To me the "turn-on" capacity of D/s is in creating an arena of Total Control.

My first meeting is more vanilla in style and called "Coffee & Cream" - , a fact finding and FAQ session, lasts 1hr exactly.

The second and subsequent meetings are entirely D/s whether in a vanilla setting or not.

For the D/s meeting I ask that I am greeted by a sexy and feminine looking woman. Sometimes I ask that she wear black bra, white blouse, pencil skirt, black stockings, stillettos, strong red lipstick, mascara, limited foundation (prefer none), nice jacket if it's cold. (Trousers of any sort/leggings are not advised).

During play I am to be addressed as Master, she is only to speak when spoken to and she's to keep her eyes lowered in my presence.

The formalities of what will/will not occur and safe word are discussed/agreed.

Play Session Starts:

I sit lounged in a comfy chair looking up at her standing in the room. To formally start the play session, when she is ready and in her own time, she removes and hands me her knickers.

I command her without getting totally undressed, to feed into my mouth her left nipple. As she comes to my mouth with it, I reach up to finger and feel her pussy. I want to check out the goods right from the outset.

She utters a sound and is told to remain silent until allowed to make a noise.

After enjoying my fill of nipple, sucking and chewing it gently and maybe not so gently I tell her to make me a cup of tea.

She makes the mistake of assuming I want her to put her tit away. She will pay the price for this mistake later. I tell her to leave the tit hanging out.

My Domination is all about having total, free and ready access to her body within pre-discussed and agreed parameters and limitations.

If she indicates a desire for waterworks I may require her to squat before me and pee into a bowl...surprisingly few women manage to do this I have noticed!!

Other times, I will have her kneel on all fours before me and act as a table for my tea or feet.

Other times I will bring her a cream cake and require her to eat it out of my hand as I push it into her mouth and across her face.

My choices are endless and are all catered to the information I gleamed at Coffee & Cream, plus in the formalities chat immediately before this session began.

At any stage she can say YELLOW & I will instantly pull back to ensure she is alright, needs to adjust herself, needs to stop. After saying YELLOW, whatever she wants, she instantly gets.

Elements of controlled ***, caressing, binding, petting, kissing, fingering are given and taken to turn the sub on. I'm constantly aware of her hip movements, trembling inner thighs/buttocks, breathing rate, heart rate...she is constantly monitored as I take her to the edge of her cliff time and again but pull back before her cataclysmic urges take over and she rides the wave of orgasm.

Toys are used, postures, poses, stress positions, sensory deprivations, touches, smells, sounds.

I don't want to give the game away. I don't want you to know what will happen to you. Suffice to say....you will enjoy the experience.

I am AN EXPERIENCE.

I am a CONTROLLING INFLUENCE in your LIFE.

I can control FACE-TO-FACE or ONLINE....just ASK.

I'm a DOM seeking a SUB for NSA or to Train (single or couple)

Kinky Date20 to 70 years ● 50km around UK, Blackburn 6 years ago

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