To me being Dom is knowing what you want and getting it, having it, taking it and owning it all by respectable if needed. Not only to be physically overpowering but intellectually as well. Even if I don’t do anything sexually with a girl I want her to have it in her mind that it could happen at any moment especially when she least expects it. That way she’s always thinking about. Is it going to happen today? Is her hand on my thigh a sign that its going to happen? You’ll see it in her eyes when she watches you. Checking your every move to see what your next move is going to be. Will you take it slow, start with foreplay, or will it be straight to the point down and dirty and rough.I find pleasure in you turning your mind and body over to me. What was once yours is now mine to do as I please. I promise not to hurt you, that is if you follow all the rules. If you misbehave then you will be punished and chances are that it will hurt. I don’t get off on causing you , but how else will you learn? As your Dom I have the responsibility to take care of you, nurture you and protect you. It is not all about the punishments though that is a great part(; it is about about building a trust and a bond and an understanding that you share with no one else. It is about finding who you really are and committing to it. It is about finding your boundaries and breaking them.