I am a black man, 5’'11" tall, 280 Lbs with black hair (currently wore shaved), and deep brown eyes. An ex-powerlifter I'm somewhat soft around the middle but still as strong as an ox. (Yes, I'm big but I'm working on reaching proper WPH.) I'm clean, vasectomy safe, emotionally stable, dependable, honest, patient, loyal, considerate, supportive, loving, and affectionate, fun-loving, and have a good sense of humor.

I am a strict, fair, and demanding Dom and as such I will be the final authority on the limits/parameters of your training, discipline, punishments, rules, and pleasures. Understanding, of course, that such limits and rules will depend on your gifts and any mutually agreed upon standards/rules we've established beforehand.) I play safe and sane. Your safety and well-being will be my primary concern and responsibility. Your primary responsibility will be to serve and please me.

My Ideal Person: You are a submissive female with an ardent desire to please. You have a wee bit of masochist in your nature as well and you find joy in serving. You are at peace with yourself and your sexuality.

Every day, you may be a mother, wife, daughter, career girl, student, boss, white-collar exec, blue-collar drone, waitress, butcher, baker, or candlestick maker…. etc. You are emotionally stable, dependable, honest, patient, loyal, considerate, open-minded, supportive, loving, and affectionate, fun-loving, and have a good sense of humor. (You are not a hater, nor are you bitter or negative)

Kinky Date20 to 65 years ● 150km around USA Houston

I'm going to warn you now this might be quite a read.

Hello! My name is James and I am 30 years old and about six feet tall with brownish-black hair and brown eyes. I've been in love with the ABDL and DD/lg world for as long as I can remember. The most important aspect to me is taking care of someone precious, providing guidance and direction, and having fun with the "little" things in life.

If I can make you smile on a daily basis I will consider that a great day. My friends would consider me kind, caring, open-minded, and honest. I am an avid gamer and love games like Minecraft, Fallout, and even some awesome Japanese role-playing games. I am a huge dork and love strategy games like Magic the Gathering and Dungeons and Dragons.

For all you Disney lovers out there I know this might come as a shock but I have not seen a lot of Disney movies. I plan to patiently wait, looking forward to watching these with my future little and seeing the joy on her face as she watches them.

Some things I'm looking for in my future little:

Kitchen Mischief, doing things like baking cookies or having you be my little helper. AKA stirring and eating out of the bowl when I'm not looking. Ill of course make sure you're safe throughout.

Adventure Seeker, going on magical adventures to the park, through nature, or even playing pretend.

Story Listener, Someone I can read stories to each night.

Artist, I want a little I can get drawn pictures from and even hang them on the fridge because I think all little artwork is fridge worthy.

Potty Monster, We know the potty can be scary. I won't always be able to scare the potty monster away in time. So we may need to look at another protection method. I must state that I am into ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) meaning I would love to put my little into diapers.

The best way to look at it, when she is little I would love to be relied on for everything. While ABDL and DD/lg are a big part of what I'm looking for in a relationship, it's not everything.

I want somebody I can text and even talk to daily. I want to hear about your day and what's going on in your life. I want someone with a kind heart who will talk about what's on their mind, to share passions with.

If you have made it this far thank you I hope to hear from you and please even if you're not sure or are too shy. Please keep in mind I will respond to every message I get. Meeting new people can be difficult, I'm open to whatever you'd like to do. If you'd like we could just play a game, or you could show me your stuffies, we don't even have to chat about anything.

TL/DR;

PLEASE BE 18 + AND BE WILLING TO VERIFY

Daddy Seeking Little - Preferably between 22-30

I know it's long but I'd appreciate it if you read the entire post.

Looking for a Long Term Relationship, not just quick Roleplay

Kinky Date18 to 30 years Canada Brampton

Hi! I have a very high sex drive and adore women. I love foreplay and pleasuring women. I am well endowed and have been complimented a lot on my sexual abilities.
I have had several long term partners in the past and prefer that to quick hookups. I am not looking for something deep and meaningful at the moment just someone to have long term fun with. But who knows where that will lead.
I like exploring someone sexually and find it mentally fulfilling as the more you know someone the more I can excite them and turn them on easier. I think sex and orgasms are more mental than physical so until you are in someones head you cannot get that fulfilment.
Once I know someone I love using that knowledge to orgasm them over and over. I get a kick out of finding out those buttons and spots that I can play with to excite someone. Its a lot more pleasurable for me to orgasm with someone who is already very excited. Feeling a tight wet pussy orgasming on my cock is such a turn on.
If you both haven't got wobbly legs by the time you have finished then something has gone wrong.
Dont get me wrong it doesn't have to be full on every time, the odd quicky or grope on the sofa is good, but also I like to make sure I press ALL the buttons quite frequently.
I do have quite a high sex drive and I hope I can can find someone to match. I think this has not helped in past relationships where I have more needs than my partner. I am not upset about having to sort myself out occasionally but some women feel like this is not acceptable. I love foreplay and especially giving erotic massages. I have very warm and healing hands and love rubbing soft warm naked skin.
I dont have many donts. I am very keen to try new things and love mixing up positions, but I always do come back to my favourite as doggy. I get so much pleasure from that. I get so much depth and control.
Anyway enough about me waffling on. I would love to hear from you. I am very open honest and easy going. Please drop me a line and I will reply. xx
PS. I have a goatee. Reading a few profiles I guess its a marmite thing. If it did come to it I can shave it off! I would sooner have a sex partner than a goatee! :-/
For reference. I have my own teeth, my own hair, I own a car and house, I shower at least once a day and like to dress and smell nice. I have a 7 inch cock that I find the perfect size to reach all those important places.

BDSM Play Partner40 to 60 years ● 10km around UK Nottingham

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.


I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.


First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.


Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.


For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.


I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.


She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.


I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

BDSM Play Partner5km around USA Brooklyn

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 53 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.

I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.

First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.

Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.

For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.

I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.

She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.

I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

BDSM Play Partner5km around USA Brooklyn

PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF

  • YOU HAVE READ AND COMPREHENDED MY ENTIRE PROFILE
  • YOU LIVE LESS THAN AN HOUR FROM THE LANCASTERMANHEIM AREA
  • YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 32 AND 52
  • YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED IN ANY OTHER WAY
  • NO OR HAVE FLOWN THE COUP
  • YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
    (I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)

    My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.

    I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.

    Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.

    I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.

    While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.

    I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.

    I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.

    I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.

    For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.

    I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.

    On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.

    For non-kink interests...
    I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.

    I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.

    I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.

    Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly
    ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.

    I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.

    Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.

    I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.

    I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.

    I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.

    I look forward to any sincere messages.

Kinky Date32 to 52 years ● 50km around USA Manheim

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