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Discipline - The road to punishment

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What is BDSM discipline?
Is discipline always physical?
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Discipline is almost universally accepted as a core component of pretty much any BDSM dynamic. For most people it's done as something that in reality is enjoyed by both participants, though there are people who get a kick out of receiving discipline and correction that they don't necessarily enjoy for itself in the moment. Most kinky discipline is physical and pain-based, but that's not the case all the time; many kinky couples use other punishment types as well or instead, such as corner time or writing lines. Certain acts of sexual service can also be used as discipline. Your safeword remains in place, of course, and negotiation and pre-consent is just as vital for these kinds of play as for any other.

What is BDSM discipline?

When a sub does something that is displeasing to their Dominant, they can choose to punish them in some way. Also, if a sub does something well, they can praise them for it. It is a way of adapting behaviour of a submissive.

Is discipline always physical?

Not always, it can be a raised voice, corner time or writing lines. Masochists, for example, would not find pain to be a deterrent but more of a reward. It could be doing certain chores as well, cleaning cutlery or ironing for example. I’m not sure anyone sees those chores as a treat!

How does consent fit into discipline?

As with everything within BDSM consent is key. A sub or slave will agree in advance to let their dominant discipline them, there will be an agreement on what can be given as a punishment and of course, they can use their safeword at any time if it becomes too much for them. Consent is important through all of BDSM. Especially in areas that deal with emotions and psychology.

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  • The Lost Art of Domestic Discipline

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    Is Domestic Discipline and Spanking in Marriage a Lost Art? I've been thinking a lot about traditional relationship dynamics lately, especially the idea of domestic discipline (DD) between husband a ...
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