Age: 20
Little Age: 2-4
Name: Kate
Role: Little/Submissive/ABDL
Location: London
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: Daddy Dom or Mommy between 24 and 40 years old
Relationship Preference: Unsure, possibly monogamous or closed triad
Number of Partners: 0

I know this is lengthy, but please read it!

What I Want:

  • Someone who embraces the lifestyle
  • A person who will love and support me during both my strong and *** moments
  • Someone who appreciates my cuddly and clingy nature, like a koala, when I’m in little space
  • A partner who can firmly guide me when I’m being bratty or mischievous
  • Someone who recognizes that my little side and titles are earned, not automatically given
  • A person who is understanding of my anxiety
  • A caregiver who can also be my best friend
  • Someone who knows they can rely on me when they’re struggling—it's okay for them to not be okay
  • A partner who respects my safe words, limits, and past trauma
  • Someone who is patient and understanding
  • A communicator who addresses even the smallest details
  • A person interested in an in-person relationship (online is fine at first)
  • Someone who provides aftercare consistently
  • A partner who values rules, rewards, and discipline
  • Someone taller than me (I’m 5’3.78”)
  • A person who is stern and firm
  • A person with lot of rules and who is strict
  • A disciplinarian
  • Someone who seeks more than just sex or kinks
  • A communicator who wants to build a strong foundation and trust
  • Someone who acknowledges that I’m not theirs until I agree
  • A partner who understands my headspace is entirely non-sexual
  • Someone who wants a long term relationship

    Things I Don’t Want:

  • A caregiver focused on padding
  • Someone who expects me to dominate (I’m NOT a switch!)
  • Sharing with another little; I’m okay if the other person is a sub or pet, but not another little
  • A caregiver with a little or pet side
  • Conversations starting with explicit photos
  • Conversations beginning with pet names or titles
  • Jumping straight into a relationship

    What I Can Bring to a Relationship:

  • My submissive side (though I identify more as a little)
  • My little self
  • Friendship
  • Cuddles!
  • Emotional support during tough times (it’s okay not to be okay!)
  • Patience (I’ve been waiting patiently for improvement)
  • Respect for your boundaries, friends, and family
  • Cute chaos 😂
  • A large collection of stuffed ***s and onesies 🫣
  • A love for being in little space

    Things I Enjoy:

  • Cartoons
  • Disney movies
  • Coloring
  • Cuddling
  • Head ruffles
  • Butt pats
  • Stuffed ***s
  • Cute outfits
  • Bubble baths
  • Drawing
  • Anime
  • Manga
  • Stargazing
  • Gardening
  • Cooking and baking
  • Sports

    My little self, Kate, is an ABDL with a little age of 2 to 4. I love cartoons, especially Barbie, Peppa Pig, and Bluey. I enjoy coloring and have a favorite stuffed named Crissy. I'm very cuddly and always seek attention! I describe myself as a koala bear (so please don’t call me clingy!). I can be quite mischievous and sometimes push boundaries, but I can also be well-behaved when I choose to be. I love butt pats forehead kisses and my favourite head ruffles!

    My adult self is also Kate, 20 years old. I love anime, reading manga, and occasionally drawing. I'm a student who practices martial arts and enjoys basketball.

    I deal with hay fever, anxiety, and two eating disorders, and I tend to overthink, (stemming past trauma).

    In a relationship, I’m looking for a Daddy/Mommy dynamic, but I don’t expect it to be solely that—I’m more little than submissive. It would be great if you have a submissive partner who could also be my mommy.

    As a person, I strive to be kind, caring, and patient. I focus on actions and personality rather than appearance, due to past experiences. I have a short attention span and can be lazy, but I work hard to improve myself.

    As a little, I’m cute and playful! I love cuddles, butt pats, and head ruffles, and enjoy silly things like nose boops and forehead kisses. I like spending time with my partner, and while I can be well-behaved, I can also be cheeky and playful, like hiding remotes or sneaking cookies. My favorite colors are purple and blue, and I adore stuffed
    s! I easily get into and stay in little space, and I enjoy bubble baths and hair washing. I often use my “puppy eyes” and grabby hands, and I’m sometimes vocal. I wear diapers frequently because I love it. I would appreciate items like a car seat, high chair, bibs, feeding bottles, pacifiers, behaviour chart, reward chart, punishment chat, everyday chart, phone control apps on my phone laptop and tablet and other little accessories, and I'm open to being changed in public in a closed place when necessary.

    I can be challenging at times, so I need someone who won’t give up on me easily.

    I'm seeking a Daddy/Mommy who could be a couple or a Daddy with a sub who enjoys being a mommy. I prefer someone in the UK aged 24 to 40, who is kind, caring, and understanding, but also willing to be firm, strict and disciplined. I’m not comfortable sharing my Daddy with another little, as I’ve been hurt in the past.

    I enjoy being little in public but can also behave as an adult when required. I want an in-person relationship, so please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for online interaction!

    In an ideal scenario, my Daddy would be kind and caring when needed, but strict, stern and disciplined when I’m misbehaving. He would set rules and provide punishments and rewards, while also understanding that he can lean on me for support during tough times. I want him to view babying me as a joy not a chore or rather than a burden. and to look forward to our cuddle time as a way to unwind and destress. I want both of us to feel safe with each other.

    I hope for open communication where we can share *s, desires, and everything in between, as communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in this dynamic.

    As my partner, I’d like you to treat me as an equal with care and respect, and to act as a gentleman in public. Holding hands and opening doors mean a lot to me. I want you to feel comfortable sharing anything with me and to see me as your little one.

    P.S.** I’d appreciate a bit more information when you message and I would also share a bit more with you.

    I hope this gives you ample information to decide if you’d like to start a conversation!


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