Looking for adventurous partners who are eager to explore and connect. I'm a pleasure dom who thrives on creating a safe, judgment-free space where you can relax, let go, and embrace your curiosities. If you're someone who finds joy in being in control most of the time but craves a place to let the dominant side rest, I’m here to help you unwind and discover new pleasures.

I’ve dipped my toes into the world of kink for a while now, but I’m always eager to dive deeper and explore what lies beneath the surface. My experience is light but meaningful—I’ve enjoyed being a guide, teacher, mentor, and even a daddy to those who appreciate structure mixed with care. While my focus is on creating comfort and building trust, I’m also curious to explore more. Breath play, impact play, and a variety of sensations are all areas that intrigue me, and I’d love to share that journey with an eager, like-minded partner.

As a gentleman and deep thinker, I appreciate deep conversations and connection beyond just the physical. I’m drawn to the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship—understanding what excites you, what you’re passionate about, and how we can blend that into a fulfilling dynamic. I find intelligence incredibly sexy, and I enjoy exchanging ideas, learning about new experiences, and deepening my understanding of the people I’m with. If you’re a sapiophile, we’ll have plenty to talk about.

Outside of kink, I’m a lover of life’s pleasures—good food, excellent wine, thoughtful movies, and gorgeous scenery. Whether it’s a low-key dinner at a local spot or a weekend getaway filled with beautiful views, I’m someone who enjoys creating memorable experiences in and out of the bedroom. I’m just as excited to take part in playful, spontaneous adventures as I am to curl up and enjoy a bottle of wine with someone who appreciates life’s finer things.

I'm also open to couples' play with one of my subs, if that's something you're interested in exploring.

If you’re ready for a partner who can help you explore the depths of your desires while offering you a place to simply be, then let’s talk. Whether you're looking for new experiences or craving a little more structure, I'm here to guide and support you as we explore together.

Kinky Date18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Milwaukie

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