Humans are creatures of comfort and familiarity.
I see you. The married woman browsing this app, dreaming of what could have been. The younger woman desperately seeking acceptance and acknowledgment in an ever growing world of options. The lonely woman pretending to be content living alone and having meaningless flings to fill the void.
Each story is different but tragically the same.
You lack the willpower to leave your narcissistic partner. You lack the courage to begin a journey if the path isn't already known. Day and night, you dream of the perfect partner, a Dominant that fits all of your criteria, to swoop in and rescue you from monotony.
Be honest with yourself. If happiness requires sacrifice, are you willing to take the step? Trust your instinct. Your heart knows what you want.
You just need to have faith in it. You are the reason you are searching. You are the reason you are lonely. You allow distance to hinder your happiness, yet planes exist. You allow your beliefs to cement your feet, yet don't take the time to understand another's.

A BDSM, D/s, DDIg, M/s dynamic is substantially more difficult than a vanilla relationship. Why make it more difficult with excuses. Trusting another enough to be completely *** is one of the most difficult things you can do.
Women/woman/girls, let your heart escape mediocrity. You only have a brief moment of existence on this ball of earth and water. Will you look back and smile at the life you had because you took a chance at happiness?

NSA18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London

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    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.