I am interested in exploring many kinks, with latex and bdsm being the biggest 2. I am in the middle when it comes to D/s - I really enjoy being in both roles as long as the person I am with enjoys themselves.
outside of kink I am into sci-fi, rock and metal music, gaming and many other things.
I am a gamer, metalhead, geek. I have too many hobbies to get good at any including latex crafting, which has currently included 2 different lengths of fingerless gloves. I think underwear, stockings and skirts will be next. I would like someone in my life to make things for and dress in latex, either a Domme or a sub.
I guess the main thing I would like to do is meet new people with similar interests to talk, go for a brew/drink or to events with. a fresh start so to speak. hopefully, one of these people will become a relationship.
hard:
Anything illegal is illegal for a reason, urine, faeces, knife play, ***.
soft: sounding, food
I would say there is a way to mix really well, but I don’t have much experience of it. Restraints can restrict movement as well. So they can add restriction on voluntary obedience. Setting tasks and using restrictive bindings to complicate the task, such as an elbow tie for cleaning tasks, wrist Read more… cuffs for a writing task. Can be a rush, frustrating and elating when succeeding.
For me, a limited experience switch, I have the following opinions that I am looking to develop and understand better.
I find that is 2 separate things. I get pleasure when I please my Domme, both following commands and pre-empting or just simply impressing. But the giving up of my pleasure to Read more… their control is something very different as an experience. It’s weird to explain, but the nerves and excitement give an edge to that thrill that simply obeying a command cannot give.
As a dom, I like controlling that thrill, but I also really enjoy seeing subs developing, learning and changing behaviours and performance.