Falling in love

[Ch****]

Honestly.... just spend time with them. Start asking them to stick around, start showing some vulnerability to them. guarentee it will just fall into place. Unless they haven't been honest and *** in full to you

[Sy****]

Straight forward. Especially if you are in the placement of Domme. Just ask if they would like this to be a D/s relationship beyond play and then set the boundaries. 100% in role… in role until light color stop is placed. I find if someone is a sub and they get to enter a relationship, they was 100% in role.

[Da****]

1 hour ago, Angel22XOXO said:

Daddy pandy why are you getting so frustrated em god I said I don’t know the relationship personally and to do what ever she would like to do? I totally understand love is love and love always wins, panda your acting like I’m disagreeing or making this person feel bad, which I don’t want to at all it’s her choice I’m just saying from my point with previous subs ibe been with not hate only loveeeeee ❤️‍🔥

I'm not getting frustrated I'm trying to understand what you meant by coming down to the subs level and what level you think the sub is at versus the Domme...

[MisstressStorm]

Showing vulnerability as a Domme didn’t work for me…. Sub wanted to Dom me and be my pimp so my view is somewhat jaded. Be true to the authentic you ⛈

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, MissEmma30 said:

Please elaborate on that? We're just playing around exploring different things occasionally. Catching feelings was not in the books

I guess what I'm saying is that through clear and open communication new boundaries can be drawn up where you maintain the servitude and use that your sub desires, whilst exploring the new feelings and depth thatx unexpectedly arisen. Besides, a true domme cant be herald hostage by the whims of their sub or the risk of losing their interest! 😅 If anything I would have thought revealing your current minds date to them might make them even more vested in this arrangement... I know it would for me 👀

[Deleted Member]

Is it a phase or is it meaningful and long lasting ? Might give you something to use

[pe****]

You’re a human being before you’re a domme. Let love lead your judgment

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, MissEmma30 said:

Please elaborate on that? We're just playing around exploring different things occasionally. Catching feelings was not in the books

I guess what I'm saying is that through clear and open communication new boundaries can be drawn up where you maintain the servitude and use that your sub desires, whilst exploring the new feelings and depth thats unexpectedly arisen. Besides, a true domme cant be held hostage by the whims of their sub or the risk of losing their interest! 😅 If anything I would have thought revealing your current mindset might make them even more vested in this arrangement... I know it would for me 👀

[iamelodin]

The only things that matter are: communication and compartmentalisation.

Have you communicated and understood your Sub? Is romance / feelings something they are comfortable exploring?

If the answer is no, is it something you're capable of compartmentalizing? If both parties are not fully on board with exploring it you could have fairly significant problems and discomfort in your future.

[Deleted Member]

It’s not hard to fall for someone. Especially when you have that kind of trust. The question you need to ask yourself is if you want more.

[Ro****]

When ever i have dated a sub it has made things better and more intence, but I’m also very much a daddy Dom with huge take care of my baby tendencies. Not so much masochist more the mind of dominance. And I love telling little things like, “make your bed now”

[Deleted Member]

Let your emotions be your guide. If you want things to expand with them talk with them about it. Im sure they may have similar feelings.

[Si****]

7 hours ago, caramel_fappachino said:

Sometimes you can transition from Pure Dom to Loving Dom. Let it happen. It's beautiful

I am in that sort of dynamic with my 24/7 sub and it is indeed the best that can happen to any one

[Tr****]

I have been where you're at, and being completely honest, it didn't work out and ended disastrously. Truth is the dynamic we had in private was VASTLY different from what we had in public. Communications are number one, so definitely suggest testing how receptive they are to listening as well as speaking because that's a huge indicator. If you're both truly enjoying what's happening now, then don't rush to the next step. Sorry to the "love conquers all" crowd, but that shiza is always a gamble. If you don't use some logic then the odds may be stacked against the potential relationship and that's how you get hurt. I don't know the details of your entire situation, but I can at least say that you don't need to be impulsive. Exploring eachothers kinks leaves lots of vulnerability and don't let endorphins and dopamine hypnotize you. Take your time to test the waters and see the depths of this connection. Nobody can give you the answer, so you just have to seek it out for yourself. Spend more quality time together and find out if this person is really what you want. Hell, figure out what you yourself really want, and if you finally decide to role the dice then hopefully, their feelings are the same at the end of it. Best wishes to you though, regardless I do hope the odds are in eachothers favor.

[Mi****]

Thank you all for your input ❤️

[Deleted Member]

Kind of dom I need🥺😍

[Ca****]

I have been in two cuckold relationships, both had a cuckold agreements that was reviewed and amend every 6 months to a year that clearly stated what's allowed, not allowed , desired etc, we found it really helpful

[ca****]

Establish boundaries for you and him, maintain dominance but enjoy his company and let him pamper you. Just remember, you are in charge. Good luck