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Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “findom” seeking paypigs, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

In search of mistress or a pair of mistress'
I'm a bit of a pig I'm vulgar and perverted i go to the extreme I'm disobedient naked often i masturbate too much pornography exhibitionist ⁴

Attached is my resume for your perusal.

Name: Shockr
Role application: Daddy

Age: 41
Height: 168cm ( 5'6" )
Length: 20cm ( 8" )
Width: 84cm (slim)
Depth: 'Like, totally deep, man.'
IQ: 137
BMI: 20
IPD: 6.3

Education:
College
School of life
Google

Key Skills:
Writing
Organising
Being silly
Making tea
Reading stories
Cleaning
Remembering names of stuffies
Cooking
Tech support
Being a perv
Opening jars
Grocery shopping
Praising good girls
Vacuuming
Fluffing kitties

Hobbies & Interests:
Sex
Camping
Videogames
We*D (420)
Music
Movies (including Pornhub)
All of the above + sex

Personal Description:

I should start by saying I am in a poly relationship with Sassy13. I'll chat with anyone, but ideally you would enjoy both our company.

I'm the type to ask you if I can make you tea or bring you something. I like cwtches ('cuddles' for non-Welsh folks), and kisses in the morning, all through the day, and saying 'Goodnight' is important. I like the little displays of affection and very much appreciate bedtime rituals etc
I have been told I have a very calm and soothing voice.
I like the DDlg dynamic because I'm a very caring person and get a lot out of rushing to your aid. I also get quite a kick out of being called 'Daddy' (Not right off the bat, there needs to be chemistry)
With that said I'm probably not going to change a soiled nappy ('diaper' for the US folks). Likely more suited to a slightly bratty middle who likes to banter
I'm king of cheesy lines, dad jokes and gutter humor; I apologise in advance
I am very easy to talk to; I will literally talk to anyone. I'm cheeky, sarcastic, flirtatious and mischievous in reasonably equal measure. If I connect with you, I'll probably talk all night.
I'll want to get into your head. I love to have mementos; words, sounds, physical artifacts. Something that keeps me in your memory even when I'm not physically there. I need your mind to submit before your body
I have an insane sex drive - someone once referred to me as 'hypersexual', which I took as a compliment I'd probably say sex is on my mind 75% of the time, with the other 25% being dedicated to trying not to think about sex. Keep up! Haha
Personally, I think foreplay and intimate contact throughout the day is very important, I'm an extremely tactile person. I love to build the tension until we snap and can't hold back.
"Sex at 10pm Wednesdays and Saturdays" does not work for me
Speaking of which, I am also a bit of a nightowl. At 2am I am probably at my PC gaming or smoking a blunt (420-friendly).

Previous Experience:
Aug21-Sept21: Daddy role - Mostly remote temporary contract
Online interaction with fast service level agreement. Several positive face-to-face visits.
Left role due to no prospects of progression

Mar14-May21: Unofficial Daddy role - Permanent on-site
Carried out all duties of home maintenance and personal support.
Left role due to conflicting work-ethic

Character References:
LittlePinkPanda [fetlife/users/739227]
"He once put his arm out to make sure I was protected from moving cars"

Cariad [fetlife/users/13329345]
"His voice is very Daddy like when he's talking. Calm, soft, its nice to listen to."

(For anyone still wondering if this is serious. You're probably going to struggle with my terrible sense of humour )

I may be unexperienced but Ive done trying to get into the lifestyle for years. I am extremely submissive and Ill try almost anything twice. Really into feminization, abdl, and petplay but more than up to be whatever my master/mistress wants me to be.

I am in the market for a partner/ boyfriend preferably to keep in chastity. Tall, handsome and under the age of 50. Must be extremely attentive. Look and smell amazing. Hygiene needs to be impeccable with as little hair as possible. Your role will be to be not only my submissive but also potentially my partner. I expect dates and all the trimmings. In return you are in a femdom relationship. It will be exclusive for you anyway xxx

Wanting kinky partner into more extreme side of things , fisting , gaping , asshole eating , buttplugs , insertions , anal sex , hard pounding , switch , pegging , ass to mouth, deep throat, waters watersports and rimming

Ok so I’m looking for a lady or group of ladies to splosh with. I can provide all the mess and host.

So read on and if this appeals you, get in touch…

If you don’t know what it is, this is how I describe it to anyone..

It’s getting wet and messy with each other, nothing gross, television style gunge/ slime (I order from the same place that supplies television game shows). And sweet food like squirty cream.

You can get messy however you like, through playing games (loser gets messy), role play scenarios, bdsm, *** and degrading. It can be done in so many ways depending on your other kinks.

The main idea is at least one person ends up messy and if you choose to, naked. And it can lead to amazing sex too.

I have a massive inflatable pool and loads of gunge for playing in.

There’s also a more extreme version involving BDSM.

It’s quite kinky

I've been searching for someone dominant that is comfortable with / like a more extreme type of cnc kink. Like no limits but yours. You're in control, and do whatever you like. If you're curious, game, or want more details hit me up. Let see if we can arrange something

Played and had a relationship with a Mistress and a sub.
Very open minded and enjoy the company of other kinky fun people.
A naughty imagination and love most type of kink apart from the extremes.
Just fun in the end.

I have an extreme healthy sexual appetite wishing to explore all of it.
To the point …

I'm not here for long drawn out conversations or pen pals......nor am I interested in a bunch of messages filled with "if's" and "maybe's", as it relates to whether or not you want to get together.....you know what you're looking for and so do I, so we can establish some mutual interest within a few short messages then go from there (whether it's straight to the sheets or meet up in a public place for a drink or 2 before getting down & dirty).

It's ok with me if you're not local......I don't mind hitting the road and traveling for the right playmate but my goal isn't to keep the hotel industry in business so if you don't have a place of your own for us to play at when I get there, alternate getting a room OR at least pay for half of it OCCASIONALLY.......and if I do travel to you, be prepared to give up a number so I can call you

I’m an older bbw sub with some shyness.
I can be bratty/cheeky, brusque and sarcastic but I am loyal and caring.

Needing an understanding, flexible and tolerant Dom for a long term monogamous arrangement.
My experiences have been limited in this life, so I need someone that can work with and around this.
I would be willing to experience new things but I have my limits and this needs to be followed.
Nothing to extreme but we can chat about our limits together.

Regular dating to fit around our current daily life. A romance with spice for each of us!
A relationship built on mutual trust, honesty, respect and communication.

I am NOT interested in fwb or ons set up.
NO married or attached men at all.

The above obviously means that reasonable distance would be best otherwise what’s the point?!

Anyone else is welcome to contact for online friendship, advice and chat.
Be respectful.

We can host and have experience! Zara is new to kink and exploring, come explore with her...

K!k: ZeroAndZara (No males, sorry)

We’re a very relaxed and slightly posh professional couple looking for friends to play with, and maybe more depending on how things go... We prefer sub girls but would love to explore with you. No couples, sorry!

Her: 30, 5ft9, athletic build, switch, exploring kink and BDSM, needs a sub***!
You'll like her if: You love literature, culture, fine art, cuddles after play

Him: 31, 6ft, slim build, Dom, extremely kinky
You'll like him if: You want a Dom, are a bit of a geek, love rugby

I am looking for a collar, a cage, an owner, and to be a good boy.

I can work from anywhere and want to dedicate myself in service and slavery to helping make my owners dreams real.

I am in a unique place where I am strong, single, and can support a dream fetish life.

I want my partner in evil to enjoy all the good.


Talk to me.. you will find me extremely knowledgeable, well geared, an impeccable servant, and tons of intelligent fun <3

Hi, I'm looking for an experienced female sub to explore an extreme role play with

Hi, I am looking for an experienced sub to explore an extreme roleplay

Open to casual through to commitment depending on person, circumstance and feels.
Often, I get asked to steer or lead (or even navigate), and that's fun but honestly, that's never been something I would have insisted on. I find topping relatively natural but y'know, it can sometimes lack freshness.
Have always been a fan of certain consensual non-consent games and am now becoming more than curious about the paths not taken.
*NB**: I have no wish to take anyone, anywhere that they do not wish to go, yet I do love intensity, going to extremes, wherever they may be.

Things that interest me start with intensity, the kind of connection where getting into someone's head &/or having them in yours seems palpable & very, very personal. I answer to a wide range of fetishes, sensual seduction & intimate, evocative drama/roleplay.
...Allways, in the service of fun.

Often people come to play with roles mapped out. I would speak up in favour of exploration. Discovery can be so hot! ...so can vulnerability. I tend to need to meet a person before I really know the strength or the details of what I'll be interested in. But I'm interested in a lot of things.
That applies should we become casual, considered, or committed. Yes, w' the right person I'm open to any or stepping through them to find out for that matter.

Willing to go just about any place that really works for someone because when it really works for someone, it almost doesn't matter what you are doing but only how well you do it, how big your leap is and how invested you are.
I do have some favourite places though...

can't see who spanks or visits my profile, message me if you're interested i don't bite.

,Hi, I'm debs from Sheffield UK. New just joined, I'm on FL and CS and decided to give here a try,

20+ yrs Real time as sub/slave, mostly long term owners. Had a break now looking for serious Dominants, sadists, mild to extreme, hopefully for long term.
Few limits, safewords optional, Edge, CNC, RACK, TPE, Extreme, wonderful keywords.

Couples, singles, any gender welcome.

Easy going, fun loving, friendly and good humored. Highly educated and technically smart, geeky,... own boss in a multi skilled high tech engineering field.

Male or female mode to suit you no worries either way... I have an extensive fem wardrobe, regular to leather rubber gimp/doll, high stilettos to ballet heels.

I have to live and work in male persona so this isn't an issues if fem not wanted.

Can travel easily, multi day stayover scenes possible, cannot accommodate though sorry.

I'm an intelligent, creative, experienced masochist, submissive, brat, who enjoys all things D/s related, interesting conversation and many other deviant and non-deviant activities. Things I'm interested at the moment include: body modification, scenarios, CNC, mental, physical and emotional sadism, group play d * and gang bangs, This is by no means an exhaustive list, but just gives an idea of what's been itneresting me lately.

I'm looking for someone preferably around 30 - 50 years old, but I will consider anyone I find interesting and who is interested in developing something long term and can stimulate and challenge me. Domination happens in the mind, not the body and each D/s dynamic is unique. This understanding and approach to Ds is crucial for me. With the right dynamic almost anything is possible, with the wrong one, almost nothing is.

My preferences are towards the more extreme aspects of Ds and I'm hoping to find someone who is able to take me there. Having a vivid imagination myself, creativity with the D/s relationship is important to me. I have experience but I believe that imagination is much more important. Why talk about what you have experienced already when you could talk about what might happen? So much more interesting.

Domish tactile, loving, affluent, sane male seeks a loving, loyal partner, between 35-55 for a full-time, long term re/ship encompassing both sides of the coin.

im a single professional male 6ft 2in (ex professional dancer / model) well built, blue eyes, short hair, solvent, single, sane, clean cut, very caring, very romantic, sometime gym goer ;-) oh and great cook.
i am defiantly a natural alpha male type and in todays world of superficial rubbish i am a great believer in actions rather than words.!
I am currently working in FM and property development, i prefer old to new builds, open fires over central heating and real honest people to fakes.
my list of likes may be narrow but I’m a big boy and old enough to know what i like and what i don’t like..)

im seeking a partner who is-
intelligent (the brain is still the largest sexual organ in the body)
well-dressed
feminine (loves being a woman likes makeup, perfume, feminine lingerie, very high heels etc)
an open attitude towards everything and relaxed with her own sexuality (goes without saying)
slim to athletic only 6-8-10-12 (i prefer a toned or gym goer type body but natural slim athletic is fine also)

In return for your love and trust you will receive a faithful loving partner who will care and build a full time loving mono relationship (fidelity is extremely important to me will not consider a bed hopper)

im a single professional male 6ft 2in (ex professional dancer / model) well built, blue eyes, short hair, solvent, single, sane, clean cut, very caring, very romantic, sometime gym goer ;-) oh and great cook.
i am defiantly a natural alpha male type and in todays world of superficial rubbish i am a great believer in actions rather than words.

im seeking a partner who is-
intelligent (the brain is still the largest sexual organ in the body)
well-dressed
feminine (loves being a woman likes makeup, perfume, feminine lingerie, very high heels etc)
an open attitude towards everything and relaxed with her own sexuality (goes without saying)
slim to athletic only 6-8-10-12 (i prefer a toned or gym goer type body but natural slim athletic is fine also)

In return for your love and trust you will receive a faithful loving partner who will care and build a full time loving mono relationship (fidelity is extremely important to me will not consider a bed hopper)

Largely inexperienced young dom based in Trowbridge, Wiltshire, seeking a sub who loves to get tied up and gagged - that's my primary turn on. Perhaps welcoming to a bit of *** too, although nothing extremely heavy, and this isn't necessary anyway.

I'm rather open minded about fantasies and I don't mind if this is light dom/subbing or something heavier like CNC, which I admit does appeal to me.

I'm about 5'11'' on the cusp of 6', brown hair and eyes, and in my vanilla life I am obsessed with all sorts of music.

I'm in Central Arkansas. I love to perform Cunnilingus. I'm a really sweet guy.
I like mean girls who would enjoy humiliating me. I like merciless tease and denial. Id like to be in the next room listening to her being thoroughly satisfied. Afterwards, I'd eagerly and thoroughly service her and lick up the creampie. I'm open to anything really. Pm me please.

I'm looking for an attractive, open minded, adventurous, and very kinky woman to explore our kinky desires with. i love to please a woman or women and am very oral, extremely kinky open minded and adventurous

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Hey everyone, i am Genderfluid Bondage Submissive/Pup looking for owner(s) and handler(s), my experience so far has not been so stable in the mono relations so i wouldnt mind trying Poly
I dont know what else to really to write being that i suck with this dating stuff

Mainly i am here to get to know people and find people that i can possibly get into a serious relationship with as their mate and pet maybe slave.

One idea i really like is always on a leash and silent and even with my pup hood on with a dog muzzle sorta thing and i have a fantasy to maybe even go as far as getting an ear tattoo or ear tag for that perfect someone or couple to rub in the mornings to remind me i belong to them. (And i am actually afraid of needles or generally anything that penetrates skin) i also fantasize about a nearly 24/7 in depth role as a pup (learn to track hunt do show and agility)... but i do understand that it is not 100% possible as life is a thing.

I am really weird in alot of ways, and many have said they like that about me. willing to try new things and some crazy things. but i am really touchy on trust and honesty, meaning they are EXTREMELY important to me and it does sometime take a while for me to get comfortable with anyone. i try not to hide things. but i also have a tendancy to say exactly whats on my mind with no filter or hesitation. so meeting as friends and doing vanilla people stuff (lol) is a good start like going for a drive exploring, coffee, helping you do things like work or beating that over powered boss on your video game

I do live in Aldergrove quite a ways from main roads or malls and do not go out much currently (at least until i can pass my damn roadtest) but i can host.



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57% Exhibitionist
56% receiver
53% Brat
53% girl/boy
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