Misconceptions about Dominant females

[Mi****]

Soooo.. I recently had a message from someone saying they would be my sissy and would like to be a part of my sissy crew that I have.
When I asked what made him think that I had a number of sissies in my dynamics, he said that all Dommes have them.
I have nothing against sissies but don’t usually go for them (although I have a lovely guy who possibly identifies that way in chastity to me).
I think this is an instant that someone is living in their own fantasy world.
So.. my fellow Domme.. what misconceptions have you encountered??

[Li****]

Ik you’re asking for domme’s opinion but I get a lot of misconceptions like that as well with other submissive males, not all of us are feminine, I just like looking like looking cute vs gruff and manly. Doesn’t mean I wanna be slapped in a dress

[MonaR]

Many of the same. I agree, it does seem like they're projecting their own fantasy and making assumptions. 

Edited December 13 by MonaR

[ne****]

I feel it’s more about the feeling and energy control more than dress and stuffs people try

[Su****]

This is written to Dommes, however...EVERY woman with an online profile receives similar attention from 'sub' (DO ME) guys. Dommes may receive more messages from fantasists / genuine newbies who need educating although it's definitely not exclusive to dominants. How do you deal with them? Educate or ignore?

[Si****]

I'm just picturing what a crew of sissies would actually look like???? Is this like a sissy version of a harem? Or a bikie club? Or like a posse in a western movie? The options are endless. I think like everything in this community, the options are endless and up to each person to determine the dynamic that is right for them.

[dominionhub]

I have made several failed attempts to approach domnes. But, I have tried to be respectful.

[Da****]

2 hours ago, SubmissionIsEarned said:

This is written to Dommes, however...EVERY woman with an online profile receives similar attention from 'sub' (DO ME) guys. Dommes may receive more messages from fantasists / genuine newbies who need educating although it's definitely not exclusive to dominants. How do you deal with them? Educate or ignore?

Some people go ignored. Especially the more demanding and ignorant ones who clearly did not pay attention to my profile. Those who approach with kindness and respect are likely to be responded to by me.

[Th****]

That I want to fulfill all of their fantasies.

I have no idea why many male subs want me to peg them. I don't enjoy pegging. I don't get anything from it. Sending me links about pegging won't change my mind.

When I say that I'm not interested in something, you can't change my mind.

Dommes are allowed to say no too.

Edited December 13 by TheMacabreBrat
Typo

[Th****]

3 hours ago, SubmissionIsEarned said:

This is written to Dommes, however...EVERY woman with an online profile receives similar attention from 'sub' (DO ME) guys. Dommes may receive more messages from fantasists / genuine newbies who need educating although it's definitely not exclusive to dominants. How do you deal with them? Educate or ignore?

I automatically block them. I have tried to educate them, but it's just a waste of time and energy. They usually push harder when you try to burst their fantasy bubble 

[Da****]

41 minutes ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

That I want to fulfill all of their fantasies.

I have no idea why many male subs want me to peg them. I don't enjoy pegging. I don't get anything from it. Sending me links about pegging won't change my mind.

When I say that I'm not interested in something, you can't change my mind.

Dommes are allowed to say no too.

This. Everyone thinks a domme must peg. So over it🙄

[Su****]

8 hours ago, Lichesagainstporn said:

Ik you’re asking for domme’s opinion but I get a lot of misconceptions like that as well with other submissive males, not all of us are feminine, I just like looking like looking cute vs gruff and manly. Doesn’t mean I wanna be slapped in a dress

Would you prefer to be slapped wearing a suit? 🤣

[Th****]

15 hours ago, Lichesagainstporn said:

Ik you’re asking for domme’s opinion but I get a lot of misconceptions like that as well with other submissive males, not all of us are feminine, I just like looking like looking cute vs gruff and manly. Doesn’t mean I wanna be slapped in a dress

Men aren't feminine. Who would have guessed. 🤣🙄

Dommes are allowed to have their likes too. If you don't like what they like, say something. It's why vetting matters.

Edited December 13 by TheMacabreBrat

[ge****]

Once again it comes back to the old "kink dispenser" thing that many sub males try and push onto dominants in order to get *their* fantasies fulfilled whilst completely overlooking that a dominant may have their own desires and likes.
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And yep, completely borne out of fantasy as are many of the demands made of Dommes.
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As a bisexual male I've experienced similar when I am contacted by other men, who immediately think not only am I "up for it" there and then, but that I am there to fulfill everything they want and more.

[Gl****]

A lot of male subs like to top from the bottom.