**I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SUBS STOP ASKING**
_"I'm just a chubby, kinky girl who's too me to be anything else. "_
**Kinky me **
I do identify as both sub and Domme, though I'm really looking to explore my sub side more. I enjoy impact play, light sadomasochism and while I've toyed with rope play, I'd love to do more. I've also played with kittenplay/pet play, but it takes a -lot- to get me into that headspace and you probably won't see that side of me for quite some time. Tease and denial on either side is something I've long enjoyed, though once again, I'm not really interested in subs at this time so please don't message me asking for this.
**Vanilla me**
I'm a geek through and through. Anime, video games, writing, reading....I own a PS4, I run a gaming guild, I wear glasses, I have a rather large and in charge arse and I change the colour of my hair every few months.
I've been...I'm not going to use the word 'accused' because that's quite strong, but oftentimes I've been told I have something of the gothic to me. In my make up, the way I dress, the boots I wear. My little house has been described as 'the witch's house' and it's something that's stuck. I enjoy things like tarot, crystals and palm reading. I'm fiercely political, deeply sarcastic and immensely silly as well as a true adverb lover.
**Other stuff/What I'm looking for **
I'd love to find a long term D/s relationship or even just a friend I can talk to. I'm not looking for couples or polyamory so please, if you browse me with a view to this: thank you for the compliment, but I'm not into that. I am into exploring but I need some element of friendship, I won't just jump into play with you.
Generally, I don't trust very easily so people messaging me and expecting instant sex/gratification won't be best pleased. I am communicative, open-minded and fair.
I'm awkward, quite shy and I lack logic. I bumble around in life and, well, most of all I guess I just enjoy being me. You should too.