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What is a threesome?
What is it really like to have a threesome?
How do you make a threesome work for all involved?
Can BDSM be incorporated into a threesome?
Magazine articles that include: Threesomes
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Probably the single topic most often raised in the magazine's agony column is threesomes. Whether they're your hottest fantasy, your weekly reality or something that you reckon would turn you right off, they're big news - and they certainly have plenty of fans!

The trick to finding a threesome is not to force it - these things happen naturally, and you're unlikely to be able to engineer a situation with a stranger or online that works out to your satisfaction. The trick to enjoying one, on the other hand, is to make sure everyone's feeling included and to try and spend roughly as much time 'giving' as you spend 'getting'. This is a good rule of thumb no matter what kind of sex you're having, but when there's more than one other person involved it can be hugely beneficial to give it some conscious thought!

What is a threesome?

They often say that three is a crowd but not in a threesome. Threesomes are three people of any gender or sexuality engaged in sex acts. It is a very common fantasy.

What is it really like to have a threesome?

You won’t know until you try! But it might not work like your perfect fantasy so remember to keep communicating all the time. It can be a really fun experience but there are ways a threesome can go wrong. Common issues are feeling left out, being too nervous to play and consent violations.

How do you make a threesome work for all involved?

Communicate! Talk beforehand about what you want to happen as well as soft and hard limits. Make sure you have safewords in place and safe actions if someone is going to be gagged. Have aftercare provisions in place too, so that everyone feels safe and cared for. The experience might not go completely to plan but if you’ve talked about things frankly and thoroughly you’re more likely to have a fun experience.

Can BDSM be incorporated into a threesome?

Of course. The dominant partner/s can take control and do the ordering about. There can be restraints involved or impact play. You can add in lots of kinky elements. Just make sure everyone is involved and knows their role.

Threads and discussions that include: Threesomes

  • Are threesomes Kinky?

    DenverKitten posted a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?

    This is a question I ask myself regularly when using the app. It is very common to see a couple looking for a third to join them for some sexual fun. As long as everyone is consenting and into it, I ...

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    ChristySub posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions

    I lie on the bed blindfolded, each wrist and ankle secured at each corner, my whole body on display. I listen to sir and ma'am talking and drinking. She laughs at his jokes and flirts back with him. ...

  • Threesome/Foursomes, What to expect.

    theWolfandDragon posted a topic in Kink Academy

    For those of you who have had MFM/FFM threesomes and/or couple foursomes, give the inexperienced a bit of what to expect of them. Like, how'd you set up, during and after. ...

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    Vixen1983
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    ISO single male for long term commitment and to also enjoy ourselves in the lifestyle. Into fun as well and threesomes and group play. I'm straight but fine with women waist up. I've been in a threesome with another female.
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    So we have a proposition

    I'm newer to using this app and don't have premium but I have been trying to find ways for my partner and I as a couple to meet another woman interested in couples or poly women seeking individually.

    I would love to meet a girl that I could really form a connection with and explore more kink together and go on dates and build a relationship together. It's been something I've been yearning for a long time..

    We are dating and playing together but over time things could be more independent between me and another woman as he sees how much having a girlfriend would benefit me and my happiness. But to start we want to date together and overall it would be a relationship with the two of us

    We are both down to earth people who love going out dancing, trying new foods drinks, experiencing new places music and life together. We are very secure and experienced with threesomes so we know this is what we want.

    Dont reach out if you're only into me or want to separate us because it won't happen. Message or comment in you are interested in talking and youre around our area <3
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    Birthday is in a couple weeks and would like to set up some fun either with a female, a couple for mmf threesomes, or a couple for a swap with me and my lady friend. We like bondage, swinging, group sex, dp, orgy let me know if your interested send pics and ill send ours. If your to far from us you will have to travel to us thanks
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