Hello! I'm 28 CIS F and I'm looking to find my other half. As for a bit about me -

  • I am not interested in men at all.

    I am...

  • Monogamous
  • Lesbian
  • service sub (The thing that brings me the most joy is making my partner happy and I will always put her pleasure and needs above my own)
  • inexperienced with kink but I know what I want. I am very eager to explore more and I’m very open-minded
  • I am successful in my career and have lots of responsibility and people to manage at work. I would love to have someone that I am comfortable enough with to take the reigns from me. Make decisions for me, and let me please and spoil them.
  • Hopeful Romantic (seriously, I will send you wax-stamped love letters and set up picnics underneath the stars)
  • 5ft 7in, dirty blonde/midlength hair, not skinny but I do go to the gym almost every day and I am athletic
  • Gold star lesbian
  • Graphic Designer (you'll get lots of silly drawings from me)
  • Marvel Nerd

    I also enjoy things like kayaking, camping, hiking, skiing/snowboarding, mini golf, art/*ting, video games, museums. I am from NY, but I'm not sold on staying in the US my whole life. I am very open to making connections abroad.

    What I'm looking for...**

  • Age 23-35 ^((ish))
  • Someone who can be caring and soft but also strict and mean when needed. I enjoy praise but also love the it when a woman can take control and make decisions for me.
  • I mostly thrive on genuine connection, I love deep talks about life and getting to know other people emotionally.
  • I’m fine with online but I would eventually like it to lead to IRL. I’d love to find someone experienced that can teach me and mold me into their perfect submissive.
  • afab
  • It would be nice to have some interests in common, but I would also be very interested to learn about new things and what you enjoy as well.
  • I do really love foreign accents, so if you have one it's an instant win.

    Kinks are not limited to but include: MDLG, hypnosis, praise, intox, breath play, somno, cnc, orgasm control, corruption, TPE (kinda)

    Limits: Bathroom play, **, gore, permanent markings, known public play, men, feminization, illegal activities.

    Anygays- I'm willing to share pics/verify and I expect you to as well. If you reach out please say more than just "hey". Some interests will be nice too. If this post doesn't interest you, I wish you all the best in your search, LET'S GO LESBIANS!
    (+bi girlies)*

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Albany

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