I would like explore being a switch in this scenario: dom acts as a caregiver / daddy / mommy for sub / little who is preferably quiet, shy and timid and does everything they're told, but also open to a brat who needs to be put in place. Dom loves, praises, plays with, and looks after sub ensuring all their basic needs are met (getting dressed, food, drink, toilet, comfort, entertainment etc), but also uses sub for sexual satisfaction at any time e.g. as dom, I pick an outfit and dress you, provide meals and drinks and help you consume them, accompany you to the toilet and help, and ensure you are comfortable and entertained e.g. sit you in your favourite spot and put on your favourite show, or play fun games like catch or hide and seek, or just sit and draw and colour. At some point my desire for your pussy scent will become so overwhelming I will have my way with you there and then, no matter what is happening at the time e.g. you're going about your business and I can see you're plump kitty lips bulging through your leggings, or maybe you have a little skirt on and your cute panties are on show, so I kneel in to enjoy your scent and pleasure myself while you stay in position like a good obedient little girl while I praise you for having such a beautiful pussy flower, or perhaps it's toilet time and you are having a wee wee and I can see the cute little panties I picked out for you dangling around your ankles, maybe looking a bit dirty and stinky, so I get down on all fours to enjoy them up close and play with myself while you carry on ing. Depending on your foofoo scent anything could happen from there, if it's disappointing (not strong enough / too strong) I might punish fuck you there and then in your ass / mouth along with some impact play and verbal . If it smells how I like it I will praise and thank you for being so good, and maybe shoot my load wherever I please, on your panties, pussy, face, in your mouth, deep in your ass etc, or if you're lucky I might just treat your lil pussy to some daddy dick, all while calling you daddy's good little girl.

You as dom - If I've been a good boy, I'd love for you to tease me with your smelly panties and suck me. If I've been naughty, face-fuck me with your well scented pussy, or drag me to the bath and give me a ***, or dress me up in your clothes, gag me with your dirty panties, and punish fuck my ass.

I'd love to experiment with your ideas, how would it play out for you?

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 50km around UK Cardiff

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