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I have come to the realization that the only thing in life that you need to worry about is how real you are and how you treat people just because you have amazing good looks or *** doesn't mean you're the shit. I am as real as they come I have a full-time job I am very single and I'm sick of being single every single for over 5 years and I would like to try to get my feet wet and get out there and start date again or at least meet new people and have fun.

Humans are creatures of comfort and familiarity.
I see you. The married woman browsing this app, dreaming of what could have been. The younger woman desperately seeking acceptance and acknowledgment in an ever growing world of options. The lonely woman pretending to be content living alone and having meaningless flings to fill the void.
Each story is different but tragically the same.
You lack the willpower to leave your narcissistic partner. You lack the courage to begin a journey if the path isn't already known. Day and night, you dream of the perfect partner, a Dominant that fits all of your criteria, to swoop in and rescue you from monotony.
Be honest with yourself. If happiness requires sacrifice, are you willing to take the step? Trust your instinct. Your heart knows what you want.
You just need to have faith in it. You are the reason you are searching. You are the reason you are lonely. You allow distance to hinder your happiness, yet planes exist. You allow your beliefs to cement your feet, yet don't take the time to understand another's.

A BDSM, D/s, DDIg, M/s dynamic is substantially more difficult than a vanilla relationship. Why make it more difficult with excuses. Trusting another enough to be completely *** is one of the most difficult things you can do.
Women/woman/girls, let your heart escape mediocrity. You only have a brief moment of existence on this ball of earth and water. Will you look back and smile at the life you had because you took a chance at happiness?

I'm looking for someone nice to date. A sub guy that knows how to please, that is respectful, and knows their place...at my feet. Ideally someone into chastity play, and I'd love to try cucking someone. Curious about FLR as I'm naturally dominant so it suits me more. That doesn't mean I won't respect your needs or limits. SSAC. Also don't address me as Mistress straight out of the gate in your first message.

Also I like alternative and creative men.

No brats, good boys only.

Just how inhuman and ai does this place suq? I mean it’s a lot of Lames

Sup I’m Matt I have a major and I mean major abdl fetish and am currently looking for a gf um if ur interested hmu or whatever 18-19 only for the time being pls🙂 also I only put date cause I had to I mean we can like date but like I mainly want a relationship

My wife and I are starting a polyamourous relationship and I am looking for a separate relationship to try, worse case we try dating and if it doesnt work out we both a friend we can talk to or be each other's wing man lmao Not looking for men or to be somebodies sugar daddy looking for deep meaningful connections.

Wanna have fun tbh if UK what I mean

lemme be mean to you

Building a partnership is about creating a deep, meaningful connection rooted in trust, shared goals, and a commitment to mutual growth. It means standing by each other, not just during the good times, but through every phase of life’s journey—learning, evolving, and providing unwavering support along the way

I'm honestly just bored and horny lol... I'm open to most things and I'm not mean or judgemental come text me guys/girls/coupless😩😅🙏🏻

Let’s have fun make n make meaningful connections

Hey looking to mean for some filthy kinky fun tonight, who’s up for it x

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Kink is a need in my life, not a want, and I'd like to get to know other people who feel the same way. I can bottom, but I prefer to submit...if you know what that means then we should talk! I am open to trying new things as well as finding the limits of what I already enjoy. Let's chat over coffee, sing some Karaoke, or find a nice spot in a park and learn more about each other.

Hello! I'm 28 CIS F and I'm looking to find my other half. As for a bit about me -

• I am not interested in men at all.
  
  I am...
  

• Monogamous
• Lesbian
• service sub (The thing that brings me the most joy is making my partner happy and I will always put her pleasure and needs above my own)
• inexperienced with kink but I know what I want. I am very eager to explore more and I’m very open-minded
• I am successful in my career and have lots of responsibility and people to manage at work. I would love to have someone that I am comfortable enough with to take the reigns from me. Make decisions for me, and let me please and spoil them.
• Hopeful Romantic (seriously, I will send you wax-stamped love letters and set up picnics underneath the stars)
• 5ft 7in, dirty blonde/midlength hair, not skinny but I do go to the gym almost every day and I am athletic
• Gold star lesbian
• Graphic Designer (you'll get lots of silly drawings from me)

• Marvel Nerd
  
  I also enjoy things like kayaking, camping, hiking, skiing/snowboarding, mini golf, art/*ting, video games, museums. I am from NY, but I'm not sold on staying in the US my whole life. I am very open to making connections abroad.
  
  What I'm looking for...**
  

• Age 23-35 ^((ish))
• Someone who can be caring and soft but also strict and mean when needed. I enjoy praise but also love the it when a woman can take control and make decisions for me.
• I mostly thrive on genuine connection, I love deep talks about life and getting to know other people emotionally.
• I’m fine with online but I would eventually like it to lead to IRL. I’d love to find someone experienced that can teach me and mold me into their perfect submissive.
• afab
• It would be nice to have some interests in common, but I would also be very interested to learn about new things and what you enjoy as well.

• I do really love foreign accents, so if you have one it's an instant win.
  
  Kinks are not limited to but include: MDLG, hypnosis, praise, intox, breath play, somno, cnc, orgasm control, corruption, TPE (kinda)
  
  Limits: Bathroom play, **, gore, permanent markings, known public play, men, feminization, illegal activities.
  
  Anygays- I'm willing to share pics/verify and I expect you to as well. If you reach out please say more than just "hey". Some interests will be nice too. If this post doesn't interest you, I wish you all the best in your search, LET'S GO LESBIANS! (+bi girlies)*

Any Woman into being worshiped and treated like a sexual Goddess? I mean let's be real that what ya are 😜

I'm 24m looking for a fwb I'm down to try just about anything except acat ***s I'm on the fence but I'm cool with being talked into I like filth and I mean like dirty as in stinky smells I'm cool with long or short term dm me on here and ask for my snap

I guess it would be safe to say i'm a bit adventurous. Loyal, honest, a good person and kinky. I'm divorced and currently single, wondering if I'll ever find "that" person who completes me or if it's just not meant to be. I'm by no means a desperate person and choose to stay single unless I find the connection that works for me and the other person. And maybe enjoy a little fun along the way.

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Hello! I’m a successful, supportive individual from California who enjoys life’s finer things and is looking for a charming, delightful companion to share some of those experiences with. I believe in providing not just financial support but also a genuine connection and enjoyable moments together.

I value companionship and open communication, and I’m interested in building a relationship where we can explore mutual interests and enjoy each other’s company. Whether it’s indulging in a fine dining experience, embarking on spontaneous adventures, or simply enjoying thoughtful conversations, I’m here to make our time together memorable.

If you’re looking for a meaningful connection with someone who can offer both financial assistance and a genuine, caring relationship, let’s connect and see where our journey takes us. I’m open to getting to know you and discovering what makes us both happy. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Just want to see what happens 🙂

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I’m looking for someone who’s ready to surrender completely. You will provide me with blackmail material to ensure you fulfill every task I assign. I will have full control over your life—deciding what you eat, how you exercise, when you leave your home, and who you interact with. When I give you a command, you will obey without question—even if it means licking a filthy toilet. Disobedience will be met with consequences that will make you regret not following orders. 

You’ll have a safeword to stop everything, but once you use it, our dynamic ends permanently—no second chances. However, if you choose to be disobedient without using your safeword, you will face exposure. We can discuss our mutual kinks and boundaries, and you can share what you hope to gain from this arrangement. 

Send me a detailed introduction, explaining why you deserve to be chosen. I’m excited to hear from all my potential subs.

I'm looking for a switch to live out dom/ sub fantasies! Would love to have an experienced dom to do as they please and teach me what it means to be a sub, but experience isn't necessary... very patient and willing!

24 [F4F] Seeking TPE Submissive


I’m looking for someone who’s ready to surrender completely. You will provide me with blackmail material to ensure you fulfill every task I assign. I will have full control over your life—deciding what you eat, how you exercise, when you leave your home, and who you interact with. When I give you a command, you will obey without question—even if it means licking a filthy toilet. Disobedience will be met with consequences that will make you regret not following orders. 

You’ll have a safeword to stop everything, but once you use it, our dynamic ends permanently—no second chances. However, if you choose to be disobedient without using your safeword, you will face exposure. We can discuss our mutual kinks and boundaries, and you can share what you hope to gain from this arrangement. 

Send me a detailed introduction, explaining why you deserve to be chosen. I’m excited to hear from all my potential subs.