Ahoy!

I'm a 34-year-old male from Connecticut, looking for a switch female partner from New England or NY. My goal is to connect on an emotional and mature level, with shared interests in both kink and vanilla aspects of life. I want to find someone to share both the good times and the bad, growing stronger together.

What I'm Looking For:

  • Connection:

    Laughter, romance, love, and trust.

  • Priorities:

    While dating, I want to be your second priority. Your primary focus should be on yourself, your life, and your future, as mine is on me and mine. Happiness and security alone are crucial to finding them together.

  • Philosophy of Love:

    Love is an offering, not possession. It's about offering joy and easing suffering, requiring empathy and mutual sharing.

    Getting to Know Each Other:


    Once we've established trust and honesty through chatting, I'd love to meet in person, perhaps for a meal or a fun outing. Exploring new places, like a forest, would be a great way to bond.

    About Me:

  • Switch: I embrace both Dominant and Submissive roles, trusting that our compatibility will lead to a satisfying experience.
    My honest disclosure is meant to build acceptance of my nature.
  • Communication: A relationship should be a two-way street. Both partners need to be willing to compromise and fulfill each other's needs.

    Interests:

  • Gaming: PC games and Dungeons & Dragons (3.5 & 5th edition).
  • Outdoor Activities: Hiking, bonfire nights, and exploring nature.

  • Reading:

    Fantasy novels like The Legend of Drizzt, Harry Potter, Eragon, A Song of Ice & Fire, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, and the Mistborn trilogy. The Magicians, The Last Kingdom.

  • s:

    I love
    s, especially dogs. I currently own a Yellow Belly Slider Turtle named Tokka and a cat named Munch.

    Hard Limits:

  • No hard-partying or daily drinking.
  • Preference for partners under 200 lbs.

    Communication:

    I'm looking for meaningful conversations where both parties are actively engaged. I'm not a kink dispenser; I want a romantic relationship with love and kinks.

    Instructions:

    If you've read this far, start your message with "Achievement unlocked" and include some basic information about yourself.

    Thank you for taking the time to get to know me!

BDSM Play Partner21 to 44 years ● 165km around USA Plymouth

Hi,
I’m a laidback 51 year old male. I’m new to the scene, but I feel like I’m definitely leaning towards being a submissive.
I’m in a sexless marriage, and my wife is very vanilla. For about the last ten years my wife’s libido had been slowly dwindling from, sex once a week, to once a month, now we are to the point of where I’m lucky if we have sex once a year.
I love my wife, and I don’t want to leave her but I also want to have that physical intimacy and closeness with another human being. Masturbation is fine for stress release and relieving sexual frustration but I still crave the physical presence and an intimate connection with another person.

I love giving someone else the gift of an orgasm. It pleases me to know that I can give someone else that pleasure. Pure and simple. I also would really like to know what it feels like to be pegged. So if you’re into pegging or would also like to try pegging, then that would be an added bonus.

I also like going for hikes on trails with my two dogs, I enjoy listening to podcasts and I enjoy having intelligent and interesting conversations.

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Munch Buddy35 to 59 years ● 50km around Canada St Thomas

-LTR DOMINANT-

I'm trying to become an assassin in the gym 🤪. Looking for the Bane to my POISON IVY, the ow in my meow, Rodger to my Jessica. Someone who has there own disciplines and focuses in the gym.

If u like to laugh and genuinely like having an enjoyable time and u are able to communicate fully and value honesty, transparency, healthy boundaries and ur ready for someone real and deep then I say,

Its been sometime since i had one that was worthy of my talents, skills and loyalty. And actually knew what he was doing. I prefer my personal Male partner to be a high EI HOLISTIC ALPHA between 39-58 above 5.8" muscular built. Gymrat is a (+)( fit life is a must ). I am a "JUICE" bunny for those who pin themselves. I do have high standards for this Role. Aftercare is important, Chemistry is key and i also enjoy swinging from time to time. Lets go on trips on our days off, adult clubs on the weekends. Ide like to make that right connection with someone to learn and push eachother. ( PLS READ TURN OFFS B4 ATTEMPTING TO APPLY FOR THIS POSITION )

If its not about trying to be with someone and its not about making **. i dont have time for it.

" A Man of words and not of deeds, is like a garden full of weeds. "
-Elizabeth Fletcher-

IF UR TRYING TO GET TO KNOW ME, THEN GET TO KNOW -ME- AS A PERSON AND NOT THE ROLES I PLAY
Hit Me up lets chat see if theres a friendship to explore or perhaps more
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Go read the profile of ur friendly neighborhood living deadgirl 💋 theres even some nice hidden easteregg gems. To sink ur teeth into

Kinky Date39 to 58 years ● 125km around USA Lebanon

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