Locker room sex may be the subject of a thousand gay porno's, but it does happen in reality - especially if you're at a gay sauna or discreetly at public gyms. There's something erotic about the idea of a bunch of guys getting naked and steamy together and becoming utterly distracted by each other's glistening bodies. The reality is that those moments do happen spontaneously, but it depends on the place in question. That doesn't mean it isn't hot to imagine though, particularly when you're getting changed and you find a guy particularly attractive. Although, it should always be consensual of course!
Is it all the hot, sweaty bodies or just the intimacy of a place where guys go to change? There is something very appealing about getting it on in the locker room. It's somewhere we’ve all been and it leads to exciting fantasies about being naked with lots of other hot bods.
Is locker room sex achievable?
Yes. Locker room sex tends to be the remit for mostly gay or bisexual guys and it really depends on the place. While it's highly unlikely that a spontaneous orgy is going to break out (unless you're at a gay sauna), you have to be mindful that although public sex itself isn’t illegal, outraging public decency is. Locker room sex is likely to be covered by that law.
What do I need to know about consent in the locker room?
It’s fine to appreciate someone’s amazing body, it’s okay to be aroused by someone wearing tight lycra or other sexy workout clothes, and it might be your thing, but to them it’s just what they work out in. Remember, always use respect even in the locker room.
How can I try out my locker room fantasy?
While the chances of having fun in any old locker room is low, gay saunas, swingers clubs, BDSM dungeons and sex clubs have locker rooms of their own. Maybe you can arrange to do the fantasy scene of your dreams there!
Cottaging and the glory hole are stalwarts of gay male culture in many parts of the world, not least because they add a wonderful sense of anonymity to proceedings. Plenty of people get down to it in public toilets - sometimes they're your only option, but cottaging is a subculture. If you're interested in finding gay cottaging locations near you, it's never been easier to look them up; a little judicious searching online should tell you everything you need to know! Just make sure you wrap it up and don't cross anyone's boundaries while you're there.
Fetishes are often about transgressing social convention and playing around with taboos. One of the things we as a society have developed some serious taboos regarding is, unfortunately, our own bodies - particularly the bits of them that grow hair and make smells! Naturally, then, there are some people for whom the idea of armpit licking, sniffing or even armpit sex is erotic and fantastical. It might not be the most common of fetishes, but it's an entirely healthy and explicable one! Some of those people will prefer their partner's armpits to be unshaved and/or unwashed, while others are more a fan of smooth and sweet; whatever you're into, talk it over with your partner to find out if they'd be happy to help you indulge this particular fantasy.
Many people find that the sensation of having their ass or vagina completely filled and stretched out is a fantastic one. Fisting is pretty much what it sounds like: getting your entire hand inside someone and fucking them with it as long as they can handle. It does take practice, however, and you should be extremely careful not to hurt or damage your partner as you figure things out. Time, patience and lubricant are all essential, as is a relaxed partner who feels comfortable and is massively turned on. Many people find that having an orgasm before playing around with fisting makes things a little more straightforward, making that the perfect time to start finding out if it's for you.