I am a Dom and a hippy at heart, bit on the spiritual side too.
Is there a sub out there who is open minded and wants to explore BDSM with some tantric thrown in.
Is that you?
Questions?
No messing with heads, no where someone us made to feel sub human, no that will cause destruction of mind, body, soul or self confidence, no letting, no needles, no scarring, no , no pushing hard limits/boundaries and no public indency are some of the hard limits.
What are yours?
When a sub experience a sub drop after play, it is usually is related to the withdraw symptoms relating to the naturally produced *** (like endorphins).
The best bet is to distract them from the drop by encouraging them to do something like take a bubble bath, get some pampering, maybe preorder a Read more… gift that will be delivered on the day they likely going to experience subdrop. Talk to them make them feel good about themselves, learn to get their head in a good place - I used NLP techniques.
As long as it is consenting adults and everyone knows the boundaries, the experience can be mind blowing. Highly recommended.
The older you get the more stimulation you need from what you being using to cum. So the mind goes on an exploration journey to find the right stimulation - go on the journey, keep what you enjoy, reject what don't. Enjoy the journey
Tune in to your gut feeling first - is it something you want to explore? If it is then meet him in a public place for a coffee or drink - face to face connection usually let's your head know if it feels right - and if you two will have a connection.
When you meet on the agenda to discuss is Read more… boundaries and limits and what are the expectations that he wants and just as important your expectations.
If all the pieces fit together go for it, if not you can leave and find something else where the pieces fit.
The big question though has this pricked your interest and is ir something you may want to explore?
Seems you have a needy one there and you not going to meet her expectations. Would recommend reading the book "Why men don't listen and woman cat read maps