I would like explore being a switch in this scenario: dom acts as a caregiver / daddy / mommy for sub / little who is preferably quiet, shy and timid and does everything they're told, but also open to a brat who needs to be put in place. Dom loves, praises, plays with, and looks after sub ensuring all their basic needs are met (getting dressed, food, drink, toilet, comfort, entertainment etc), but also uses sub for sexual satisfaction at any time e.g. as dom, I pick an outfit and dress you, provide meals and drinks and help you consume them, accompany you to the toilet and help, and ensure you are comfortable and entertained e.g. sit you in your favourite spot and put on your favourite show, or play fun games like catch or hide and seek, or just sit and draw and colour. At some point my desire for your pussy scent will become so overwhelming I will have my way with you there and then, no matter what is happening at the time e.g. you're going about your business and I can see you're plump kitty lips bulging through your leggings, or maybe you have a little skirt on and your cute panties are on show, so I kneel in to enjoy your scent and pleasure myself while you stay in position like a good obedient little girl while I praise you for having such a beautiful pussy flower, or perhaps it's toilet time and you are having a wee wee and I can see the cute little panties I picked out for you dangling around your ankles, maybe looking a bit dirty and stinky, so I get down on all fours to enjoy them up close and play with myself while you carry on peeing. Depending on your foofoo scent anything could happen from there, if it's disappointing (not strong enough / too strong) I might punish fuck you there and then in your ass / mouth along with some impact play and verbal ***. If it smells how I like it I will praise and thank you for being so good, and maybe shoot my load wherever I please, on your panties, pussy, face, in your mouth, deep in your ass etc, or if you're lucky I might just treat your lil pussy to some daddy dick, all while calling you daddy's good little girl.

You as dom - If I've been a good boy, I'd love for you to tease me with your smelly panties and suck me. If I've been naughty, face-fuck me with your well scented pussy, or drag me to the bath and give me a golden shower, or dress me up in your clothes, gag me with your dirty panties, and punish fuck my ass.

I'd love to experiment with your ideas, how would it play out for you?

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 50km around UK, Cardiff one year ago

I'm a sane, decent, caring Dom who loves submissive women, slim or slimmish, who can orgasm, or get damned close, through nipple and breast play, whilst tied up. which is not to say any of your other erogenous zones would be neglected, nor does it preclude a hard fucking, either. But breasts and nipples are my joy and focus, so would be a key component of your experience of sexual stimulation and ecstasy.

Although I'm a Dom, you'd not have to do much to please me, I'm quite undemanding in that respect. In fact, you'd be recipient of a lot of pleasure, tied up, , being used by me.

I can crank up the intensity if your limits allow, specifically through whipping your
body, but this is not essential. In any case, I respect all limits, no exceptions, and am leery of even stretching a sub's personal limits, because that sounds like a recipe for ignoring them, which is not how I roll.

I'm a nurse and have a caring streak, so you'd be a well cared for sub and slave, or prisoner if you prefer that dynamic. I don't mean financially, alas (I mentioned i'm a nurse, right? :P ). But you'd feel safe.

Some subs prefer to take on a Master/slave role, and others prefer to assume the role of a prisoner. There's a subtle difference between the two roles which I'd be happy to explore with you.

I'd love an LTR but that is not a requirement.

Outside of bdsm kink I'm a sane, intelligent sensitive guy, confident but caring, cultured, witty and fun.

I go to the gym three times a week, cycle and walk rather than drive, love the outdoors, museums, art, poetry, documentaries rather than drama . That said, I love high quality drama, and am geeky enough to have loved Netflix's Arcane, and I love Lords of the Rings films and art work.

My favourite poets are Larkin, Wordsworth and Elliot, but my favourite poem of all time is "somewhere I have never travelled, gladly beyond" by EE Cummings. Do yourself a favour and read it. Its the most astonishing love poem I've ever read and has haunted me for 20 years.

But hey, wait a minute, this is a BDSM ad. I got distracted - if you're an attractive slim woman, submissive who wants to be tied up and used, whipped, and taken to orgasm by nipple and breast play - contact me! :)

BDSM Play Partner18 to 42 years ● 25km around UK, Birmingham 2 years ago

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