Hi there XD

My name is minx and I'm looking for someone to eventually have in the long run to call my tamer. My Sir. My everything.

I know I am submissive by nature but, And I know I am the same in the bedroom however, I just LOVE when a man can seduce you so sensually to the point where you gladly submit. Someone to detonate the brat bomb. A big fantasy of mine is being seduced and/or romantically courted.

I'm a full on brat! I love it I love being naughty and very silly, but I enjoy being corrected. I love learning, I love to listen. I'm a very good girl and princess If you can get it out of me. I enjoy very knowledgable people. I enjoy a dom's sarcasm, it let's me know that you are playful. I enjoy being made out to become flustered, if you can get me blushing that's half of the fun for me.

I need guidance, I appreciate a stern talking/correction as long as it's paired with softness, and sweetness and kind terms of endearment and a forehead kiss so that I know you don't hate me after i've hid your keys in a very obvious spot for the 2nd time XD and so that I can learn from my mistake, and behave. I need compassion, patience. Strength. Protection. Romance. Someone that I can trust, that if he tells me to do something, that it is for a good reason and that he has my/our best intrest in mind. Someone who is very quick on their toes with their words. Someone that has wit. Someone that can fuck my brain intellectually and have me wrapped around their finger even before they get in my pants. I need someone whom I can give that space to be a true man. a traditional, Daddy dom / Brat tamer. Space to lead, protect. correct. respectfully but sternly. of course. And I need someone who can give me that space to be soft, gentle, sweet, kind. bubbly. bratty and silly.

I am very extremely slightly into a bit of pet play and ddlg, but not too much. I don't care for ageplay, but I enjoy being called little one as well and occasionally regress. Looking for someone who IS emotionally available as well.

I yam

5'2 (very tiny)
curvy (195lbs), brownskin
adorable
easily flustered,, especially at the mention of nsfw things
into art, jazz, culture,, museums, history. nature,, japanese stuffs and things like that
my favorite color is baby pink!
I am emotionally available 100%
I am very cuddly
Very bubbly

Tell me your boundaries. Your comfort, safety and sanity is extremely important to me!
you've gotta be cared for too you know? But I can't do dat if you dont let me innnnn ;3

Also please forgive me, I have 100+ messages and it can be overwhelming at times.. so if i haven't replied that is why.

If all of this sounds like you and more, don't be afraid to say hey!

BDSM Play Partner24 to 37 years ● 5km around USA New York

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