## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*

Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:

Just like my profile if you're trying to get my attention Don't miss the ad(s) ️

Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I have an open relationship. My partner is fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik heb een open relatie waarbij mijn partner volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.

I’m finishing up my studies here, and will be leaving the Netherlands in June! until then I’m open to making new friends, short term commitments and FWB situations

don’t have a lot of interesting things to say. I rather listen looking for a confident and experienced dom who also wants to emotionally invest a little

///DONT SAY NICKNAMES WITHOUT PERMISSION IM NOT YOURS/// . Heyy I'm vali, I'm really 19, woman and use she/her. a sweet and playful sub who is looking for a dommy, joined on 24/02/2024 . I adore cuddling with stuffies, exploring with coloring and crafting, and getting lost in bedtime stories. Dressing up in pink and kawaii styles always brings a smile to my face, and I love playtime, games, and snuggles. Cartoons are my go-to for relaxation. I'm a huge fan of Disney, Hello Kitty, Monster High, cherries, ***rs, stickers, and, of course, all things need to be pink. . if you wanne talk to me msg me! I'll get very shy and for me talking first is difficult in the beginning. . yes i have really cup H boobs H/I .... but slim waist and cause of little belly you dont see it much... but gotta make them special for me . Speaking fluent Dutch and English, Learning German and Spanish .

I’ve always had fantasies that included being a sex slave. I want to make those fantasies a reality. Willing to try almost anything ;) Proper hygiene is a big thing for me! (Please, for the love of god, brush your tongues daily) Currently rocking short hair

Shamesly honest description of me! Here goes! Hopeless romantic and artist/writer from Rotterdam. I’m looking for genuine connections, friendship and maybe more eventually. Caring and genuine men, max 30 km from Rotterdam. Looks matter to me, hate to admit. Slim/athletic figure is prefered. My response rate is low because I get 10+ tacky messages everyday.. please don’t guys 💖 The dynamic I crave is something I want to have with someone I like and trust. If you’re looking for a quick fix, please don’t message me. Don’t be tacky. Friendship first. I’m not willing to jump into any dynamic/meeting up straight away. I’m a sub, that doesn’t mean I don’t want depth and respect.

Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:

## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*

I’m finishing up my studies here, and will be leaving the Netherlands in June! until then I’m open to making new friends, short term commitments and FWB situations

Shamesly honest description of me! Here goes! Hopeless romantic and artist/writer from Rotterdam. I’m looking for genuine connections, friendship and maybe more eventually. Caring and genuine men, max 30 km from Rotterdam. Looks matter to me, hate to admit. Slim/athletic figure is prefered. My response rate is low because I get 10+ tacky messages everyday.. please don’t guys 💖 The dynamic I crave is something I want to have with someone I like and trust. If you’re looking for a quick fix, please don’t message me. Don’t be tacky. Friendship first. I’m not willing to jump into any dynamic/meeting up straight away. I’m a sub, that doesn’t mean I don’t want depth and respect.

Just like my profile if you're trying to get my attention Don't miss the ad(s) ️

///DONT SAY NICKNAMES WITHOUT PERMISSION IM NOT YOURS/// . Heyy I'm vali, I'm really 19, woman and use she/her. a sweet and playful sub who is looking for a dommy, joined on 24/02/2024 . I adore cuddling with stuffies, exploring with coloring and crafting, and getting lost in bedtime stories. Dressing up in pink and kawaii styles always brings a smile to my face, and I love playtime, games, and snuggles. Cartoons are my go-to for relaxation. I'm a huge fan of Disney, Hello Kitty, Monster High, cherries, ***rs, stickers, and, of course, all things need to be pink. . if you wanne talk to me msg me! I'll get very shy and for me talking first is difficult in the beginning. . yes i have really cup H boobs H/I .... but slim waist and cause of little belly you dont see it much... but gotta make them special for me . Speaking fluent Dutch and English, Learning German and Spanish .

I’ve always had fantasies that included being a sex slave. I want to make those fantasies a reality. Willing to try almost anything ;) Proper hygiene is a big thing for me! (Please, for the love of god, brush your tongues daily) Currently rocking short hair

Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I have an open relationship. My partner is fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik heb een open relatie waarbij mijn partner volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.

don’t have a lot of interesting things to say. I rather listen looking for a confident and experienced dom who also wants to emotionally invest a little