Looking for adventurous partners who are eager to explore and connect. I'm a pleasure dom who thrives on creating a safe, judgment-free space where you can relax, let go, and embrace your curiosities. If you're someone who finds joy in being in control most of the time but craves a place to let the dominant side rest, I’m here to help you unwind and discover new pleasures.

I’ve dipped my toes into the world of kink for a while now, but I’m always eager to dive deeper and explore what lies beneath the surface. My experience is light but meaningful—I’ve enjoyed being a guide, teacher, mentor, and even a daddy to those who appreciate structure mixed with care. While my focus is on creating comfort and building trust, I’m also curious to explore more. Breath play, impact play, and a variety of sensations are all areas that intrigue me, and I’d love to share that journey with an eager, like-minded partner.

As a gentleman and deep thinker, I appreciate deep conversations and connection beyond just the physical. I’m drawn to the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship—understanding what excites you, what you’re passionate about, and how we can blend that into a fulfilling dynamic. I find intelligence incredibly sexy, and I enjoy exchanging ideas, learning about new experiences, and deepening my understanding of the people I’m with. If you’re a sapiophile, we’ll have plenty to talk about.

Outside of kink, I’m a lover of life’s pleasures—good food, excellent wine, thoughtful movies, and gorgeous scenery. Whether it’s a low-key dinner at a local spot or a weekend getaway filled with beautiful views, I’m someone who enjoys creating memorable experiences in and out of the bedroom. I’m just as excited to take part in playful, spontaneous adventures as I am to curl up and enjoy a bottle of wine with someone who appreciates life’s finer things.

I'm also open to couples' play with one of my subs, if that's something you're interested in exploring.

If you’re ready for a partner who can help you explore the depths of your desires while offering you a place to simply be, then let’s talk. Whether you're looking for new experiences or craving a little more structure, I'm here to guide and support you as we explore together.

Kinky Date18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Milwaukie

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A baby Girl / baby Boy is often known by the gender neutral term, little. A little is a type of submissive who embraces a childlike state. This can manifest in many ways including curiosity, a love of play, carrying a soft toy and dressing in clothes associated with being young. They can also use items such as pacifiers and diapers, but these are optional. Not all littles see themselves as being that young. Littles are submissives who need a great deal of nurturing and care from the Dominant who looks after them. Their Dominants are usually known as Daddies and Mummies. Littles will engage in activities which are associated with childhood. These include colouring in colouring books, doodling, blowing bubbles, playing games like tag or snakes and ladders. On the face of things, it seems a little takes more looking after than other submissives. It may be that they expect and need more support, time and nurture but their submission runs deep. Little’s relationships to their Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme are very intense. There is a great dedication from the little to their Dominants. They have a lot of submission to give. Littles can be bratty especially if this is a way they can earn fun punishments that they want. Littles, like all submissives, crave control. They may want very precise rules and will go out of their way to push the boundaries and test their Dominants. Littles often enjoy mixing BDSM gear such as cuffs, ropes and collars with pretty lacy dresses or dungarees. The contrast of innocent and not so innocent makes them happy.