And what does the unowned sub need? She needs to hear and know your wildest, deepest, darkest fantasies, talk to her… she needs to know exactly what you desire, she hopes what she does instinctively is exactly what you want, she wants to give you absolute pleasure no matter the sacrifice on her end and to know that you adore her for it. She wants to be owned, she wants to be used for your pleasure, she wants to know that you crave how she feels to you, her touch, what her filthy little holes make you feel, and to know that she drives you wildly insane bringing out the beast in you. She wants that veracious, unrelenting hunger of yours to show, she needs it, she craves it, she loves it. 

This unowned sub is not promiscuous and vets her Dom By listening and observing. Tell me exactly what I can do for you. Be raw, be unforgiving, be honest and let go of all your inhibitions. The greatest Dom will still have some reserve… let go of that when you talk to me. Let me know what’s hidden inside of you so I can learn you before you take exactly what you need from me, that’s what I am here for… for your pleasure, for you to control, to be your good girl, for you to own me.

This is how I vet… I need to hear you and I need to see you. I won’t unread your messages, I won’t ignore you, I won’t block you, I won’t deny you access to me in anyway, I will always respond and give you the respect you deserve. Even if we are not a match I will be respectful to you.. I know your place and I know mine.

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Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.

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