbiber of Cannabis, this will not change. It’s very important to me that you can sincerely say this is a non-issue for you and that you too are dedicated to miss Mary.
You:
Must be between 30-46, Monogamous, Sensual Dom or Daddy, and are NOT looking for a switch
I am looking for a man who will love me and my son. The one who can accept my child as his own. My man should be my friend, a loving husband and a good lover. A man should have a good sense of humor. He is kind, caring, sincere, understanding, responsive, loyal to his future wife. I would like to find someone I can talk to, enjoy life with and possibly marry one day.
Hello! My name is Lilith and I am 20 years old. I have been a part of the community for 2 years now and have received some training as a sub. I am a submissive and a little. I am looking to find a dom to train with and possibly attend some events.
I am looking for a male 60+ who takes control when it comes to sex. When he says it's time to play , it's time to play. Someone who will take control of my body. ( I AM NOT INTO EXTREME ***). Some of the things I do enjoy is *** inflicted on my boobs especially the nipples, I love having my nipples stretched. My pussy loves to be spanked teased fisted and ***d to have multiple G-Spot and Cervix Orgasms. I also love anal play and really enjoy anal sex as well . There is other things I would love to try as well so please send me an E-Mail if interested
Not sure what to say here…I am willing to be more open with my needs and wants with the right person.
I also don’t mind sharing face pictures once we get to know each other.
**Notes:**
I am not looking for a Dom/Sub/Top/Bottom etc or any kink/sexual relations with anyone. I am not a content creator.
If you want to get to know me on any form or level. I hang out in the chat rooms.
New to the actual scene but would describe myself as a switch.
Ideal scenario would be finding a soft dom where there’s mutual physical attraction and stimulating conversation about exploring BDSM.
Respect comes first.
I am very physically affectionate and prefer being in control. I enjoy teasing my partners till they tear up and whine. I am also sadomasochistic and adore the sight of ***, bites and bruises on skin.
BUT, I am a switch so I don’t mind getting into my subspace for an experienced dom. I also believe aftercare is super important for BOTH partners involved.
Apart from that, i love baking and going on late-night walks and watching horror movies or shows or anime
Ps I DO NOT SEXT and please don’t text me if you are far away, I do not do online relationships
Also, get tested before you even think about me fucking you ( also for your own health love mwah)
5’6. Looking to date. Message me and let’s safely meet up after chatting. I like connection.
I like the outdoors, self care, gym, sports, reading, and wine.
I have a car & work in healthcare.
Hello! How are you? You can call me Bunny ♡
I've known about BDSM for a long time, but I've never practiced it much, so consider me a beginner. I prefer to be submissive, and I am a very submissive, masochistic, and obedient girl.
I am bisexual, and I have never tried to be dominant or top, but I'm open to new experiences~
Hi! I'm looking for one dom that I can get together with occasionally and have a bit of the BF experience with, because I'm a needy sub prone to developing crushes (sorry)!
Ideally looking for someone with at least a bit of experience, and someone who would consider themselves to be at least a bit of a sadist~
Looking for in-person connections only~
Don't really respond to super sexual greeting messages >< Love talking about videogames though!
In an open/poly relationship with a gray-asexual partner, feel free to ask any questions! Happy to explore whatever feels natural~
(If this description sounds familiar, created a new account to de-spam and get a clean slate)
hey there you beautiful sex-positive people- I'm on here hoping to connect and have conversations with strong, Dom-centric intelligent, creative men both in and out of the bedroom.
I'm not here looking for anything or anyone, but curious to learn more about my and other people's sexuality. I find when I am in the vibe of looking or hunting that's when I don't find anything at all - so very few expectations here! But If we do match and connect, I'll unlock the gallery to you;) Good luck everyone;) ?
looking for someone who I feel safe enough with to tie me up (yes that means getting to know each other first)
also looking for cute dates with the ladies - lets makeout and talk shit about men
don’t send me thirsty messages it’s yucky unless we both have chatted a bit first and both are down for it
hello!
while I’m not new to BDSM, I don’t have much real life experience so I’m looking for someone to hold my hand while I explore more kinks,
you’ll have to be patient with me ( ^^ ) warning: I don’t like it rough!!!!
I’m a submissive that likes to be praised, edged and spanked (not too hard!) I will only occasionally become a dom for the most pathetic down bad men out there
I have many many kinks so feel free to dm me and ask!
I also like to be spoiled, gifts no matter how small are a quick way into my heart
I’m really into older women so it you fit the description please please pleaseeee (pretty please) message me!!
For men I’m not really interested, BUT I will overlook that for couples, I love couples!
I’m not into pic exchange only (expect maybe if you wanna pay me :3)
(side note: I love to take NSFW photos, so if any photographers are here and want to do a photoshoot…)
I'm a SadoMasochistic Switch. I love floggers, canes, and whips with all the delicious reactions they create. I am happy to top or bottom for the right people. Gender, race, body type, sexuality, ability, and experience level isn't as important to me as personality and overlapping interests. Good communication skills are essential however.
I just moved from Portland Oregon to the Vancouver Canada area in early 2024. I am looking forward to making new friends and checking out the local events.
I'm not a dom or sub. I'm not a little or a mommy. I'm not a mistress or a slave. I have no interest in d/s. I am also asexual so sexual contact or energy is a hard limit for me.
I hate being called dear, sweetheart, honey, etc. by strangers. Furthermore, Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess or other Honorifics do not apply to me. Calling me any of these things tells me that you either don't bother reading profiles or enjoy violating boundaries.
**Desires and Fantasies**
I'm looking for people who enjoy going to local s/m events, hanging out, and engaging in some low key, high impact, pickup play.
Just ask I am an open book, if you appreciate an intelligent, smart, optimistic and playful woman who knows what she wants in life consider making a connection. This is my first time trying a dating app. lost my husband to brain cancer and I have come to understand that life without love is like a harp without strings. I am looking for something serious. I'm open to meeting in person to find out if we both have good chemistry. Drop me a phon and I will share more.
I am looking for a male 60+ who takes control when it comes to sex. When he says it's time to play , it's time to play. Someone who will take control of my body. ( I AM NOT INTO EXTREME ***). Some of the things I do enjoy is *** inflicted on my boobs especially the nipples, I love having my nipples stretched. My pussy loves to be spanked teased fisted and ***d to have multiple G-Spot and Cervix Orgasms. I also love anal play and really enjoy anal sex as well . There is other things I would love to try as well so please send me an E-Mail if interested
Not sure what to say here…I am willing to be more open with my needs and wants with the right person.
I also don’t mind sharing face pictures once we get to know each other.
I am looking for a man who will love me and my son. The one who can accept my child as his own. My man should be my friend, a loving husband and a good lover. A man should have a good sense of humor. He is kind, caring, sincere, understanding, responsive, loyal to his future wife. I would like to find someone I can talk to, enjoy life with and possibly marry one day.
***I only respond to people that ACTUALLY LIVE IN VANCOUVER*** If I wanted pervy penpals I'd be charging for it ?
I want someone to share vibes with…talking and laughing with ease and comfortable moments of quiet. I wanna go explore and adventure, I also wanna stay in, not necessarily to play but to have that time to relax and enjoy each other. I wanna be pumped to hang out with you and you the same for me. Laughter is everything to me, quick witty and sassy banter is my signature.
I won't be your hookup. I'm Demi-Sexual, if you can get to my brain and heart I can promise you fire. , I’ve realized hookups do nothing for me, everythings more fun when we actually like each other.
I also think it's important to be clear about 2 Non-Negotiables:
1.) I will not (and do not) have ***. This is both because of health and preference. I am the human equivalent of being spayed :)
2.) I worship miss Mary Jane.. I’m a frequent imbiber of Cannabis, this will not change. It’s very important to me that you can sincerely say this is a non-issue for you and that you too are dedicated to miss Mary.
You:
Must be between 30-46, Monogamous, Sensual Dom or Daddy, and are NOT looking for a switch
Hello! My name is Lilith and I am 20 years old. I have been a part of the community for 2 years now and have received some training as a sub. I am a submissive and a little. I am looking to find a dom to train with and possibly attend some events.
**Notes:**
I am not looking for a Dom/Sub/Top/Bottom etc or any kink/sexual relations with anyone. I am not a content creator.
If you want to get to know me on any form or level. I hang out in the chat rooms.
New to the actual scene but would describe myself as a switch.
Ideal scenario would be finding a soft dom where there’s mutual physical attraction and stimulating conversation about exploring BDSM.
Respect comes first.
Hello! How are you? You can call me Bunny ♡
I've known about BDSM for a long time, but I've never practiced it much, so consider me a beginner. I prefer to be submissive, and I am a very submissive, masochistic, and obedient girl.
I am bisexual, and I have never tried to be dominant or top, but I'm open to new experiences~
Hi! I'm looking for one dom that I can get together with occasionally and have a bit of the BF experience with, because I'm a needy sub prone to developing crushes (sorry)!
Ideally looking for someone with at least a bit of experience, and someone who would consider themselves to be at least a bit of a sadist~
Looking for in-person connections only~
Don't really respond to super sexual greeting messages >< Love talking about videogames though!
In an open/poly relationship with a gray-asexual partner, feel free to ask any questions! Happy to explore whatever feels natural~
(If this description sounds familiar, created a new account to de-spam and get a clean slate)
hello!
while I’m not new to BDSM, I don’t have much real life experience so I’m looking for someone to hold my hand while I explore more kinks,
you’ll have to be patient with me ( ^^ ) warning: I don’t like it rough!!!!
I’m a submissive that likes to be praised, edged and spanked (not too hard!) I will only occasionally become a dom for the most pathetic down bad men out there
I have many many kinks so feel free to dm me and ask!
I also like to be spoiled, gifts no matter how small are a quick way into my heart
I’m really into older women so it you fit the description please please pleaseeee (pretty please) message me!!
For men I’m not really interested, BUT I will overlook that for couples, I love couples!
I’m not into pic exchange only (expect maybe if you wanna pay me :3)
(side note: I love to take NSFW photos, so if any photographers are here and want to do a photoshoot…)
Indoor cat personality: sleep, sometimes chaotic, and weird
Gamer (tbh would prefer gaming friends to kinky stuff lol)
Sadist but a brat??? Honestly still trying to figure that one out
looking for someone who I feel safe enough with to tie me up (yes that means getting to know each other first)
also looking for cute dates with the ladies - lets makeout and talk shit about men
don’t send me thirsty messages it’s yucky unless we both have chatted a bit first and both are down for it
Someone once described me as bubbly with a hard edge like cheap champagne.
I want to explore power dynamics: I’m pretty submissive but I can also be a bit switchy.
And maybe check out some parties.
Wanton brat with a smart mouth.
Looking for an experienced dom to show me the ropes ?
After 20 years of monogomy I’m ready to explore my fantasies, curiosities and new found freedom. I’m looking for a man who can teach me something new and let me lean into pillow princess mode to reawaken what I know lays dormant inside.
I’m bi-curious and open to couples looking for a unicorn who is okay that she’s just got her sparkle.
Patience and safety are paramount as I take this exciting step into the unknown.
I’m new to trying out some of my kinks so trust is very important. I’d like to find someone I can see regularly and explore sexually.
Fyi, I’m fat and I’m more attracted to bigger guys.
Ask me about my kinks or tell me about yours
Hello! I’m Remy. I’m currently looking for a monogamous relationship, or at the very least a primary relationship with potential for play partners.
I’m part of a really nice community and regularly go to munches and dungeon parties, such as Rascals and Anza. I have yet to delve into SOP parties.
I’m a switch! While I started out as a submissive, I’m quickly learning I really enjoy being a dominant. My domination type leans caregiver — I’ll pet your hair, tell you you’re a good boy/girl, all the while spanking you.
In a committed relationship, I’ll likely be taking a submissive-leaning role. But in dungeons, I’ll likely be more dominant-leaning.
Good girl: I very much enjoy praise. I like to be told that I’m doing a good job and that I’m a good girl!
Cuddles: I like being held and cuddled, and I like cuddling back! I’ve been told I have a very nice lap for heads, and I’ll give you all the head rubs and scalp scratches.
Little: This one in particular I feel the most nervous about. But it ties together my desires for praise and cuddles, as well as my love for cute things.
Caregiving: While I’m not a bonafide Mommy Dom yet, I am a natural caregiver. I like to blend the soft with the harsh in scenes, and out of scenes I am always open for hugs, cuddles, or a shoulder to rest your head.
It should go without saying, but please don’t assume you can come up to me and dominate me. For me at least, my kinks are separate from my day to day life. I would like to keep my kinks within their kink spaces, and preferably even within their scenes. In other words, just because I would like to be objectified within a scene does not mean I want to be treated as lesser when we are having a regular conversation.
Outside of the kink world, my interests include:
Horror: I own a small collection of VHS horror and a CRT with a built in VCR! I also love horror novels.
Fantasy: I’m a Lord of the Rings nerd as well as a Dungeons and Dragons player/dungeon master. I also go to Renaissance Fairs!
Video games: The Elder Scrolls (especially Skyrim), Resident Evil and Yakuza/Like a Dragon are my top favourite series!
Gardening: I love to garden! I love growing herbs, vegetables and flowers.
Baking: I love to bake! I make a very good carrot cake!
History: I’m a bit of a history nerd. Museums are one of my favourite places on Earth, and I love going to historical and pre-historical sites!
Archaeology: I’m a trained archaeologist and work in the field. I won’t give details on my job unless I know you well, but I specialize in Pacific Northwest archaeology. Ask me about the mountains sometime!
Thank you for reading!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
95% Masochist
94% Rope bunny
93% Daddy/Mommy
91% Experimentalist
89% Primal (Prey)
87% Brat
85% Boy/Girl
82% Rigger
80% Submissive
Checking this out … message me and chat with me a bit … ? Recently out of a relationship and am looking to meet someone that I can see casually & safely. Looking to explore and try new things.
5’6. Looking to date. Message me and let’s safely meet up after chatting. I like connection.
I like the outdoors, self care, gym, sports, reading, and wine.
I have a car & work in healthcare.
30 f chubby latina discreet fun must have a vehicle.
likes: being a princess, cnc, pussy slapping, light ass play, being degraded, emotional intelligence, thick c0cks, making a mess
limits: NO *** or bruises/marks
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