To be honest. The way you put it was far better than mine. The one thing i hate about the bdsm community. Is so many "false doms" see it as a way to litterally just get what they want. Like oh. They have a " *** kink" or ooo i can use them how ever i please clearly safewords should be ignored. It Read more… infuriates me becouse it makes so much damage to people , ive come across way too many times my ex never stopped when i said my safe word. Or. Im terrified it wil just be ignored if i use it. Or im gunna get beaten for saying it. And its like damn. That should never be ignored. Its a fundemental human right, its heartbreaking at times

In my personal oppinion. Aftercare should be exactly what a sub wants. The way they like it. They served you. You serve them. A sub should feel the love at the end of a scenario. They should know that. Right the movies over now th3 credits are over. And it becomes a lovely memory. It should be how Read more… and whatwver thwy need to not hate themselfs. A lot of people forget no matter what bdsm relationship or kinks involved are. Consent is always at the forefront of it. They should feel loved. Cared for and pritected. Safe. Especially during aftercare.

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