Well… I am learning that I am probably not the typical sub although I can perfectly fit into the ideal image of one… (I’m very obedient if I want you)
I’ve learned I won’t be that sub that will kneel in the middle of a Subway sandwich if you snap me at 7 PM at night telling me to kneel right then and there (by the way my neighbors kid works there…that would have been interesting), I’d much rather you get back to me when you want to hear all about my *** fantasy instead, or to get to know me first… or hear about my occasional desire to be all Vanilla and sit on top of you with you inside me while you tell me not to move, slapping my ass every time I twitch.  There has to be some kind of connection before I start taking orders… I have to be earned, and I’m realizing that may not be typical, but neither am I. The right Dom will adore this.