Find kinky women in London

Hi, welcome to my profile. I'm totally new to this. After having a vanilla sex life, I've wanted to branch out and see what's on here. I'm looking for networking, chats and maybe eventually meeting the right people. I do not want to be taken advantage of by aggressive style doms, I feel I'd be a switch and would love to try being both a dom and a sub sometime. I will not reply to people who just go straight into dirty talk. Drop me a hi and I'll reply, not let me smash you or drop me some smutty paragraph, quite frankly it's a turn off. Happy to talk about fellow kinks as well as hobbies, I like an even balance. Dont send me your dick without asking - Older doms, don't be condescending, quite frankly it's another res flag and turn off. Too many of you use that card to make the youngsters on here feel paranoid or like shit. - Don't pester me for contact details or lead me to other sites. I'd like to get to know people before I give out other contact info - Don't pester me to meet, some people are different on here than others. I want to know for sure you're genuine and before we meet I'd like to video chat so I know you're real. If you cannot agree to this, we will not be meeting and will assume you're not interested or genuine. If you've read this far then thanks for reading
Female (29) London, Greater London
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Whilst I would class myself as a Sadistic Domme, I have a deep love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed. I’m open-minded when it comes to kinks, as I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years and delight in finding new ones. Currently, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner or two, but I'm not actively searching, more keeping my eyes open for someone I click with as friends first. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments (I own 6+ instruments), rather nerdy, and read/write copious amounts of fiction.
Female (31) London, Greater London
Looking to find people who have similar interests as me or others who could introduce me to things that I may not know much about and in the end might be willing to try certain things out. My main interests have been the thought of cnc specifically in the form of a kid napping roleplay where I can be completely restrained and teased. I'd like to try out temperature play in the form of wax, ice and fire such as a matchstick or a lighter, I'd also like to try out breath play and something to do with knives for fun intimidation. Other than that I really like drawing and cooking in my free time.
Female (18) London, Greater London
Hiya~ Switchy bi brat from London, currently looking for a dom. Outside of kink I enjoy hiking, reading and the occasional embroidery session hehe~ What about you? Kink wise, I'm a sadomasochist, interested in bondage, shibari and impact play~ I am looking for friends, play partners and events. That being said I am not interested in ons and the like, let's get to know each other first. 😊 x
Female (23) London, Greater London
I am a mixed oriental/ Caribbean Mistress/ Dom living in London, My satisfaction is paramount and should be your only concern. I love my high heeled shoes, but love my high boots ..... Not sure yet what i really want, lets see what's on offer.. Let the Games begin
Female (31) London, Greater London
female dom looking for a sub. Fantasy: hope someone can cosplay Eren so that I can fuck him/her/them with a dildo. Don't msg if you’re not in London.
Female (24) London, Greater London
Hey there!! I’m a fun, adventurous person who loves mixing things up. I can be a bit bratty at times, I enjoy exploring light BDSM and I'm definitely curious to push my limits with something more intense. I'm all about the balance-rough but sensual sex, face-fucking, spit, bondage, spanking, choking, mild ***, orgasm control, and a little *** to spice things up. I'm into MMF, MFF, and kinky events, and I'm always open to new experiences. Connection is key for me, so while l'm looking for something real, I'm cool with FWB for now. But please, no long-distance -if you're more than 20km away, it's just not gonna work. NO CYBER FUN either— let's keep it in-person. STI results are a must before meeting, just to keep things safe. In my day-to-day life, I'm a full-time single parent, which means not a lot of free time, so l like to make it count. When I do have a minute, I love photography, taking walks, binge-watching series, good food, and hitting up parties. English isn't my first language, so l hope that’s cool! Insta: @Red_cherry_uk
Female (33) London, Greater London
A lady in the streets but a submissive slut while in the sheet's. I'm a newbie a novice to the experience of the bdsm scene, I am the perfect sub for a Dom that has his PhD in owning a grafetul daddy's girl. I have a need for you to use me in anyway you desire. Your pleasure and contentment is the reason for existence.
Female (27) London, Greater London
Looking for a partner or two to explore FLR with. I’m geeky, and love a good conversation, either over coffee or with you kneeling at my feet. Generally into younger guys. Love to travel, and would love a travel companion. Please don’t think that means I’m looking for a sugar baby, though - I’m not. Not a pro domme, and not into cyber, so if you’re not up for in person, we’re not a match. Play dates, fwb, and one offs are not my thing. If you have some experience and are looking for a relationship, come say hi.
Female (53) London, Greater London
Feminine and kinky . Not an expert , but not a novice. only interested in intelligent, handsome 6 foot plus , Latino , non-English or black guys age over 40. Lana x
Female (46) London, Greater London
Masculinity is inherently constricting. Expectations, dominance, power and emotionlessness. Come escape the crippling societal pressure... Its really just liberation from shame.
Female (26) London, Greater London
Keen submissive with the right person. Masochist - enjoy the flogger. Looking for someone who can push myself. Loved to be restrained. **Desires and Fantasies** role play pet play (I am a good kitty) Sensorial restriction Suspension Mummification
Female (32) London, Greater London
You must address me as princess at all times. Looking for a sub that can truly appreciate all the juice I plan to feed him and thank me for it, knowing he is not worthy. Pussy/ass worship is essential too 💕
Female (27) London, Greater London
Hello ✨ Welcome to the profile of a shy but very desperate girl! I don't have much experience, but I'm eager to try and learn! And I hope you'll be patient with teaching me too :) I aspire to become the perfect little fuckdoll and an obedient submissive for someone. I'm very soft and affectionate, cuddly and overall just caring and empathetic person. But I'm not looking for a relationship or permanent dynamic, so don't expect that you will own me. I love anime, games, alternative fashion, cosplay, and I’m more than happy to incorporate that into play and fulfil your fantasies :) I would love to meet in person or chat on discord and enjoy a few glasses of fun-drinks with you ? So feel free to DM me anytime! I do get a lot of requests though, so try poking me one more time if you really want to chat. But be warned! I’m really new into all of this, like, almost no experience, so may I ask you to be patient with me and teach me how to be a good girl ? Hope to hear from you soon! Cheers! 160 cm/ 5’2 52 kg/ 114 pounds 07/07/2002
Female (22) London, Greater London
Big black sexy female, looking mutual fun, experiences and adventures. I am open minded within reason but open to chats to see if we click. If you like the sound of getting to know a BBW get in touch xx
Female (50) London, Greater London
I’m mostly on FL now, so I don’t check messages on here, unless we are already friends. if you check on FL you will see what events I attend. Who am I: I am Kinky Tiger, but you can call me Miss Tiger (She/her). I’m a blogger first and a TOP after. What do I do: I blog about of all things kinky, fetish, sex, BDSM, fashion, and whatnot (since 2018). I am London-based but sometimes I travel, and I like to meet like-minded people. Please note: I am NOT A SUB or a SWITCH. So, Doms out there, STOP asking me to be your sub. How to contact me online: have we met? I don’t like random messages, especially with no introduction. I find that INCREDIBLY rude.
Female (39) London, Greater London
Glamorous, fit, playful city lady, looking for a regular dominant lover/play partner, someone with good touch and aftercare. Love the psychological side of play, seduce my mind and my body will follow. I love corsets, lingerie, silk etc. We need to also connect on a vanilla level over interesting food, cheese, drinks, good wine etc. I’d love to go to events. More photos if we match. I hate feeling cheap. Please be in/around London UK, over 40, 5'8+. be polite, respectful, in good shape, live alone and have a good standard of living. Thank you.
Female (47) London, Greater London
Plus sized dom I like cartoons/anime, great music and men on their knees for me 🤷🏾‍♀️ created this account with my bestfriend years ago & revisiting solo, so make my time worthwhile x
Female (25) London, Greater London
Looking to date someone who is also kinky. Looking for companionship and maybe a relationship further down the line. Not interested in being someone's Slave. I obviously would also like someone to be able to help fulfill my kinks too. Who wants to help fulfill my kinks? **Desires and Fantasies** My motto is No condom No sex. If you can't or won't wear one. Please don't message me! I am a Masochist. Quite open minded and have a few kinks. I do also have my limits as most do. If you want to know which are which, ask me! Sorry this isn't very detailed. I'm just not very good describing things.
Female (34) London, Greater London
Im a bisexual dominant woman with insomnia I was really into controling people as long as I can remember. not really into leather and high heels and latex all that "dominant women" signs. But Im sure Im really into fully controling mind and body in my hands. Also, currently living in Luxembourg so Im looking for an online communication mostly (also recently very tired of people thinking just cuz I am a dom I owe them domination, no I do not. U need to be interesting in my eyes in order to get that.) (if u dont know what to say, send me ur fav song)
Female (25) London, Greater London
Im polish living in london independently, looking for a long term relationship with someone who would like to control *** and use me x Im 100% submissive please don’t look at my test I don’t know why it shows that?
Female (20) London, Greater London
Quite new to the scene and still figuring it out. In a relationship with a gorgeous submissive pet/slave but very curious about the other side. Who knows what the sub hiding inside me can achieve?? Everything is to have fun 😊 Mature guys only please, 45ish and over.
Female (51) London, Greater London
I mean, y’all all be really done out here There’s no option to tick a box for “Aliens from Pluto” So respectively, I’m waiting for a crop circle with signs to show up.
Female (31) London, Greater London
Often what you want and what you need are entirely different things…but sometimes everything aligns and you end up with something that takes your breath away.
Female (43) London, Greater London

New members in London

Hi, welcome to my profile. I'm totally new to this. After having a vanilla sex life, I've wanted to branch out and see what's on here. I'm looking for networking, chats and maybe eventually meeting the right people. I do not want to be taken advantage of by aggressive style doms, I feel I'd be a switch and would love to try being both a dom and a sub sometime. I will not reply to people who just go straight into dirty talk. Drop me a hi and I'll reply, not let me smash you or drop me some smutty paragraph, quite frankly it's a turn off. Happy to talk about fellow kinks as well as hobbies, I like an even balance. Dont send me your dick without asking - Older doms, don't be condescending, quite frankly it's another res flag and turn off. Too many of you use that card to make the youngsters on here feel paranoid or like shit. - Don't pester me for contact details or lead me to other sites. I'd like to get to know people before I give out other contact info - Don't pester me to meet, some people are different on here than others. I want to know for sure you're genuine and before we meet I'd like to video chat so I know you're real. If you cannot agree to this, we will not be meeting and will assume you're not interested or genuine. If you've read this far then thanks for reading
Female (29) London, Greater London
Looking to find people who have similar interests as me or others who could introduce me to things that I may not know much about and in the end might be willing to try certain things out. My main interests have been the thought of cnc specifically in the form of a kid napping roleplay where I can be completely restrained and teased. I'd like to try out temperature play in the form of wax, ice and fire such as a matchstick or a lighter, I'd also like to try out breath play and something to do with knives for fun intimidation. Other than that I really like drawing and cooking in my free time.
Female (18) London, Greater London
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Whilst I would class myself as a Sadistic Domme, I have a deep love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed. I’m open-minded when it comes to kinks, as I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years and delight in finding new ones. Currently, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner or two, but I'm not actively searching, more keeping my eyes open for someone I click with as friends first. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments (I own 6+ instruments), rather nerdy, and read/write copious amounts of fiction.
Female (31) London, Greater London
Welcome to my little corner of heaven 🔥 where a small is sexy and cute captivating! With size 5UK feet 🦶🏽 that are soft, petite and perfectly pampered. I love to experiment and discover new facets of myself. Get ready for breathtaking photos and videos that will make your time with my feet unforgettable 💗
Female (34) London, Greater London
I am a mixed oriental/ Caribbean Mistress/ Dom living in London, My satisfaction is paramount and should be your only concern. I love my high heeled shoes, but love my high boots ..... Not sure yet what i really want, lets see what's on offer.. Let the Games begin
Female (31) London, Greater London
Single, slim, brunette, 5ft 3, professional, articulate, chatty and confident sub. Seeking a tall, stocky, rugged Daddy (no six packs sorry and not younger than I am), 45yrs old plus. Privacy and discretion are important to me. No interest in sex outdoors. Relatively new to this world having been introduced to it a couple of years ago and cannot turn back. I regard myself as open minded and non-judgemental. I'm also open to exploring and being led.
Female (42) London, Greater London
Masculinity is inherently constricting. Expectations, dominance, power and emotionlessness. Come escape the crippling societal pressure... Its really just liberation from shame.
Female (26) London, Greater London
19 year old dom looking to own a sub, open to hearing kinks just nothing that are in my limits!
Female (19) London, Greater London
looking for a submissive to serve me regularly if you're not a sub please refrain from messaging me
Female (37) London, Greater London
Hi I'm a petite 5 foot 3, c cup tits, long hair with dirty blonde highlights, live with me bloke, but lookin for extra, need dirty sex with no strings.
Female (28) London, Greater London
What I want from my Daddy Dom. Financially stable. Dominant personality, in and out of the bedroom. Not afraid of a strong woman with strong opinions. Is strong enough emotionally, mentally and physically to dominate a strong, but submissive woman. Someone respectful, knowledgeable, cool tempered, but stern when needed. Someone that takes pride in apearnce, their own and mine, (in a healthy manner). Someone that knows the life, has experience and has lived in and is looking for 24/7 relationships What kind of arrangement I am looking for, long term. 24/7 relationship. I am searching for someone that wants to regulate and organise my day, (time working out, working on my creative projects, cooking/eating, and anything creative you would like to add in the daily routine). To which reward and punishment will be given to either completion or failure to complete each task. As well as scheduled and spontaneous, (depending on circumstances) of daily play. I am generally a brat sub. So dealing with insubordination, and being respected by me should be factors to consider when training me. I haven’t been trained by anyone before. I am eager to be trained, to be your bratty princess. But only to the right Daddy Dom. In addition, organised dedicated, slaves days. I am looking to live the lifestyle 24/7. What kind of sub I am. I want to be told what to do, in and out of the bedroom. But I’ll put up a fight with things that don’t make sense or motivation. I am submissive, but I have a very dominant personality. I am an artist. Inasmuch I am eccentric in my ways. I want to explore my limits in the bedroom, and want to find someone strong enough to do so with. All to be be further disused with the right person. If you have read to this point. And are looking for what I am, and would like to know more then when you send me a message: Tell me at least 3 reasons that make you the right Daddy Dom for me. Looking forward to meeting you Daddy Your Kinky Princess.
Female (31) London, Greater London
So it has been a while since I've had to write one of these, so do bare with me. I'm not the best at self promotion, but I pretend I am someone else, and I am reviewing them: A buxom beauty that gives "Dawn French but brown skin" vibes. I'm a playful switch but, having explored my dominant side and craved the alternative, it would be fun to chat with people and explore the wilderness! Me poysunally? I'm a polysyllabic, eclectic, eccentric, touch Little, a pinch mad in a Cheshire Cat way, musically guided, Good Girl all day (top of the Good List, naturally), voracious reader and fantasist looking to be rapt in dynamic and exciting conversation! Tinkle on my sapiophilic ivories and I can assure you the melody is quite beguiling.
Female (35) London, Greater London
I'll be your own private cum dumpster, fill me up with your semen... Eat my fussy until your full.
Female (29) London, Greater London
Hey everyone! 🥺✨ New to kinky dating apps , so slowly adding to my profile. I am a 25 year old submissive female! I have been into this lifestyle for 5/6 years! 💜 Some of the things I am into are: DD/lg BDSM Petplay I love Metal/Rock music! Love a lot of different bands! (Feel free to ask away)! 🎸 I love reading 📚, Musicals 🎭🎶 and going to all sorts of museums! 🖼️ I love trying new foods and cocktails out! (I do not eat red meat!) 🍹✨ I have tattoos ans plan to add to my collection!
Female (26) London, Greater London
Hi hi, Daddy issue girl here New to BDSM, and I like it to be more than just sex and BDSM. I might share some daily life. If you are looking for sex only, then I might not be the fit match. I am looking for something deeper. 172cm [Interest] -wide interests, movies, performances, museums and exhibitions, Some games(Cod/R6 M version.) Sometimes go for free lectures. To know new things! And most of the quiet stuff. [my personality] -I am an introvert, so try to be slow with me, it takes time to get me familiarized. Don't push too harshly! -Daddy issue, Daddy is the best! I can be childish(as is my nature), but I also understand people and things. I go deeper into my brain, fascinated by all kinds of imagination, but my weakness is sometimes I go too far, and I might overthink everything. -Brat? Some define me as a brat, but I guess I am just curious, so I might question all things, and when I debate with you, is not actually debate, I just try to understand more! -And as my nature, if something I don't like, I might directly point it out, so sometimes people think I am a bit sharp. But I am understandable, I don't need too much attention, we both have our lives, so be it, go work when you need to, just don't ghost me, tell me before you go. I won't lose my temper most of the times. -Sometimes you need to be more straightforward to tell me your needs, otherwise I might don't get you correctly. -Free soul. -I respect people, and need people's respect, don't send me anything rude. [target] -I am looking for a father figure person, at least 183+cm, better older than 30, less than 50. You should be gentle, be patient, don't be wild, if you get loud I get so scared! And if you don't understand logic, I get annoyed too! I want to gain new knowledge from different people, if that person can make me think or look at things from a new angle, I will be more than thrilled and excited and will be eager to listen and learn from you! And I will admire you so much. No matter if it is about business, history, design, architecture, games... The more the better! -Care for me. Put up with my questioning, and maybe a little rebellious? -Clean, I like neat and tidy person, it doesn't mean you have to wear a suit or be a big brand, but at least not in a mess. -I'm looking for a person who focuses more on my ideas, but not on my body. -I love interesting soul. -Even if I am sometimes quiet, you will still find your own fun. -Respect me and my privacy. (When I feel like it, *** is all right. But if I want to stop for real, then please do so). -Don't *** me to have sex. Non-vaginal sex is fine, but I will have that willingness when the right moment comes. After all, I am willing to know new people, even just as friends.
Female (22) London, Greater London
I have always wanted to be involved with a colour male able to manage me and make sure I get taken to the full distance every time I am very interested in being fully involved with a Black man I do understand what is involved with him I be fully control and owned by himself and unable to complain about anything what he decides to do with me know I am expected to be managed by himself all the time.
Female (64) London, Greater London
I’m single, 24, living in London, and looking for a Dom with experience who also lives in London Please don’t message me if you’re over 48, don’t have any face photos, or want me to send nudes/sext. These are my online boundaries, please respect (I very likely won’t reply if you don’t have a face photo on your profile/don’t send one with your first message - apologies)
Female (24) London, Greater London
Hiya~ Switchy bi brat from London, currently looking for a dom. Outside of kink I enjoy hiking, reading and the occasional embroidery session hehe~ What about you? Kink wise, I'm a sadomasochist, interested in bondage, shibari and impact play~ I am looking for friends, play partners and events. That being said I am not interested in ons and the like, let's get to know each other first. 😊 x
Female (23) London, Greater London
Quite new to the scene and still figuring it out. In a relationship with a gorgeous submissive pet/slave but very curious about the other side. Who knows what the sub hiding inside me can achieve?? Everything is to have fun 😊 Mature guys only please, 45ish and over.
Female (51) London, Greater London
Don't bother messaging with your below par chat up lines, doubt they work on the dumbest of girls so don't even insult me with such little effort. Recognise that I'm above you, if you read this and message me then you better know your place!! I'm not interested in your masculine messages, demanding I submit to you, sit down, listen and obey like the good little servent you are..just then and once you realise your place and only then.. you might be rewarded 😏 I'll give you a taste like nothing you've ever experienced before 😈
Female (21) London, Greater London
I am not Mistress as I am not your lover!!!, I am Dee Dom, Queen, Goddess the stuff dream (and nightmares) are made of. Sexy, enigmatic, engaging, greedy, deserving, wicked, twisted, beautiful,demanding, erotic, elite, classy, scary these are just a few words that describe ME, and I make no apologies for it. Love travelling, anything to do with the arts, retail therapy and spa days, flogging, *** and great shoes! My aim here is to locate willing pets to serve me on a long-term basis that have the ability to entertain MY passion for pleasure & *** and strives to serve ME, don't get ME wrong your participation in this is not a necessitous and I am not dependant upon your contributions as I am successful in My business arena however this lifestyle is one that I have chosen and I am only seeking perfection so you, MY dear will seek to ensure that I have the best of everything, and YOU shall know MY word is law! This is not what I do MY dears, it's who I am!
Female (56) London, Greater London
You must address me as princess at all times. Looking for a sub that can truly appreciate all the juice I plan to feed him and thank me for it, knowing he is not worthy. Pussy/ass worship is essential too 💕
Female (27) London, Greater London
One thing that most describes me is that I am flexible. I know how to adjust to any situation. I am also amiable and have a good sense of humor. I am a bit of a bookworm. I enjoy listening to music, especially Christian songs and dancing sometimes. I always dream of being a globetrotter and experiencing the culture in each of the places I will visit. I am a bit of a clingy person, but I am not controlling. I am very open-minded and I don't want to argue with small matters.
Female (35) London, Greater London
I'm down to earth and ready to FUCK, any POSITION and HARDCORE♥
Female (28) London, Greater London

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