Pulled in different directions

[Deleted Member]

I love control of myself and making plans, but at the same time I sometimes crave someone to take the lead. With sex sometimes I love to take charge but sometimes I just want to be bossed around. Is it possible to be dominant and submissive? 

I'm very new to all this.

[Ta****]

Yes. The term is 'switch.' For some people it's based on context, and who their partner is.

[Va****]

i’m new to BDSM also and I feel exactly the same sometimes i just wanna fuck her rough and hard in all different positions Then there’s someday I just wanna worship every inch of her body  sit on my face and let me submit to you

[Jait71]

I like to think of sex as different flavours of ice-cream... You know what you like - but sometimes you'd like to try something different... AND sometimes different is good, and sometimes it's not - but that's ok too!

[jo****]

Oh yeah! I’m the same way. Switch.

[Puppy6411]

That you feel that way proves that it is indeed possible :) . Not everyone desires to be have a strict D/s dynamic, some enjoy the playfulness of kink simply exploring

[Deleted Member]

Thank you all for replying I appreciate it 🙂👍

[Da****]

Welcome to being a Switch... with the right partner/partners find satisfaction in both sides...enjoy

[Lord_Talion]

Switch how you want, when you want, and with whom you want.

[sh****]

Yes you can be both there's nothing wrong being both but you got to realize which one do you like to prefer the most and