I value consent, communication, and trust above all in a relationship. As a dom, I lean towards a more strict and controlling dynamic, preferring to express my dominance through firm yet consensual actions such as hair pulling, throat squeezing, spanking, and pinning against the wall, among other things. Equally important to me is the psychological aspect of dominance. Dominating someone’s mind is a powerful way to deepen submission. I consider aftercare an essential practice. It is a time for us to reconnect, reflect on the experience, and make sure we both feel safe and cared for. This balance of control and care, the physical and the psychological, defines my approach to being a dom. If you are to be my sub, I will do my best to care for you. I am flexible and willing to adapt to what you want. I want to make sure you enjoy this and feel comfortable throughout.

To support that safety and comfort, I use the colour system during scenes. Green means you are comfortable, enjoying yourself, and want things to continue or even intensify. Yellow tells me you are approaching a limit, and it is time to slow down, adjust, or check in with you. Red means stop completely. No hesitation, no questions. Everything ends immediately, and we shift focus to care and reassurance. This system is not just a formality for me. It is a clear and trusted way for you to have a voice, even when you are surrendering control. Being a submissive is so much more than just being teased. It is about trust, vulnerability, and finding strength in letting go at the right moments. Submission means choosing to yield, to follow, and to place your trust in someone to lead you. It is about allowing yourself to explore your desires and boundaries in a safe and guided way.

A submissive listens, follows guidance, and embraces the structure or rules set by their dom. Sometimes it means showing obedience or completing tasks that rein*** the dynamic. Other times, it is about being honest and open about your needs and feelings. The teasing might be enjoyable, but it is only one part of submission. The real power of being a submissive lies in your willingness to give yourself fully to the dynamic, knowing you are safe, cared for, and valued.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Crestmead

Conversations are the juice of life, a masterful oratory, if you want to get to know me, come and talk with me.

You won’t find Me shouting from rooftops. I prefer to whisper into minds. Quietly. Deeply. Until you wonder whether that thought was yours… or Mine.

I seek one, not many. I admire those who value presence more than performance. I'm not in a rush, I like to discover people in layers, not all at once.

Someone with the courage to p e e l back the layers of self, to travel both the world and the unlit corners of the psyche. Our intimacy will be built on raw curiosity, unfiltered presence, and the exquisite discomfort of truth.

If your idea of connection is casual, fragmented, or shared with others, keep walking and don't look back.
Married men? Pass.
Hookups, flings, and borrowed time? No.
Poly, ENM, “ethical” chaos? Not My kink.

Non-Negotiables I will not entertain:
Fecal matter, vomit, and adult baby play!
Madness disguised as edge or
Men who mistake ego for Domination

Kinks That Own You
(Whether You Know It Yet or Not)
Mind games so subtle you’ll thank Me for the confusion.
The scent of sex, the lingering ruin of you.
Edging until obedience replaces pride.
Chastity, because craving is power,
Bondage, mental and physical,
Pushing you past yourself, slowly, beautifully, without mercy.

If You Feel This is You... Step Closer Boy.
If you have a discerning heart, a sharp mind, and you communicate with intent.
You respect depth, abhor shallowness, and crave meaning, I'd like to get to know more about you.
Intelligence has always had a pornographic influence on me, so if you are intelligent enough to know when you’re being dismantled, and devoted enough not to resist, message me.

Warnings & Final Words
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If you’re a dominant male browsing where you shouldn’t be, keep your fantasies to yourself.
I do not entertain power struggles.

My intention, know this:
I’m not here to entertain boys.
I’m here to find the one man willing to be unmade. slowly, exquisitely.
I come with purpose, embodied and unwavering,
to enter your realm, to command it, to claim what lies within.
This is not a game.
This is a rewriting of your reality, I want to be immersed in you.

If I’m not your cup of char. perfect.
Every cup has a saucer.
But I’m the heat that cracks porcelain.
Lj x
Miss Masters.

Kinky Date30 to 55 years ● 50km around UK Hertford Heath