i'm not really into *** but i like to try out kinky stuffs: tease & denial,role-play,orgasm control,body worship, light whipping,spanking,tickling,stretching (rack),trimming/shaving,body worship,strap on play,Collar lead and leash,butt plugs,blindfolds,medieval rack,ball gags,sensory deprivation, orgasm delay.
I am looking for a man who from the first moment fills my life with happiness who knows how to make me smile even though I am angry I will always love that special side of a couple) Life always gives us something difficult, life gives us something pleasant or problematic, and always at any moment and any obstacle, every person should have someone nearby who will support you at any moment. I want to feel comfortable with him, I want to feel safe with him. Hmm I think my future man is my strong shoulder, care and support. We are best friends and lovers.
I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better.
I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch.
Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw.
Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you.
I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.
I love to sing, dance, work on myself and strive to be better. I have a kind character, and I am the kind of person who likes to take care of ***s or poor people. I believe that every person deserves a second chance, no matter what has happened in their life.
I am a young but mature, innocent, creative, hard headed, loving, twisted, passionate creature of a woman who has always cared more for others than myself. I've always been the person to take care of everyone else very misunderstood, a different breed you might say Yet people have still somehow been drawn in by my oddities, and over time have grown to care for me to.
I need someone to take care of my needs. a dominate figure who I’ll listen and obey at every turn. I’ll talk back to be put in my place I want sensual with dominance. I want to be treated like a princess and your play toy.
I dont bite i promise. Im just sassy and talk too much sometimes.?
im new and inexperienced but i love learning!
Extremely ambitious hope you match that,let me be your first supporter !!?♂️
Love travelling and jumping off cliff(would like for you to jump after me)
Favourite emojis??????
I have two jobs so i can be quite busy
Theres just something about people giving their best selfs into important things in their life
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Sadist
98% Dominant
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
89% Owner
86% Daddy/Mommy
84% Primal (Hunter)
80% Brat tamer
77% Master/Mistress
35% Experimentalist
29% Ageplayer
19% Vanilla
13% Non-monogamist
4% Exhibitionist
0% Switch
0% Voyeur
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I won't be meeting anyone in person.
Please don't call me any titles (like mistress) in the first messages.
It's okay to send a copy-paste message to me as long as it's something nice and sincere and not "I want you to do this, this and this to me".
I get that I sound very frustrated here but I'm trying to reduce the garbage messages I get.
Also please text me in English.
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I know I'm talking about what I don't want too much. What I DO want is a little subby boy to play with. There's many many things I'm into which I'm too lazy to all put on here...right now at least.The most important kink for me is everything that's satisfying my sadism in some way so basically almost everything *** related. (Other kinks that are currently on my mind a lot are for example petplay and breath control) But in general I feel like I am a very very gentle Dom most of the time and it's very important to me to know that my sub is happy with me. I'm looking for a sweet guy that I can also talk about other things than BDSM with. In my life I currently have a lot of time, in which I mostly don't have a lot that I can do but I watch a lotttt of movies and also I play some games but mainly Minecraft (Of courseee only modded and basically "not vanilla" in every single way). It would be great to find someone who I can play with... If you've read this far and are thinking about texting me, I could tell you that I'd just like to receive a message in which you could maybe talk a little about yourself (just life and personality wise but of course it would also be super interesting for me what you're into kink-wise). Maybe just let me know what you're hoping to find on this platform and why you decided to text me. And, it already makes me feel much better about someone if they read my whole bio. I myself always think a bit better of someone if they put a little more than "open to anything" in their bio.
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I keep changing my bio every week or so but I have to add something else.. The message filter is set up by ME personally. If it doesn't let you through, that means I don't want you to text me, which is most likely age related. And the minimum length of a message is also set up by me, ON PURPOSE so naturally I'm not very pleased about all the people just spamming stuff at the end of their message so it gets through. Why would I even reply to that. Ever. I'd love to set it even higher than 300 characters, it's obviously not long enough.
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Also whatever country and location is shown currently is usually not where I actually live, I keep changing it.
Description
They broke the mold when they made me, because one of me is all this world can handle. Femme fatale. Woman made poetry. Magical and mysterious. Or simply hilarious in pajamas watching Monty Python eating popcorn. I am the girl next door. The philosophical vixen in stilleos, the dancing queen, the healer nude by the fire. I am embodiment of a woman.
Hello! brand new here, not sure exactly what I’m looking for. i guess I luke a dominant caring guy, just want something physical. Love chatting and open to experience more, just nit into ***. ?
I’m not really sure what to put in these descriptions anymore :) Just here to chat and see what’s going on. If you’d like to know more about me I encourage you to send me a DM!
Most important thing to know about me is that I am married, my husband is aware of my activities and approves, I am a bratty submissive, my husband doesn’t have interest in the lifestyle hence my search for a Dom.
I enjoy: impact, Cnc play. solo or with couples as I am also bi. love public play, and am not opposed to being recorded.
I am waking up a part of my desire entering into a new decade of my life.
I am exploring what that looks like, I need very carrying, compassionate people willing to establish emotional connection before we dive into kinky play.
If you have long hair you've already scored points with me lol I guess that's a fetish lol ooh or a sexy accent haha
Not sure how pansexual isn't an option on here but yeah once I realized there are more than two genders...I've only ever been with men but let's just say I don't want to limit myself lol
Not really sure why I'm here lol Just figured I should investigate why I keep feeling inclined to offer myself as a sex slave to literally any man I've gotten remotely close to. Alas never had anyone take me up on it. I think they think I'm either kidding or too good to be true lol
Now these have been 'normal' guys. Not to be rude but I find it hard to start something with someone specifically searching for a sub...does that make any fucking sense whatsoever? lol I have to have a genuine interest in you to make me want to give myself over ya know? I popped on here for research mostly so not necessarily looking to meet someone but if it happens then cool. Maybe I'm needy or vanilla or whatever but a regular conversation over coffee at least would be a good place to start.
Not to be mean but I'm not going to talk to you if you don't have a picture lol and if you're so uncreative as to have 69 in your name...you'll have to work harder to gain my interest lol also sorry lads but if you're younger you have an uphill battle lol I always end up going older for some reason but eh I guess I could always try something new lol
I’m looking for a long term relationship/life partner. Possibly marriage. If I’m really intrigued I might be interested in just a hookup. please no one over 23 I am not interested (0-17❌, 18-22✅, 23+❌)
If you are 25 or older I will not respond to your message. Don’t compliment me. Don’t send me pics. Get to know me. If you are creep, make me uncomfortable or the first thing you say is sexual, you will get reported.
***No Men***
I'm not hot enough to be this crazy. Basically I'm real weird and not looking to change that. Just want people that are into it.
I'm a lesbian and a domme/caregiver. MD/lg is probably my biggest kink. I like making things with my hands and world building/tabletop games.
I've been involved in kink for about a decade but don't really consider myself "part of the community" so I'd like to get more involved. Talk and meet people.
Trans. Post op.
Ottawa-Montreal-Toronto-Kingston
Newish to ENM wanting to connect with open minded gentle souls with a feminine vibe that have interest in health, wellness, therapy, music, art, nature, alternative festivals and much more.
My partner and I are loving parents in a nested relationship for 14+ years looking for emotional, intelectual and fun experiences solo or together in a consensual way.
Appreciate relationships that are trauma informed, nurturing, healthy and safe. Interested in taking things in a slow, respectful and gentle way.
Would love to learn Shibari!
If you identify as a ???❤️???♀️ let's hang out and see how it flows.
Looking for kink forward people to get back into dating, short to long term.
Living that wage slave life, just wanna read books and get paid to look pretty.
Feel free to ask me questions, always down to try anything once.
If I'm not at work, I'm probably reading smut or playing video games. Not a huge age difference fan, no more than 5 years or so older than me, and no more than 1 younger.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
96% Rigger
93% Dominant
93% Brat tamer
92% Voyeur
91% Submissive
89% Brat
84% Experimentalist
83% Rope bunny
82% Masochist
72% Master/Mistress
45% Primal (Prey)
45% Sadist
39% Non-monogamist
35% Owner
30% Degradee
28% Degrader
26% Slave
19% Vanilla
19% Primal (Hunter)
17% Exhibitionist
7% Daddy/Mommy
2% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
ENM poly at heart bi/pan political weirdo
union thug far left free palestine trans lives matter and if any of that is off putting dont bother
alcohol free and you dont have to be but if you need to drink or get drunk im not into it (and can tell when someones white knuckling not drinking so dont test your ability to not drink out with me)
learning to live life on lifes terms
just figuring things out
Update: looking for people in my area, not looking for online play or chatting from too far a distance. I visit Toronto and Montreal sometimes, but not looking for long distance pen pals
Hey, nice to meet you!
Unapologetically embracing my curves, I am a Big Beautiful Woman and on a journey of self-discovery. Though I'm still learning and exploring this world, my innate curiosity and openness to new experiences have always been my driving ***. Now, as I steps out of my comfort zone, I am excited to expand my horizons, satisfy my desires, and forge meaningful connections with like-minded individuals.
Hey! I’m currently a student so I at times have quite a busy schedule. I am in an open relationship! I’m also new to the kink community and may not know as much as other. I look forward to getting to know other people and myself ?
i'm not really into *** but i like to try out kinky stuffs: tease & denial,role-play,orgasm control,body worship, light whipping,spanking,tickling,stretching (rack),trimming/shaving,body worship,strap on play,Collar lead and leash,butt plugs,blindfolds,medieval rack,ball gags,sensory deprivation, orgasm delay.
I am looking for a man who from the first moment fills my life with happiness who knows how to make me smile even though I am angry I will always love that special side of a couple) Life always gives us something difficult, life gives us something pleasant or problematic, and always at any moment and any obstacle, every person should have someone nearby who will support you at any moment. I want to feel comfortable with him, I want to feel safe with him. Hmm I think my future man is my strong shoulder, care and support. We are best friends and lovers.
I love to sing, dance, work on myself and strive to be better. I have a kind character, and I am the kind of person who likes to take care of ***s or poor people. I believe that every person deserves a second chance, no matter what has happened in their life.
I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better.
I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch.
Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw.
Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you.
I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.
I am a young but mature, innocent, creative, hard headed, loving, twisted, passionate creature of a woman who has always cared more for others than myself. I've always been the person to take care of everyone else very misunderstood, a different breed you might say Yet people have still somehow been drawn in by my oddities, and over time have grown to care for me to.
I need someone to take care of my needs. a dominate figure who I’ll listen and obey at every turn. I’ll talk back to be put in my place I want sensual with dominance. I want to be treated like a princess and your play toy.
I’m looking for a long term relationship/life partner. Possibly marriage. If I’m really intrigued I might be interested in just a hookup. please no one over 23 I am not interested (0-17❌, 18-22✅, 23+❌)
If you are 25 or older I will not respond to your message. Don’t compliment me. Don’t send me pics. Get to know me. If you are creep, make me uncomfortable or the first thing you say is sexual, you will get reported.
Looking for LTR with a strong Dom. I want a D/s relationship. I know I like some things, I know I want to try other things, I’m open minded to more intense things with instruction…. I have an oral fixation. I want someone to explore limits with but also want someone solid. Someone I can trust and be comfortable with.
I dont bite i promise. Im just sassy and talk too much sometimes.?
im new and inexperienced but i love learning!
Extremely ambitious hope you match that,let me be your first supporter !!?♂️
Love travelling and jumping off cliff(would like for you to jump after me)
Favourite emojis??????
I have two jobs so i can be quite busy
Theres just something about people giving their best selfs into important things in their life
Looking for kink forward people to get back into dating, short to long term.
Living that wage slave life, just wanna read books and get paid to look pretty.
Feel free to ask me questions, always down to try anything once.
If I'm not at work, I'm probably reading smut or playing video games. Not a huge age difference fan, no more than 5 years or so older than me, and no more than 1 younger.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
96% Rigger
93% Dominant
93% Brat tamer
92% Voyeur
91% Submissive
89% Brat
84% Experimentalist
83% Rope bunny
82% Masochist
72% Master/Mistress
45% Primal (Prey)
45% Sadist
39% Non-monogamist
35% Owner
30% Degradee
28% Degrader
26% Slave
19% Vanilla
19% Primal (Hunter)
17% Exhibitionist
7% Daddy/Mommy
2% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
men only please, no couples. no ENM, no affairs, no poly. men ages 28-45 yrs old. I'm playful af and do NOT look or act my age. However i am an adult with good credit and a career. Don't get it twisted ?
I'm discovering that I'm into the dd/lg dynamic and have some experience. I'm a princess sub I think, with service and brat tendencies. i will not be your furniture though haha. Big time praise kink.
***No Men***
I'm not hot enough to be this crazy. Basically I'm real weird and not looking to change that. Just want people that are into it.
I'm a lesbian and a domme/caregiver. MD/lg is probably my biggest kink. I like making things with my hands and world building/tabletop games.
I've been involved in kink for about a decade but don't really consider myself "part of the community" so I'd like to get more involved. Talk and meet people.
Trans. Post op.
I am waking up a part of my desire entering into a new decade of my life.
I am exploring what that looks like, I need very carrying, compassionate people willing to establish emotional connection before we dive into kinky play.
Hey! I’m currently a student so I at times have quite a busy schedule. I am in an open relationship! I’m also new to the kink community and may not know as much as other. I look forward to getting to know other people and myself ?
Hey, nice to meet you!
Unapologetically embracing my curves, I am a Big Beautiful Woman and on a journey of self-discovery. Though I'm still learning and exploring this world, my innate curiosity and openness to new experiences have always been my driving ***. Now, as I steps out of my comfort zone, I am excited to expand my horizons, satisfy my desires, and forge meaningful connections with like-minded individuals.
Bi-curious woman with casual sex friend (heteroflexible man) looking for a feminine third to join in on our play.
Solo, I'm potentially open to other possibilities for fun, but nothing romantic.
I’m not really sure what to put in these descriptions anymore :) Just here to chat and see what’s going on. If you’d like to know more about me I encourage you to send me a DM!
Looking for regular, discreet hook ups. Want to test my limits with someone willing to train and be patient with me. Open to group settings, couples and singles
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Sadist
98% Dominant
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
89% Owner
86% Daddy/Mommy
84% Primal (Hunter)
80% Brat tamer
77% Master/Mistress
35% Experimentalist
29% Ageplayer
19% Vanilla
13% Non-monogamist
4% Exhibitionist
0% Switch
0% Voyeur
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I won't be meeting anyone in person.
Please don't call me any titles (like mistress) in the first messages.
It's okay to send a copy-paste message to me as long as it's something nice and sincere and not "I want you to do this, this and this to me".
I get that I sound very frustrated here but I'm trying to reduce the garbage messages I get.
Also please text me in English.
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I know I'm talking about what I don't want too much. What I DO want is a little subby boy to play with. There's many many things I'm into which I'm too lazy to all put on here...right now at least.The most important kink for me is everything that's satisfying my sadism in some way so basically almost everything *** related. (Other kinks that are currently on my mind a lot are for example petplay and breath control) But in general I feel like I am a very very gentle Dom most of the time and it's very important to me to know that my sub is happy with me. I'm looking for a sweet guy that I can also talk about other things than BDSM with. In my life I currently have a lot of time, in which I mostly don't have a lot that I can do but I watch a lotttt of movies and also I play some games but mainly Minecraft (Of courseee only modded and basically "not vanilla" in every single way). It would be great to find someone who I can play with... If you've read this far and are thinking about texting me, I could tell you that I'd just like to receive a message in which you could maybe talk a little about yourself (just life and personality wise but of course it would also be super interesting for me what you're into kink-wise). Maybe just let me know what you're hoping to find on this platform and why you decided to text me. And, it already makes me feel much better about someone if they read my whole bio. I myself always think a bit better of someone if they put a little more than "open to anything" in their bio.
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I keep changing my bio every week or so but I have to add something else.. The message filter is set up by ME personally. If it doesn't let you through, that means I don't want you to text me, which is most likely age related. And the minimum length of a message is also set up by me, ON PURPOSE so naturally I'm not very pleased about all the people just spamming stuff at the end of their message so it gets through. Why would I even reply to that. Ever. I'd love to set it even higher than 300 characters, it's obviously not long enough.
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Also whatever country and location is shown currently is usually not where I actually live, I keep changing it.
Description
They broke the mold when they made me, because one of me is all this world can handle. Femme fatale. Woman made poetry. Magical and mysterious. Or simply hilarious in pajamas watching Monty Python eating popcorn. I am the girl next door. The philosophical vixen in stilleos, the dancing queen, the healer nude by the fire. I am embodiment of a woman.
Ottawa-Montreal-Toronto-Kingston
Newish to ENM wanting to connect with open minded gentle souls with a feminine vibe that have interest in health, wellness, therapy, music, art, nature, alternative festivals and much more.
My partner and I are loving parents in a nested relationship for 14+ years looking for emotional, intelectual and fun experiences solo or together in a consensual way.
Appreciate relationships that are trauma informed, nurturing, healthy and safe. Interested in taking things in a slow, respectful and gentle way.
Would love to learn Shibari!
If you identify as a ???❤️???♀️ let's hang out and see how it flows.
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