Thank You for looking..
i’m not looking for one offs, i don’t meet straight away, i’m looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
i’m g, i’m submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. i’m looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return i’m looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. i’m not looking for players, i’m not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when i’ll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
i’m not a swinger, i’m not looking to sleep my way through the site…i obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally i’d like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
i’m looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. i’d love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuff… i’ve been hurt, hurt too many times now and i’m not sure i can keep going through that. Yes i’d love to be owned again in the future… but i’m not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. i’m looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and they’ve been destroyed in recent years.
i’m genuine, honest and trustworthy. i’m single and have nothing to hide and i’m happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important things…
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. i’m willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, i’m open and honest about everything and if You can’t afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. i’ve nothing to hide, i really hope You don’t too. Please don’t lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banter… asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
i’m verified, i’m a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, i’m not looking to be “outed”.. my submission doesn’t happen overnight, it requires time. i’m unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. i’m submissive, i’m not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like You’d talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but i’m looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, it’s pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and i’m happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere that’s ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and i’ve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. i’ve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couples… i’ve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. i’m well versed in submitting and i’d like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please don’t let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as i’m told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said “no” to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . i’m clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, i’d like to be made to wear Your marks… i’ve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. i’m an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think it’s the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, it’s hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me it’s about doing as i’m told or doing things i’m made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesn’t always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, i’m not ashamed of it or embarrassed by it… but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put “sub slut” in the subject bar so i know You’ve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi

BDSM Play Partner18 to 60 years ● 170km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne

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