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I'm a 32-year-old, slightly chubby virgin Aspy who is looking to breakout of his shell and start exploring his kinks with others! All my life I've been quiet and polite, usually letting things like excelling at schoolwork and workplace punctuality getting in the way of me having a social and sex life. But now I'm looking to change all that!

The kinks and fetishes I've developed over the years, and what I'm willing to try out, include:

• (SS)BBWs
• ABDL
• Age play
• Femdom
• MDLB
• Spanking
• Mutual masturbation
• Primal play
• transformation (we she, I, or both of us are dressed up/made up in s/beasts like chimps or werewolves)

• Prostate orgasm
  
  What I will absolutely not try whatsoever (and if you're interested in any of these, don't bother):

• //shit
• Fart/puke/sweat
• ***/gore
• Vore
• Feet

• Race play
  
  The lady who wishes to deflower me must be between 40 and 65; she must be either single, totally divorced (as in completed the whole process), or be a widow; she must be available in the South Jersey area; she must be willing to show a virginal Aspy adult like me the ropes; she must only be free on weekend afternoons; and she must respect my boundaries and limits.

Hi! My name is Erin, I'm 37 years old, divorced and single, and I love to explore new places, whether it's a weekend hike in the mountains or a trip to a new country. In my free time, you can often find me in the kitchen cooking or immersed in a good book. I value honesty, kindness, and a sense of humor. Family and friends are very important to me, and I cherish the time I spend with them. I'm an active person who enjoys staying healthy through activities like yoga and biking. I also appreciate the simple pleasures in life, like a cozy night at the movies or a spontaneous road trip. I'm looking for someone who shares my love of adventure and a positive attitude towards life. A genuine, thoughtful, fun-loving partner who values deep feelings and is open to a committed relationship. If you think we'd be a good match, I'd love to hear from you! Looking forward to meeting someone special and sharing new experiences together

Need partner: 30 - 85 years old
I dream about meeting my man who will support me at any moment. Who will teach me how to love and be happy. And I really want to introduce my future husband to my mother! I want to find a man who will be able to become the main part of my life, the person for whom I will live.

I'm going to be free all weekend
Don't be afraid to ask about doing the dirtiest thing on your mind

I'm a 21 year old dom with a pretty high sex drive. I'm super caring I love foreplay and aftercare let's go on an actual date before I take your clothes off of you 😜 don't be shy! Plus if you're in or around the San Diego area

Looking to have a good time with someone equally attractive and not a 59 year old man
Hopefully you fit the description 🤣😭

Down for kinky roleplay, picture sharing, etc. atm? Hmu

25 year old
Bi/pan
Male
Submissive leaning

Hi I'm a 41 year old bi male looking for fun hit me up

Hey, young 19 year old student looking to experience the kinkier side of uni life. Please feel free to message me and talk more

I'm a 15 year old boy for anyone who wants to meet lol, just message me and let's talk

42 yr old Daddy and Pleasure dom looking for a little to call my own. Been in the lifestyle several years, but always looking to learn and explore.

I am excited to have a nice session with Cougar and Milfs. You need to be able to host and be open to meeting in person. If not, we'll divide the rent 50/50 and hire out a space. You have to be old enough and wise enough. Age range of 28 years and up, and close to Toronto.

Hello, I am a 23 year old guy, very little experience in the practice of Bondage but enough theoretical knowledge. I am looking for a woman/partner or trans dominant girl who wants to have a slave.

I am looking for something that is not only sexually based, but that there can also be a personal connection. I am willing to do almost anything as the relationship grows.

I can speak English and Spanish.

I am open to answer questions and chat if you are interested.

Hola, soy un chico de 23 años, muy poca experiencia en la práctica del Bondage pero bastantes conocimientos teóricos. Busco mujer/pareja o chica trans dominante que quiera tener un esclavo.

Busco algo que no sólo tenga una base sexual, sino que también pueda haber una conexión personal. Estoy dispuesto a hacer casi cualquier cosa a medida que la relación crezca.

Puedo hablar inglés y español.

Estoy abierto a responder cualquier pregunta que tengas si estás interesado.

Hey everyone my names Anthony!

Im looking for a female consenting cnc partner. I’ve had a previous engagement when I was younger with my first gf and of recently have been craving to get the feeling/rush back. I’ve tried places like tinder and bumble but haven’t really connected with anyone who was on the same level.

A little info: I’m someone who enjoys all aspects of cnc and open to all forms of role play. I’m open minded and willing to use items such as hangers, belts, cuffs/zip-ties, usb cords, and blindfolds.

Im some who doesn’t like to hold back and be willing to go all the way, however I respect my partners limits and understand when someone says no. Safe words are a must.

Let me know if you would be interested and have any questions, would def be down to chat and swap pics!

Hey there! I’m a 23-year-old queer/bisexual male in European time zones, ready to fully embrace my submissive, airheaded (himbo) self. A bit chubby, very playful, and always eager to follow instructions with a big, silly smile. I ride motorcycles, vibe with 70s-80s rocker aesthetics, and have a softer, more feminine side. I’m quite the intellectual, but I love being d into acting like a delightful airhead. Fashion, submission, and dynamic control? That’s my world. 🤘🏍️

What I Offer:

A devoted, obedient doll who dreams of being fully controlled—especially when it comes to my style. I want my dominant to have total control over my current wardrobe and future purchases, guiding me to wear what you think suits me best. The idea of having no choice in what I wear is a fantasy that would make me feel truly owned and under your guidance.
I’m eager to follow a set of personalized rules that fit our dynamic, inspired by what I’ve seen on FetLife but tailored to our fetishes. For example, having pockets sewn shut or removed from my clothes, forcing me to carry a bag or purse? That’s oddly hot to me. 😳💕 I’m also totally down for costume play—dressing up in anything from cute outfits to something that might humiliate me is all part of the fun!
Open to exploring economic control when our relationship deepens. Giving up control of my finances would be such an adventure and a new level of trust! 💸💕

What I’m Looking For:

A dominant who knows how to shape a submissive himbo’s style and mind. Someone who enjoys full control over my fashion, from rocker and biker looks to forcing me into more embarrassing, feminine outfits. Whatever you decide, I’ll be yours to guide.
You’ll create the rules and decide what I wear—whether it’s a leather jacket and band tee or something way out of my comfort zone. I trust you to push my boundaries and explore both masculine and feminine sides of me. 💄👖
Someone creative who loves giving rewards, punishments, and maybe even locking me into specific outfits with a timelock for added . I’ll follow all your rules, especially when it makes me squirm with delight and embarrassment, enjoying the playful that comes with my himbo persona.

Interests:

Fashion control, dollification, outfit restrictions, controlled , economic control, rocker/biker aesthetics, costume play, and a mix of masculine and feminine submission.

Let’s explore this dynamic together! I’m looking for an online relationship, so whether you’re dressing me up in something cute and embarrassing or deciding how I spend my ***, I’ll be completely under your control—ready to follow your every order with a goofy grin.

Looking for an outgoing, spontaneous, adventurous female partner in crime for fun times and mutual enjoyment. Looking for local Bay Area or Sacramento. SF preferred but willing to travel. Let's get it there and enjoy some of this early weather while we have it for even hotter times!

My behavior does not fit my age and never will. Old enough to know better but young enough to not give a sh*t!

Very experienced with flogs, paddles, whips, and more! Lookping for someone that would like to be on the receiving end of some good old fashioned spanking! No sexual contact required.

Hey there, is anyone looking for a 19 year old male submissive? I'm relatively new to the BDSM scene, but I like to be told what to do, and I enjoy getting punished. Message me if your'e interested in what I look like!!

I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor and big heart, is curious about new things that would like to share new experiences or old habits.

Anyone wanna hookup tmr im 19 year old that’s a good time

I am old crossdresser who loves being used and ***d in any disgusting way. Live out your filthy fantasies.

Hi, my name is Rhiannon. I have one son and I am looking to make my life a little more interesting. I’m 21 years old.