I'm a submissive princess - no ifs, buts or maybes.
Don't think that because I'm submissive I'll do what you want. You've got to earn that right and show me I can trust you to have my best interests at heart.
I'm not for the Dom who expects instant submission. I am a warrior princess.
But, once I submit, I'm a gentle soul and need to be cherished, praised and looked after. and are a turn off.
I am looking for a gentleman Dom with an evil streak and fantastic sense of humour for a play partner and friend (not a romantic relationship) - someone who is respectful, makes their submissive feel valued, and encourages them to push their limits. In return, you will have my respect and I will do everything I can to make you proud of me. Inexperienced Doms would not be suitable.

If you think you may wish to play with me, I will do background checks. If no-one has heard of you, or there is any inkling of poor behaviour, then there will be no play. My safety is paramount.

I am married and practise ENM. Both my husband and I are looking for play partners outside of our marriage to expand our experiences and explore our own individual kinks. Be aware that he is my priority at all times.

I will need to get to know you before I decide if we can progress further.
I have my own commitments outside of the lifestyle - please be respectful of this. If you're still reading this and would like to say hello, it would be wonderful to hear from you.
I am very much an advocate of lots of conversation before, during and after play, especially at the beginning of a relationship/partnership. Don't be shy!

BDSM Play Partner35 to 50 years ● 5km around UK, Bracknell Forest 2 years ago

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