It's been a fair bit of time since I've last written an add, though I think it's about time I put out my feelers and see what/who I can find.

A Bit About Me.

My Day To Day Side


I have been active as a dom for more or less all of my adult life, both online and offline and have had many long lasting dynamics over this time as well as many more short term arrangements. Some have been simple scratching of one another's itches, filling a desire for a time before parting whilst others have been much more intimate, with me recently parting with someone on sad but mutual terms. I am a very geeky person, I love to share this nerdiness with those I can, I am an avid gamer, I love to read (and have a more recent infatuation with audiobooks), I like to write, I have a passion for dnd (sadly a forever dm, though given I like to write I do enjoy it quite a bit).
You don't not need to get to know the day to day side of me if you do not wish, I know some simply prefer to focus on the dynamic and that is fine, just be sure to make this intention clear early on.

The Dom I Am


I am an exceedingly patient person, I always have been and try my best to be this way. That being said, I'm not the sort of person to accept poor excuses and if someone shows a lack of effort, I will move on and part ways. I see a dom/sub ect. style of dynamic being made from mutual respect, regardless of if you wish to be treated as an object and dejected to constant I will still hold you're best interests at heart and hold you back from making choices I believe you would regret later. I respect peoples boundaries greatly, though will probe to find the limits of those boundaries quite early on, I like to use the traffic light safe word system, it's simple, easy to remember and clear in it's intent... assuming the other party is at least somewhat familiar with traveling by car. I will never be disappointed by something we are engaging in being stopped due to this so never push yourself beyond your comfort zone.
I like to use a mixture of live sessions and set tasks with set living rules for those who serve me, though I can adjust this to fit a potential applicant, at the end of this is a series of questions, answer them honestly instead of just in a way that pushes your buttons.
I will never share anything sent to me without your consent. Even then, I will verify with you about it. Trust is important to me and you feeling safe is important. You will be revealing the self you hide from the world to me and make yourself , even if that self likes to be talked to like a piece of dirt under my shoe you should be able to feel safe still whilst you explore your desires.


A Bit About You


I expect you to be honest, more then anything else I have always found this to be the single most important building block to any dynamic. Breaking a rule may result in an unpleasant punishment but it does mean you earn my trust.
You are not expected to be interested in everything I list, just be honest with what interests you and we can work around that.
Your level of experience doesn't matter, you can be brand new and don't nothing more then watch some porn of scenarios and want guidance or you could of been active for the last 20 years, everyone is different and it just changes the starting point simply.
If you are trans or other, please specify when it comes to the questions at what stage you are are, it can effect the potential tasks I can set after all.
Do not worry about your age (as long as you are 20+), many of my best subs have had up to 20 years on me, you would have just as much chance of being taken on as anyone else. I have been told people have been unsure about applying in the past due to this type of age difference, only to find we get along extremely well.
I expect you to know some of your boundaries out of the gate and to be up front about them. It's important to know what is too much, even if that too much is just the simple limits of not doing anything illegal ect.
You should answer the questions at the end of this add to the best of your ability, the more information I have to work with the more smoothly things can begin, as well as it's just handy to have a solid reference point as I get to know you.
You will not be expected to fit all potential criteria listed in this add, there is a good chance you will only hit on 1 or 2 points I mention and that is perfectly fine, every dynamic is different and I am happy to work within my subs boundaries/interests. For instance, you may love to try live sessions but find it hard to follow tasks or rules when your dom is not around, be honest about this at the start or as it becomes apparent so we can work around this.
I will expect frequent communication from you, even if its just a few messages a day to keep in touch, it helps me to more quickly get a grasp on your day to day affairs and how I can best work around them as well as just generally helps cement our dynamic.
You have a life, likely family, a job, a social life, I wont be taking any of this away with this dynamic, it's important that this dynamic adds to your life, that it doesn't interrupt it.
If you want something to become more serious, I would only consider it if you where at least within the uk, this is simply for practicalities sake, if I was to get that close to someone, I'd want to be able to wrap my arms around them.
Be sure to mention cookies somewhere in your response, so I know you've read everything.

Greater London or Buckinghamshire. If doffing is still a thing can someone invite me and prove it ??

Anything, uk preferably

Someone that can hold a conversation and a game , a new friend is welcome DM me (I'm UK but live at night)

Sub slave with a small dick looking to be dominated and humiliated by a female.

Hi! I’m from Newcastle and I’m looking to meet my forever domme! I’d love to chat and get to know eachother! I can travel around the north of the UK!

younger (18-36), male, single, attractive, dominant

pretty, reasonably fit, w/hair long enough to pull
**idc how tall or short you are
*accents+, esp some uk ones, make me🫠
** 👀4 irl, I've got enough pen pals, thanks though

44 m uk panty wearer looking for females

im a sub looking for a dom to meetup (UK) and do feet or anything with on the meetup. I am also a ***/sugar daddy 🤭

I am very new to all of this! I am currently looking for a domme based in the UK to help introduce me to this world

Please message me if you think you can help😊

Uk

Looking for a uk based tist, for text, voice, video and eventually irl sessions, i am looking for more than just hypnosis kinky shit, I want a genuine dynamic.

Preferable female BUT I love men aswell(I’m just pickier) 20+ cause I like em older 😍

Dm me and stand out xx

From the uk living in Australia looking for someone with similar interests x
Add me up on Snapchat.. mickyh0128

Just wanting some kinky fun with like minded kinky fuxkers.in uk
. Can travel x

sigh here we go again..

My name is James, I am 25 and I am from the UK. My build is 6 foot, athletic-ish (just getting back into the gym) and I have a moustache blue eyes and brown hair. However, if you reach out I will be more than happy to verify with a SFW photo.

I have been looking for a dom for some time. I think I’m just a bit lost tbh and need some guidance. I need a firm hand to keep me in place and guide me on the right path to make me a better version of myself. I can become very devoted for the right lady and I am extremely obedient and submissive. I have a variety of kinks which we can discuss in detail when the time is right.

First and foremost though, I want to get to know you as a person. Become friends, have a laugh and most importantly, I want you to become someone I can trust and rely upon. For me, this is so much more than kink and having a really good connection is important to me.

I have a 9-5 office job, I like to travel, play sports, watch sports, go out with friends - I’m very social. Would say I’m quite funny, but who am I to judge. Anyway, this is deliberately brief, I think it’s best to find out more in the dm’s! But I hope it’s enough to entice you to message me and even if not, thanks for taking the time to read this far!

James

Ideally looking for girl with a sub side and a happy look on life no drama just with a connection and to enjoy life together

So here goes hit me up uk only please x

Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)

About Me as a Little

I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.

While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.

About Me as a Submissive

Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.

I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.

What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver

I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:

1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.

5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.
   
   What I Offer as a Little and Submissive
   
   As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
   • Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
   • Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
   • Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
   • Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.
   
   My Favorite Little Space Activities
   • Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
   • Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed s, and imaginative activities.
   • Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
   • Caregiving Moments: Being fed, , or cuddled while you read to me.
   • Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.
   
   About Me as an Adult
   
   Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.
   
   I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.
   
   What I Need From You
   
   Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
   • Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
   • Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
   • Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
   • Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
   • Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.
   
   Important Notes
   I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.
   
   If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.
   
   Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.
   
   
   Warm hugs and Cuddles,
   
   Diana

Im an 18 year old twink from Birmingham, uk around kingstanding and I really need to be wedgied, I have my own thongs and panties and have no problem with offering my asshole out as long as theres wedgies involved too

Im 5ft 7 and need to be hung and really want to give an assjob, I’ll travel 10 miles from king standing maximum, message me and I’ll send you some pictures, I really need to be wedgied XD

Hello
I dream to become a full time 247 live in sissy slave I am french living uk, able to relocate Highly educated and very docile, however face still masculine, although body slender and already passable I accept hormones, surgery even castration I would serve my Superiors both domestically and sexually to the best of my abilities I would love becoming the perfect 50s housewife, in seamed stockings, girdled and corset, or the perfect demure victorian maid, or a mere bitch pet
Kisses

Looking for some fun tonight online or live in UK midlands. 37 yo straight male looking for women/couples.

🧲🧲MY BIGGEST TURN ON🧲.🧲
IS A
🧲100% DOM (0%Sub qualities)🧲
🫸👁️If I View Your Profile , the thing I l👁️👁️k for is to "get a picture of your Dominant Nature, unless I see or feel this, well I Move On👁️🫷
I AM A PROUD SUBMISSIVE
and comfortable in my own Skin
My Title holds
As
🔗 🔒 HER STEEL SUBMISSIVE🔒 🔗
Erotic & Exotic Submissive
🫸🫸🔒A DOM IS A DOM FOR A REASON

     ⚡ 🔗 A S S E R T I V E 🔗⚡

❌❌NSA.DOMS ❌❌ BIG NO 🚫 ❌❌
Call Me "the Old Fashioned Type "....whatever you call it.. ONLY ONE DOM in My Life Space ....no hopping b _ h t too.....or ....I AM 🚫 NOT🚫 4 U
Unless, THIS IS PROJECTED BY
YOU
I AM NOT FOR YOU
I seek A DOM who does not 'sit on the Fence'
And who Comes literally to Me, The Forefront
Shows He is A DOM





If you want a status relationship involvement with me...🫸.You are Not in the UK🫷
PUT IN THE PROPER COMMITMENT
YOU WILL NEED TO HAVE SOMETHING SPECIAL AND BE AUThENTIC FOR ME
TO CONSIDER YOU AS MY DOM

🪝🫸THIS 🪝IS🪝A DYNAMIC 🫷 🪝


⚡🔒🔗⚡🔒🔗⚡🔒🔗⚡🔒🔗
NO SPARKS
NO IGNITION

NO DOM

NO DYNAMIC
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🚫I AM N🚫 T A PLAY PARTNER Or want nothing Superficial/fake 🚫
IF I FEEL OR SENSE YOU ARE USING ME
= It's a Definite ❌NO❌
It DOESN'T Matter if you are 100% Dominant and there is a Connection etc
🦴🔒🦴YOU DON'T HAVE TO TRY TOO HARD
FOR MY ATTENTION
JUST GET IT RIGHT
I AM YOURS
SIMPLE 🦴🔒🦴

N🚫 ABANDONMENT
NEVER EVER -
iF that's "your Style"
FORGET ME 4 G👍 👍 D
Cos I am not going down that Route Never Never
➰➰If You can't SHow RESPECT you should not Be A DOM , REAL DOM shows Respect ➰➰

= You will get a Swipe if there is NSA
I CLARIFY I DON'T WANT THiS (meaningless to a Submissive).Just find it elsewhere.
A REAL MAN = A REAL DOM GOES Out and gets what HE NEEDS BEFORE ITS GONE/TOO LATE

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📞🔔 DON'T WASTE MY TIME IF YOU CANT "CHAT"/ ENGAGE DIRECT WITH ME🔔📞⭐⭐NOT INTERESTED⭐ ⭐ IN PEOPLE WHO DON'T
⭐ CHAT⭐ WITH ME📞
If You are RUDE ......it's a Definite🚫 NO🚫
🫸🫸 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐WITHOUT ANY EXISTING ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐PROPER
REAL ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ COMMUNICATION THERE IS NO DEVOTION/COMMITMENT 🫷🫷 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
NO RELATIONSHIP/NO DYNAMIC ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
If I" perceive" NO Genuine Interest or any "Vibe or Energy" /lack of it from the other Side (Dom) / Shows ZERO Positivity Consistently
It's a NO.
If you can't PROVE you are "BEING REAL"
it's a No or if "IT" Doesn't "FEEL REAL"(crucial), it's a NO
🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫"If I FEEL BETRAYAL "by anyone , Even by "Females"/friends/Followers
It's a NO.🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫
If I YOU are "Too Serious (negative vibes )"
It's a NO🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫
A DOM - " It must Not FEEL Cold"
My Gut says NO immediately.
SHOW UP and NEVER DISAPPEAR
💪SHOW THE CONFIDENCE OF A DOM💪
💪SHOW IT💪
✔️✔️✔️
🤜 Y E S 🤛
🫸🫸 YOUR P❤️‍🔥WER DERIVES OUT OF RESPECT AND TRUST FOR ME🫷🫷
🫷And When (every time ) I bow to your Feet THIS is because 🔒YOU 🔒Respect and Love Me 100% 🫷

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📌A Dynamic is "wired, a Live Wire created between a Dom and his Submissive through the utter importance of Mutual Communication.Withoit this "Formula", the "Live Wire is functionless".
Any interested Dom who wants to get to know me and create a relationship must communicate to me and have conversations , anything less is NOT ENOUGH.
📌Too many "Hook up" offers/Not seeking an "NSA Dom"



📌⭐100% Dom Men only⭐ (no Switch Tendencies whatsoever)
📌 FORGET ME IF THERE "ARE OTHERS" , UNLESS YOU CAN PROVE YOU ONLY NEED ME IN YOUR LIFE
🌊 🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊L 👁️ 👁️ k Elsewhere into the 🌊 🌊 🌊 🌊 🌊 sailing away 🌊🌊🌊🌊
📌Time and Presence
REAL LIFE REAL LIFE REAL LIFE
🖥️NO CYBER STUFF 🖥️
I NEED TO S👁️👁️ YOU PHYSICALLY IN WHOLE FORM HEAD TO TOE 💪💪

Hi, I'm in Brighton UK, all day, horny as crazy, if anyone wants to meet up, just write me.

Hello fellow Kinksters!

I am someone who delights in the organisation and participation of Group Sex!

Any girls in the north west, uk, looking to be worshipped? Foot and/or ass and/or pussy worship(or any other body part you want) And no limit facesitting. 🦶🐱🍑👅💦

M22 uk looking for some fun anyone want to be eaten out I will do it for however long you want unless there’s something else you want me to do I’m open to a lot I will do any kink you want even if I’ve never done it before or how messy or nasty it is