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Open to casual through to commitment depending on person, circumstance and feels.
Often, I get asked to steer or lead (or even navigate), and that's fun but honestly, that's never been something I would have insisted on. I find topping relatively natural but y'know, it can sometimes lack freshness.
Have always been a fan of certain consensual non-consent games and am now becoming more than curious about the paths not taken.
*NB**: I have no wish to take anyone, anywhere that they do not wish to go, yet I do love intensity, going to extremes, wherever they may be.

Things that interest me start with intensity, the kind of connection where getting into someone's head &/or having them in yours seems palpable & very, very personal. I answer to a wide range of fetishes, sensual seduction & intimate, evocative drama/roleplay.
...Allways, in the service of fun.

Often people come to play with roles mapped out. I would speak up in favour of exploration. Discovery can be so hot! ...so can vulnerability. I tend to need to meet a person before I really know the strength or the details of what I'll be interested in. But I'm interested in a lot of things.
That applies should we become casual, considered, or committed. Yes, w' the right person I'm open to any or stepping through them to find out for that matter.

Willing to go just about any place that really works for someone because when it really works for someone, it almost doesn't matter what you are doing but only how well you do it, how big your leap is and how invested you are.
I do have some favourite places though...

At first i just desired a relationship where the female is submissive to man. I explored and experienced this area of Mastery. I worked hard, saved ***, bought a home, collected lots of interesting sex toys and tools of pleasure. Watched many sexy movies read many sexy books to learn. My desire was to create maximum pleasure for my future beloved.
I developed myself with lots of different roles. Teacher with sexy student, Owner with Pet, Master with Sexy House Maid, or Slave, Boss With Secretary, Wizard with his Sexy Apprentice etc
Later I discovered my submissive side. Desired to kneel at a womans feet, kiss them, worship her as a Goddess, serve her as my Queen, My Mistress, as her slave.
I just desire to love and be loved, care for somebody who cares for me, work together build our kingdom together, have flexible role play where both of us are Switches.This is my ideal.

Sub gentleman (with ability to switch) waiting on someone to take me away.

Sweet, slightly shy gentleman seeking a gentle domme to be taught, shaped and played with.

I am kind, caring and loyal man. By day i am a hard worker, active with sport and long walks.
When i get home however, i like to cuddle and release my more sub tendencies. Ideally looking for long term relationship, I want to be loved, nurtured and return that affection with my loyalty, devotion and willingness to make you happy.

I also want to experiment with new kinks with boundaries tested so a teacher, kink partner or fellow newbie is always welcome. Will test out new things including those more dominant roles if it helps me become a better lover.
Willing/Able to switch if it is something thats of interest and which may appeal to a fellow learner.

If i sound like the one please look me up 😊