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Sadly still not well enough - taking a rest for a bit longer x I am a deeply romantic and feminine, submissive woman, seeking a strong yet nurturing Dominant man who understands the beauty of power and devotion. My submission is an innate part of who I am, a gift that I offer only to the right man who knows how to cherish, guide, and claim it. For me, submission is about trust, surrender, and deep emotional connection. I long to kneel before a man whose strength makes me feel safe, whose presence makes my heart race, and whose mind captivates me as much as his touch. Sex starts in the mind, and I crave the kind of chemistry that lingers long after the moment has passed. Outside of the bedroom, I am a passionate, affectionate, and devoted partner. I find joy in caring for my Dominant, making his world more beautiful, and creating a life filled with sensuality and warmth. I have a love for poetry, music, food, culture, nature, and deep conversation. I am drawn to elegance and beauty in all its forms—whether it’s wearing delicate lingerie beneath my dress, preparing a nourishing meal, or simply curling up at my Dominant’s feet, knowing I am exactly where I belong. Nature-loving, adventure-seeking, and hopelessly romantic! You’ll find me soaking up sunrises, chasing sunsets, and stargazing whenever possible. Passionate about herbalism, plants, and all things nutrition and biohacking—I’m always exploring ways to live a vibrant, healthy life. Cooking up something delicious is my love language, and long walks in nature fuel my soul. Let’s share deep conversations, spontaneous adventures, and maybe a cup of herbal tea under the stars. What I’m Looking For: I seek a mature, intelligent, and confident Dominant man who values not just obedience but devotion, connection, and passion. Someone who enjoys taking his time to build something real—who understands that a D/s dynamic is not just about rules, but about trust, desire, and an unshakable bond. I desire a Dominant who is as invested in my pleasure, well-being, and growth as I am in his. A man who knows the power of gentle dominance, who can be both firm and affectionate, guiding me while keeping me safe in his world. I am monogamous and looking for a long-term relationship—not casual encounters. I have no interest in casual hook-ups, one-night stands, or fleeting encounters. I seek something far more intense, meaningful, and enduring. If you’re here for a quick thrill, keep scrolling—I belong to something deeper. I also navigate some health challenges, which have shaped me into someone incredibly resilient, empathetic, and mindful of self-care. This has deepened my appreciation for a healthy lifestyle, balance, and emotional connection—things I would love to share with the right partner. While my health requires some care and understanding, it does not define me; it simply means I value a kind and patient Dominant who embraces both my strengths and my vulnerabilities. If this speaks to you, and you are the kind of man who desires a sensual, devoted, and feminine submissive, then perhaps we were meant to find each other. Find me. x
Female (50) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Me and my Husband have great fun learning what we like. one day we would like to add a third in bedroom but not there yet still learning. I am sub or daddy's little.
Female (40) Eastbourne, East Sussex
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a part of my life for more than a decade. Whilst I would technically class myself as a Sadistic Domme, I have a deep love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks and roles vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than the few I've listed. I’m open-minded when it comes to kinks, as I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years and delight in finding new ones. Currently, I’m looking to make friends with like-minded kinky folks and attend the odd event. I'm open to finding a play partner or two, but I'm not actively searching, more keeping my eyes open for someone I click with as friends first. I’m also not looking for an immediate meet up. I’m a busy woman and prefer getting to know someone via messages and more first before meeting. I’m not looking to rush anything. Outside of kink, I run a few businesses, have started to learn far too many languages, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments (I own 6+ instruments), rather nerdy, and read/write copious amounts of fiction.
Female (31) London, Greater London
Looking to find people who have similar interests as me or others who could introduce me to things that I may not know much about and in the end might be willing to try certain things out. My main interests have been the thought of cnc specifically in the form of a kid napping roleplay where I can be completely restrained and teased. I'd like to try out temperature play in the form of wax, ice and fire such as a matchstick or a lighter, I'd also like to try out breath play and something to do with knives for fun intimidation. Other than that I really like drawing and cooking in my free time.
Female (18) London, Greater London
Howdy humans Im charms a 46 yeat old switch. My dominant side tends to.be sadistic. My sub side i like to do things for my master. Im dealing with some personal stuff so not on here much. I actually left for a few weeks. Im an extremely lucky person to have some amazing friends iv meet via the kink community who are helping me right now. That includes my master. No matter what is going on between us or as happened between us. Iv been extremely lucky that iv been able to just turn up at his apartment and say Please can i get a hug . I am a big on consent , safewords and aftercare. Also cuddles nothing more i like than cuddles. Id do almost anything for a fluffy blanket and cuddles. If you have *** photos on your profile and i message you. Its because I want to know about your ***s not anything else. Love all ***'s apart from rats and mice. Yes totally love spiders. The bigger the better. I have a retired greyhound called Derrick he's my baby. I also own 3 whites tropical tree frogs. I adopted from a friend as they were unwanted pets. Iv ended up with a wide selection of peoples unwanted pets over the years. They come to me and im there forever mom till they pass away. My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS. I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the amazing world of kink. Also love Toronto maple leafs. Yes i know there not the best ice hockey team i dont care. No twinks i dont want to be your mommy or help you with your cougar fetish. I dont want to have to train another male thanks I am here to make freinds. Iv made amazing freinds already on here. Iv learnt so much from talking to other chatters. Not just kink things I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to 1 and other. I'm not a little I'm a furrie. I get asked alot if I'm a little due to wearing lots of animsl onesies
Recently single, looking for someone to have a giggle with and explore with.. both in and out of the bedroom. I love to please and get just as much pleasure from giving as I do receiving. want to chat with me... then give me something interesting to go from in an opening message.. tell me what you'd do to me, your biggest kink or best sex story ?
Female (33) Amberstone, East Sussex
Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
hi there I'm a petite blonde with a big personality, I like to laugh and make people laugh. can be quite naughty when I'm in the mood ? tattoos kind of a must!! please ? more of a Dom ...
Hey I’m Lu and I'm a huge petrol head that loves going on drives and exploring new places and countries. At the moment I spend most of my free time in the gym or finding new peaceful places to read spicy books ; I'm looking for someone who I can explore the world of kink with as I’m new to the scene. Bonus points if you love cars and tattoos as much as I do :)
Hi! I'm new to the world of fetish and kink, so be gentle, although not too gentle! Although I think it's always been something that's intrigued me, I'm diving in and loving what I'm learning so far! I'm mostly interested in women and couples as this is the side of me I'm now exploring. I don't want anything serious, online fun is enough, sharing pics (albeit I will need to grow my own portfolio! Lol) and fantasies, tips and suggestions. I'm not interested in men messaging me, as I can find that in the standard routes and it's not want I want from being here. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some of you soon xxx
Hello All, I am currently looking for a Tall Dom (6ft 2' plus) who would be willing to train me further and explore different scenarios with me. I enjoy bondage (ropes and chains), impact play (floggers, paddles, whips, crops), teasing and orgasm control, rules and tasks and exhibitionism. I have attended many KK parties and fet parties but have yet to attend a *** Garden party - which I would love to dress up for. I look forward to hearing from you - if this is of interest to you x **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to be 'owned'. To be used and cared for by someone who completely understands me. I want them to show me off in public and be proud of me and my unique abilities and in turn I will serve them and them alone.
Female (53) Southwick, West Sussex
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. ***s, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (42) Brighton, West Sussex
looking for a man or two to fulfill my dark & dirty fantasies. Can you help me? ? photographers hit me up - always up for photoshoots too ? I've got an account on 4F too. If you want to see, let me know
Female (27) Burgess Hill, West Sussex
**Desires and Fantasies** I am a slave in training. I have been tasked with finding a female dogging playmate… Hi, and thanks for visiting my profile. I'm a submissive and *** BDSM loving girl with interests in age play, ***, discipline and filthy talk. I crave domination with blindfolds, gags, spanking and ropes (or any kind of restraint – even just your own strength pinning me down!). I have a high *** threshold and can be a little contrary....just to provoke you :) If you're a firm, clean, kind (sometimes) healthy man with a sense of fun then why not introduce yourself? I'll almost certainly want to subjugate to you. Age not a barrier – I probably prefer mature guys (the age play thing!). I have been fucked by some experienced guys and girls, but because my role is passive I lack experience – it's hard to learn when your lover is just using you as their own little sex toy. So someone who has some patience and can show me how to really please a man would be lovely (I'm pretty much ok with women as, being one, I kinda know what we like!) Please know where a clitoris is....
I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as having good communication skills and being respectful. I need to build a connection before meeting. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom.
Female (45) Lindfield, West Sussex
I'm different. not unique, but rare in what I like and how I like it. you had better be too. I'm just kinky. Dislike labels, but in this world of kink, there is a whole other language. I'm an intelligent but divvy blonde. Have my shit together and a busy, demanding job, so it would be nice to have someone who can massage the day away and insert a toy along the way. But, whatever you give, you shall also receive threefold? I love sharing sweet *** and leaving my tokens of affection on your skin. So, I am a Sadomasochistic, understanding Dom and I'm Affectionate with my aftercare. I'm nice, but do not be foolish and confuse that with soft. I like switching too, but never sub, just bottoming. I'm looking for a relationship/partner. An equal. A fellow Dom who likes to switch and share the dynamics, or perhaps an alpha sub/service top. I love a man who can wear female knickers, stockings, and a corset, but their masculinity still shines through. But lets be clear. whilst I love my sissy and CD friends, I am not into full sissification, CD or guys/girls who want their cock/clit locked in chastity permanently, unless it's transactional. Your whole body and cock will be mine to use as I see fit. if you are new, I'm not interested, unless you are exceptional, and let's be honest, you most probably aren't. I now also offer private client sessions for people who meet my prerequisites..... message me. I am also very particular in who I like, so don't be offended if I say no thank you. prerequisites: Intelligence Attention to detail Clean fingernails Confidence Availability Nice skin Shaven or waxed down in the fun zone, but ideally whole body, I like smooth. if you are in a relationship that's fine for sessional, but orherwise I'm not interested.
Female (58) Lancing, West Sussex
25 years old open to almost anything. Can’t say I don’t like it if I don’t try it. Feeling under appreciated in my current long term relationship. Always been a kinky girl, like being hurt and love to please!
Female (25) Worthing, West Sussex
Just exploring the community for the moment! I'm not interested in dating, meeting up in person, anything like that, but I'd love to chat :) I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not! I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too, happy to talk about what being asexual and kinky means to me ? My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***, but I'm not pursuing any real life encounters right now. If you want to talk about these things, please remember to treat me like a person first. I might be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing!
Female (32) Crawley, West Sussex
Married lady looking for a younger, preferably hung guy to have fun with. Probably in front of my husband, but if not then everything would be recorded. It's usually me on this account but my husband has access.
Female (37) Crawley, West Sussex
Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!
Female (56) Copthorne, West Sussex
I am bi and I am looking for couples and solo people to come and play why my partner watches via video call!!!
Female (37) Crawley, West Sussex
Hi! This is my first time on a site like this so excuse me if I'm shy. I've never tried any kinks other than daddy/mommy stuff (and apparently a breeding kink too) so I'm here to kinda see what else I'd maybe like :3 Also before you say anything; I'm still a virgin so I might be a bit awkward.
Female (19) Crawley, West Sussex
READ THE PROFILE my name is Kylie or Kye. Nice to meet you, lol. little about me: I am 37, curvy.....cuddly. ...... I like to play PC games. if you wanna know more, ask questions, not telling everything here... ?. I want to make some friends. I'm in a relationship. i just want to find some new people I can chat with. Have KIK or snap chat. You get that only when I've got to know you a bit... I am a Switch. I have a nice side, which can be very subby, and I have a dominant side it doesn't come out too often, but does when she has too.... Few ground rules: * Don't ask to see Body Parts ..... I'm not yours!!! I'm not going to show you!!! * Treat me with respect!! I think you'd want me to respect you too. Respect is earned, not just given!! * I have a partner been with him for 10 years, so I'm not going to run away with you or be yours and show you bits and pieces or meet up for play dates... * If you can be a gentleman, please act like one. I like the bad boy thing, but the gentleman side will win with me talking to you. * If you have made it this far and read this, please give me the code word, which is Pegs... * I don't like it when ppl talk to me build up a friendship and then drop me like a stone....... Just don't talk to me if that's wat you plan to do!!
Female (37) Ashford, Kent
I am regularly spanked and punished at the command of my husband, by who he agrees a punishment session with. I have written down and published the better episodes which can be found as browser or kindle readable books on amazon. Just search for 'yummymeusli, my spanking adventures'
Female (61) Arundel, West Sussex

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Sadly still not well enough - taking a rest for a bit longer x I am a deeply romantic and feminine, submissive woman, seeking a strong yet nurturing Dominant man who understands the beauty of power and devotion. My submission is an innate part of who I am, a gift that I offer only to the right man who knows how to cherish, guide, and claim it. For me, submission is about trust, surrender, and deep emotional connection. I long to kneel before a man whose strength makes me feel safe, whose presence makes my heart race, and whose mind captivates me as much as his touch. Sex starts in the mind, and I crave the kind of chemistry that lingers long after the moment has passed. Outside of the bedroom, I am a passionate, affectionate, and devoted partner. I find joy in caring for my Dominant, making his world more beautiful, and creating a life filled with sensuality and warmth. I have a love for poetry, music, food, culture, nature, and deep conversation. I am drawn to elegance and beauty in all its forms—whether it’s wearing delicate lingerie beneath my dress, preparing a nourishing meal, or simply curling up at my Dominant’s feet, knowing I am exactly where I belong. Nature-loving, adventure-seeking, and hopelessly romantic! You’ll find me soaking up sunrises, chasing sunsets, and stargazing whenever possible. Passionate about herbalism, plants, and all things nutrition and biohacking—I’m always exploring ways to live a vibrant, healthy life. Cooking up something delicious is my love language, and long walks in nature fuel my soul. Let’s share deep conversations, spontaneous adventures, and maybe a cup of herbal tea under the stars. What I’m Looking For: I seek a mature, intelligent, and confident Dominant man who values not just obedience but devotion, connection, and passion. Someone who enjoys taking his time to build something real—who understands that a D/s dynamic is not just about rules, but about trust, desire, and an unshakable bond. I desire a Dominant who is as invested in my pleasure, well-being, and growth as I am in his. A man who knows the power of gentle dominance, who can be both firm and affectionate, guiding me while keeping me safe in his world. I am monogamous and looking for a long-term relationship—not casual encounters. I have no interest in casual hook-ups, one-night stands, or fleeting encounters. I seek something far more intense, meaningful, and enduring. If you’re here for a quick thrill, keep scrolling—I belong to something deeper. I also navigate some health challenges, which have shaped me into someone incredibly resilient, empathetic, and mindful of self-care. This has deepened my appreciation for a healthy lifestyle, balance, and emotional connection—things I would love to share with the right partner. While my health requires some care and understanding, it does not define me; it simply means I value a kind and patient Dominant who embraces both my strengths and my vulnerabilities. If this speaks to you, and you are the kind of man who desires a sensual, devoted, and feminine submissive, then perhaps we were meant to find each other. Find me. x
Female (50) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Me and my Husband have great fun learning what we like. one day we would like to add a third in bedroom but not there yet still learning. I am sub or daddy's little.
Female (40) Eastbourne, East Sussex

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