BDSM Play Partner18 to 40 years ● 45km around UK, Worthing 2 years ago

I am not looking for a kink partner, I am looking for someone who is kinky for a special concept project and I will block anyone who does not read the profile and respond appropriately.

I need someone who is an experienced lead partner dancer - what style you currently dance doesn't matter, but a willingness to learn blues, bachata sensual, and Argentine Tango is required. I do need an experienced dancer, though, because we will be learning some things together and I am not able to teach dance, lead & follow, or connection from the beginning for this project. Also, some comfort with performance is necessary.

You should also be comfortable taking the "top" role in at least one of the following and willing to learn the rest: impact play, restraint, aggressive play, non-consent play, wrestling.

This partner must be willing to commit to attending a variety of workshops with me as a partner, including dance workshops whether either of us knows that style of dance or not, and kink workshops. The purpose is to build our rapport as project partners in addition to learning any new skills necessary (lots of dance classes require the participants to switch partners throughout the class, but I want a dedicated partner for these classes).

I am not looking for a personal dom, but I will accept collaboration with the right partner. We also do not need to be romantic, sexual, or play partners, just comfortable enough to demo / perform together the project I have in mind. I am open to another type of relationship forming if it fits us, but that's a secondary option that I will consider after we have met and started building this project partnership, which is my primary goal.

If our chemistry and compatibility is good, I am also interested in building dance relationships in addition to this project, so an interest in any other style of dance is good for this too. I do lindy, blues, East Coast Swing, bachata, salsa, foxtrot, waltz, hustle, and I have at least tried almost all other partner dance styles out there.

I would like to meet with people and dance with them to see if we have any floor chemistry. If we do, then I will discuss the details of the project.

If you are interested in a project involving dance and kink, you are a dance lead, and you are a kinky top/switch, please contact me either here, on any social media platform where you see my name (I go by Joreth or Joreth Innkeeper everywhere), or hit me up in person if you see me at an event.

If you are just a dancer interested in meeting other dancers for social dancing, also feel free to contact me.

BDSM Play Partner35 to 50 years ● 50km around USA, Winter Haven 2 years ago

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