## Note
#### 1.
Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals".
I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.**
#### 2.
Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online
## About me
INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+
My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion.
I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving.
I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person.
I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further.
And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense.
I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic.
For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic.
I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people.
So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch?
## Outside of Kink
I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have.
Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert.
My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic.
Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people.
## Visuals
While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself:
I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible.
Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;)
A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights.
My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy.
## For anyone:
**DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for.
**DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure.
**DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know.
**DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you.
**DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it.
If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other.
## Chat
#### Before you messsage me:
Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner.
EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up.
#### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22)
1. **87% Dominant**
2. **86% Rigger**
3. **85% Owner**
4. **85% Mommy**
5. **84% Experimentalist**
6. **76% Mistress**
7. **73% Voyeur**
8. **70% Sadist**
9. **65% Brat tamer**
10. **64% Non-monogamist**
11. *51% Primal (Hunter)*
12. *49% Vanilla*
13. *49% Switch*
14. *22% Masochist*
15. *21% Exhibitionist*
16. *11% Submissive*
17. *9% Pet*
18. *8% Degrader*
19. *0% Brat*
20. *0% Primal (Prey)*
21. *0% Girl*
22. *0% Rope bunny*
23. *0% Degradee*
24. *0% Slave*
25. *0% Ageplayer*