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I’m A Straight guy but I Love Dominant Women. I’m open to try a lot of things. I have a Foot Fetish and a Bit of a Bully and Humil Kink so by all means have your fun.

I’m 50, experienced, but kids took the wife and I out of the game a long time ago. They’re almost grown now, and I’m (with permission) looking for a little taste of the old life. Clean, ddf, have means, and am seriously kinky. I’m into a lot of different kink, almost anything shy of , but holds a special place for me, so I listed it large as a kind of filter. But there’s a lot of fun stuff we can do while we . But as for the , I’ll drink yours, you drink mine, I’ll fill your holes with it, you fill mine (if possible). We’ll trade it, share it, play in it. Boys, girls, boys that like being girls, girls that like being boys, you’re all welcome. You tell me what you’d like to do or have done to you and I’ll let you know if we can do that! Drop me a line.

DS relationship is basically about submission and obedience against unconditional love and care.
A true master is a loving gentleman who express his love in a passionate and possessive way.
Looking for a meaningful relationship with a senior obedient subslut .

Looking for a real female sub who is matured past high school thinking and has a conversation with someone instead of solely judging by looks. I mean how would you feel if people judged you by your looks rather than speak to you and get to know you.

I’ve come to learn what I like and don’t like, to me it’s just as important what you’re like outside the bedroom as inside, to me a sub should
Be creative, sure, confident, submit the sexual side, I’ve had to many subs that I personally find boring, yes its d/s relationship but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have ideas, suggestions, fantasies of your own, I don’t want a “I don’t mind” girl.


Respectful sane guy looking for people local to Southampton for dates and more, ideally submissive in the bedroom, smart, funny and polite. Let’s grab a drink / coffee and make some connections,
Into bondage, restraints, sparking, role play and much much more.
Far more turned on by intelligence and ability to
Hold a conversation, the bedroom stuff comes later, i don’t think submissive is fun outside of the bedroom, I want your input, ideas and suggestions for things, dates, fun creativity.

(I’m divorced with kids, don’t want more, just to save time)

Hello if your like to have lots of orgasm and down rite fun in every way the word means then I'm your guy girl

Translated into English using «Google Translate»:

Hello beautiful Mistress.
I can, at my own expense, come to any Mistress living in any country of the world for permanent or temporary residence in her country, provided that she provides me with housing and renders me all possible assistance for my successful adaptation in her country of residence.
If You can provide me with accommodation for my residence in Your country and want to meet with me, write to me and I will come to You. The longer You allow me to live in the housing provided by You, the higher the probability of our meeting will be.
You can not provide me with housing, but simply arrange a job for me in the country of your residence. In this case, the company-employer will provide me with corporate housing, as well as pay for my travel to the city where you live.

Now I would like to tell You a little about myself:
I am an amateur athlete who has set several world sports records, the full list of which is indicated at the end of this questionnaire. I also very rarely get sick (in the last 8 years I got sick only once).
My work fits in my laptop, so I can move freely around the world and live in Your country of residence for as long as You want.
Despite the fact that I have the means to come to You, I am still very limited financially and will not refuse any possible assistance from You regarding my arrival to You. If You agree to help me in my visit to You, please let me know how You can help me. Also, please let me know for how long You can provide me with accommodation and whether You charge a fee for the accommodation You provide. If You plan to charge for my accommodation in the accommodation You provided me, I will not be able to come to You.
Perhaps in the future I will not need to provide any assistance for my arrival to You, but at the moment - it is necessary.


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If you live in the territory of the "Cayman Islands", then this will facilitate our meeting, since I would like to get a Caribbean passport.

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My sports achievements I have set many world records.
Among them there are world records in exercises:
"Squats with a barbell of 60 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 61.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 62.50 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 63.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 65 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 66.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 67.5 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a barbell of 68.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a 70 kg barbell for the number of repetitions in one set."

I have broken one world record in the Guinness Book of Records. For the rest of the exercises, only non-official records were set and broken by me, the videos of which were searched for on various video hosting sites.
Unfortunately, due to lack of time, I was not able to film my latest achievements in sports. In this regard, at the moment, only my sporting achievements, which have long been outdated, are posted on the Internet, which, nevertheless, in the world, in my opinion, no one has yet surpassed. At the moment, I can do the exercises that are now posted on the Internet with much better results. (I will send You links to videos with my sporting achievements if You want.).
I also have good results in the exercise “Push-ups from the floor in a shortened amplitude” (I never filmed this exercise at all and there is not a single video on the Internet that would have filmed this exercise in my performance). I am progressing regularly and will most likely be able to set a world record in this exercise too (unless it takes me a lot of time to complete, which I have very little).
In the future, I plan to continue setting world sports records.

: A perso who would come to random locations n smoke an jerk me off I mean I need a good emptying

Looking for a strong dominating women who will bend me over and show my little boi pussy the true meaning of submission

Looking for a mummy domme to spend some time with to look after me while being soft yet strict kind but mean someone who understands that I'm poly and have a daddy too and works together with him to make sure I'm a good girl

Just a little sub girl trying to find a big mean master

I want to meet a guy who wants to do the whole thing, and I don't just mean bdsm out of the bedroom as well!
I'm looking for a relationship because I think that a connection via kink and common things has got to be the way forward.

I like movies and walks and love all ***s and yeah I can be real goofy and dumb but I want a dom who will take that in their stride. Looking for a dominant who might have a small daddy side but only because I can be a little when I get really stressed or triggered. Sorry this is so long but I'm tired of having conversations which end as soon as I explain what I'm looking for. Despite me having my wants on my page...

Hit me up for a kinky date

Had a regular hookup recently that has introduced me to this world and opened my eyes to the sub I am. That means I am still ignorant of a lot of things but I'd love to have a strong Dom show me more. I really enjoy giving myself to someone completely and worshiping them.

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39% Brat
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I am a South Asian and 28 yrs old. I want to dominate a women by all means. I'm exploring this platform, curious being looking for a good time. Hit me up in DM, we can work something out ! Let's explore together.

I am looking for someone who likes variety when it comes to being dominated. I like to try things. Sometimes I research/think about things to try for a week before I finally do it. I love choking, spanking, and using restraints. I also really like anal but it’s not a deal breaker if that is not your thing. I am a genuinely nice guy who loves dominating a good girl 😏. I am a bit of a sadist but I love when we are both having a good time so I always do my best to pay attention to what you do and don’t like. I have been with women in their mid 30s so age doesn’t mean too much to me. Message me if you are in my area and this sounds like a good time. We can enjoy dinner first.

1:We are in a committed D/s relationship and are seeking an exceptional Beta female atm to join us we are in No HURRY! would like to take things slow
This Means if your just looking for anything like a quick fix you will be dissapointed

2. Respect our dynamic and message ME if you have any questions of any nature regarding either of us.
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Rebelling against the machine by sticking to the human things: wine, song, and bad poetry.

For 2021, I'm a Luddite; meaning I never know what's hot on television or who's in the top forty, but, it comes with being someone who drives stick, barrels down coal alleys in a forty year old Jeep, makes better popcorn than Orville, and can tend bar better than Tom Cruise.

Aquarius ♒ in the Age of Aquarius.

Looking to give that special "bring out the gimp" kind of love. 🔐💘😉

I'm going to warn you now this might be quite a read.

Hello! My name is James and I am 30 years old and about six feet tall with brownish-black hair and brown eyes. I've been in love with the ABDL and DD/lg world for as long as I can remember. The most important aspect to me is taking care of someone precious, providing guidance and direction, and having fun with the "little" things in life.

If I can make you smile on a daily basis I will consider that a great day. My friends would consider me kind, caring, open-minded, and honest. I am an avid gamer and love games like Minecraft, Fallout, and even some awesome Japanese role-playing games. I am a huge dork and love strategy games like Magic the Gathering and Dungeons and Dragons.

For all you Disney lovers out there I know this might come as a shock but I have not seen a lot of Disney movies. I plan to patiently wait, looking forward to watching these with my future little and seeing the joy on her face as she watches them.

Some things I'm looking for in my future little:

Kitchen Mischief, doing things like baking cookies or having you be my little helper. AKA stirring and eating out of the bowl when I'm not looking. Ill of course make sure you're safe throughout.

Adventure Seeker, going on magical adventures to the park, through nature, or even playing pretend.

Story Listener, Someone I can read stories to each night.

Artist, I want a little I can get drawn pictures from and even hang them on the fridge because I think all little artwork is fridge worthy.

Potty Monster, We know the potty can be scary. I won't always be able to scare the potty monster away in time. So we may need to look at another protection method. I must state that I am into ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) meaning I would love to put my little into diapers.

The best way to look at it, when she is little I would love to be relied on for everything. While ABDL and DD/lg are a big part of what I'm looking for in a relationship, it's not everything.

I want somebody I can text and even talk to daily. I want to hear about your day and what's going on in your life. I want someone with a kind heart who will talk about what's on their mind, to share passions with.

If you have made it this far thank you I hope to hear from you and please even if you're not sure or are too shy. Please keep in mind I will respond to every message I get. Meeting new people can be difficult, I'm open to whatever you'd like to do. If you'd like we could just play a game, or you could show me your stuffies, we don't even have to chat about anything.

TL/DR;

PLEASE BE 18 + AND BE WILLING TO VERIFY

Daddy Seeking Little - Preferably between 22-30

I know it's long but I'd appreciate it if you read the entire post.

Looking for a Long Term Relationship, not just quick Roleplay

I’m an older bbw sub with some shyness.
I can be bratty/cheeky, brusque and sarcastic but I am loyal and caring.

Needing an understanding, flexible and tolerant Dom for a long term monogamous arrangement.
My experiences have been limited in this life, so I need someone that can work with and around this.
I would be willing to experience new things but I have my limits and this needs to be followed.
Nothing to extreme but we can chat about our limits together.

Regular dating to fit around our current daily life. A romance with spice for each of us!
A relationship built on mutual trust, honesty, respect and communication.

I am NOT interested in fwb or ons set up.
NO married or attached men at all.

The above obviously means that reasonable distance would be best otherwise what’s the point?!

Anyone else is welcome to contact for online friendship, advice and chat.
Be respectful.

Hi! I have a very high sex drive and adore women. I love foreplay and pleasuring women. I am well endowed and have been complimented a lot on my sexual abilities.
I have had several long term partners in the past and prefer that to quick hookups. I am not looking for something deep and meaningful at the moment just someone to have long term fun with. But who knows where that will lead.
I like exploring someone sexually and find it mentally fulfilling as the more you know someone the more I can excite them and turn them on easier. I think sex and orgasms are more mental than physical so until you are in someones head you cannot get that fulfilment.
Once I know someone I love using that knowledge to orgasm them over and over. I get a kick out of finding out those buttons and spots that I can play with to excite someone. Its a lot more pleasurable for me to orgasm with someone who is already very excited. Feeling a tight wet pussy orgasming on my cock is such a turn on.
If you both haven't got wobbly legs by the time you have finished then something has gone wrong.
Dont get me wrong it doesn't have to be full on every time, the odd quicky or grope on the sofa is good, but also I like to make sure I press ALL the buttons quite frequently.
I do have quite a high sex drive and I hope I can can find someone to match. I think this has not helped in past relationships where I have more needs than my partner. I am not upset about having to sort myself out occasionally but some women feel like this is not acceptable. I love foreplay and especially giving erotic massages. I have very warm and healing hands and love rubbing soft warm naked skin.
I dont have many donts. I am very keen to try new things and love mixing up positions, but I always do come back to my favourite as doggy. I get so much pleasure from that. I get so much depth and control.
Anyway enough about me waffling on. I would love to hear from you. I am very open honest and easy going. Please drop me a line and I will reply. xx
PS. I have a goatee. Reading a few profiles I guess its a marmite thing. If it did come to it I can shave it off! I would sooner have a sex partner than a goatee!
For reference. I have my own teeth, my own hair, I own a car and house, I shower at least once a day and like to dress and smell nice. I have a 7 inch cock that I find the perfect size to reach all those important places.

OK, so starting from fresh. Going to delete all my messages, so message me by all means but let’s act like we’ve never had contact before. Why? It’s part of my game, also shows me who wants to play? Play what I hear you ask? Well, quite simply I want to punish you, tease you! There’s no sex, no oral, in fact the less contact the better, I do CFNM play, voyeurism, cock slapping, ball squeezing, that sort of thing, and if yiur down for filming it, even better. Married men and over 50’s get preference. In fact, don’t bother messaging if:
You’re under 40
Not in a realistic distance, especially if tou not even in England!
You want sex or BJ
You want cybersex or dirty talk
And please please please don’t ask me how I’m finding it on her, I have been on here for years! Don’t ask me what I’m looking for either!

I'm someone who would like to experience more, Please don't be immediately mean or rude, be respectful and don't be expecting or asking for *** of any kind from me. Would love to meet more people as long as they're interesting enough and are actually accepting and open with others. Hmu to know more.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.


I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.


First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.


Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.


For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.


I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.


She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.


I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 53 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.

I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.

First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.

Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.

For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.

I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.

She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.

I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.