Hey there, you gorgeous creature of the kink!

Thanks for dropping by. I’m look for someone or someones to share the darkness with, as a lover or a companion or as a fellow dancer in the night, but always as a friend.

I’m poly, currently accompanied from afar (I live alone, if you can call living with cats alone) by a single partner, and the relationship is an open one, meaning I’m open to a single night of passion or something more committed, casually or otherwise. I do practice ENM, though, so everything has be to agreed by all parties (except single night of passion, which I already have a blanket Ok on).

I'm very into music, especially when played at clubs, gigs and festivals. I try to get to at least three festivals a year, and am currently acting as support steward on the Goths on a Bus Catbus (contact me for more info about Goths on a Bus because it’s fucking fantastic!). I can generally be found out clubbing in London, though I do bounce around the country. I mainly attend goth, rock and fetish events.

If you enjoy chatting about, well, anything really, and enjoy being emerged in hot water, I tend to be incredibly chatty in hot tubs, which is probably where you’ll find me when I’m not out clubbing.

I’m a lover of Shibari, Kinbaku and other forms of bondage. I’ve been practicing the art of rope for over two decades, and love not just the process but the intimate connection it creates between myself and my partners.

As a dominant, I enjoy taking control, though I understand the actual dynamic, I love being a guide through new experiences and sensations. I am experienced in various forms of BDSM play and love pushing boundaries in a safe and consensual way.

There’s more, but blah. I don’t want to ramble on.

If you fancy any of the above or to find out more, click Message and send me one! I only bite on request. 🦇

No water or hard sports, nothing that will permanently mark or cause serious , anything involving or ***s, and emetophilia is definitely off the menu (haha).