New to the world of BDSM. Have been searching for close to a year. Is my Daddy out there??

A little house keeping to start, please save your time and mine and meet these following requirements:



Over 24+;and based in the U.S. If not in US please be prepared to travel to meet (Please include your age/location in response)
Minimum 5 years experience please
Be single, or widowed, divorced...be alone...
Only those willing to verify relatively early on and interested in meeting IRL in a reasonable time frame that works for both parties. I am not seeking an infinite pen pal
No Reddit chats, PM’s only


As I start the second chapter of my life with the husband gone, and the kids mostly grown, I am ready to focus on me and my needs. I have learned over the years that I have a burning desire to gift my submission to a willing and deserving Daddy. Finding that deserving person is challenge much greater than I initially expected, but I am not going to settle.

Needs:
Control close to TPE
Mental and physical domination
Schedules/Routines
Daily tasks both sexual and non sexual
Rules
Follow through with pic for accountability
Frequent communication
Must understand I have medically complex special needs son who is 16...he and I are a package He comes first always...and my Daddy will be second bar none due to caring for my son I don't have a job so I would leave plenty of time to devote to a Daddy
Due to anxiety I don't have a driver license...only a permit...
Must be willing to train a new Sub
I do have bratty tendencies..be prepared to handle not tame handle

Must love getting random pics or text messages and Tik Toks..I love communicating through TikToks

Be ok with your little becoming slightly obsessive with her Daddy..

As for kink interests that is a wide and long list. It is also something that I think grows, morphs and changes as the relationship between Daddy and I grows. Obviously if you are reading this you have kink interests, but it is more important that I get to know you the person, first before going down the rabbit hole of kink.

I will only respond to gentleman who seem genuinely interested in exploring this.

I want to talk on the phone and then fall asleep while on the phone...I want to know that I am th3 first thought on their mind when they wake up and the last thought before they sleep. I want to feel their heart beating in time with mine so that every time I feel my heartbeat I feel theirs as well. I want to be taken in hand and shown my place in this world is at their feet...I want to feel the shivers race up and down my body as I hear their voice being rough and tossing me around..and th3n he feel the love light shine from them as they speak of all the love they hav3 me for and how proud of me they are...
Please respond with your favorite color in the message line so I know you read all of this.

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