I enjoy being outside, walking with the dog, continuously waiting for my green thumb to appear at my allotment, wild swimming or just exploring. I like to cook good food and bake yummy cakes, this had led to me being a little bit cuddly, but I share... My preference is for a more dominant man. Someone who takes control naturally but isn't looking for a doormat, who can be rough but also caring. A sense of humour and the ability to talk about more than their kink are definite plus points.

BDSM and the fetish scene have been a part of my life for more than a decade. Whilst I would technically class myself as a Sadistic Domme, I have a deep love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks and roles vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than the few I've listed. I’m open-minded when it comes to kinks, as I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years and delight in finding new ones. Currently, I’m looking to make friends with like-minded kinky folks and attend the odd event. I'm open to finding a play partner or two, but I'm not actively searching, more keeping my eyes open for someone I click with as friends first. I’m also not looking for an immediate meet up. I’m a busy woman and prefer getting to know someone via messages and more first before meeting. I’m not looking to rush anything. Outside of kink, I run a few businesses, have started to learn far too many languages, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments (I own 6+ instruments), rather nerdy, and read/write copious amounts of fiction.

Looking to find people who have similar interests as me or others who could introduce me to things that I may not know much about and in the end might be willing to try certain things out. My main interests have been the thought of cnc specifically in the form of a kid napping roleplay where I can be completely restrained and teased. I'd like to try out temperature play in the form of wax, ice and fire such as a matchstick or a lighter, I'd also like to try out breath play and something to do with knives for fun intimidation. Other than that I really like drawing and cooking in my free time.

Howdy humans Im charms a 46 yeat old switch. My dominant side tends to.be sadistic. My sub side i like to do things for my master. Im dealing with some personal stuff so not on here much. I actually left for a few weeks. Im an extremely lucky person to have some amazing friends iv meet via the kink community who are helping me right now. That includes my master. No matter what is going on between us or as happened between us. Iv been extremely lucky that iv been able to just turn up at his apartment and say Please can i get a hug . I am a big on consent , safewords and aftercare. Also cuddles nothing more i like than cuddles. Id do almost anything for a fluffy blanket and cuddles. If you have *** photos on your profile and i message you. Its because I want to know about your ***s not anything else. Love all ***'s apart from rats and mice. Yes totally love spiders. The bigger the better. I have a retired greyhound called Derrick he's my baby. I also own 3 whites tropical tree frogs. I adopted from a friend as they were unwanted pets. Iv ended up with a wide selection of peoples unwanted pets over the years. They come to me and im there forever mom till they pass away. My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS. I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the amazing world of kink. Also love Toronto maple leafs. Yes i know there not the best ice hockey team i dont care. No twinks i dont want to be your mommy or help you with your cougar fetish. I dont want to have to train another male thanks I am here to make freinds. Iv made amazing freinds already on here. Iv learnt so much from talking to other chatters. Not just kink things I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to 1 and other. I'm not a little I'm a furrie. I get asked alot if I'm a little due to wearing lots of animsl onesies

Heya. I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for someone else to spend my time with (NOT as a threesome). I'd like something **bold text**meaningful**bold text** with someone who knows what they want. Ideally Dom or switch. **bold text**I do not want one night stands or fuck buddies**bold text** I enjoy soooo many things, it's easier to say what I don't enjoy... I would like to explore more with rope, impact play, outdoor fun, medical fetish looks intriguing. I really am open to so much!

I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.

5' 9 busty brunette looking for NSA fun with a guy, cuckolding hubby with a bull. **Desires and Fantasies** To meet up with a bull so my sissy husband can watch his Hot Wife get fucked, licked by a real man.

Always happy to make friends but when talking/ dating someone will NOT cheat, or sexy message. HAPPILY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH/ OWNED BY BLACKHEARTEDBASTARD, AND MY GOTHIC QUEEN!! Pictures will still be posted. Not new in theory but new in practice, eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Into Praise and Creampies. Prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop. Enjoy; light bondage, light spanking, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually.

Average looking single, vegan lady, looking for friendship maybe more. New to this scene, interested in cross dressing males and men in touch with their feminine side.

The traits I look for in a Dominant go against the grain of the role. Just as subs need incredible strength, Dominants need gentleness and humility. A top accepts control. A sociopath demands it. A Dominant though? They earn it. The only way a Dom will ever earn power over me is by showing me that he would never demand it. . Dominance is not a label. It’s a verdict. It's something I feel in my bones, in my breath, in the way my body responds. it draws submission out of me. I'll give up my power because I trust a person with my vulnerability. D/s is intensely intimate, and I won't engage with it until I know you'll hold it gently. Safety, it transpires, is one hell of an aphrodisiac. . I want a vanilla man: someone who dates me before he considers dominating me; who begins with conversations, not floggers; who gets to know me by talking to me, not fucking me. I want someone who knows people matter, that love matters, that I matter. If I wanted to be ordered around in a role-playing arrangement, I would create an OF and gain an income from it. I don't. I want someone to love who loves me; someone who feels like home; someone who is home. . I want a man who makes mistakes: The type who’s intimately acquainted with his own weaknesses and who doesn’t see admitting fault as a loss. I want a man who walks beside me, not one who positions himself as though we’re at war. Someone who tells the truth, not because he might get caught in a lie, but because honesty matters to him. It matters because he can't respect himself any other way. No person can evolve without the capacity to be honest with themselves, and no relationship can evolve until the hardest truths are known. . I write and post on the forums. A lot. When I was new I read and read but nothing really spoke to me. It was all very black and white, theoretical and serious. BDSM is serious stuff but it should also be full of fun and light. It's a romance, not a religion. In the beginning, I spoke with people who told me that this was no different to vanilla dating and it is. It's not the same at all. There's an intensity about it. I needed to read about other peoples experiences and how they felt because I feel that I might have been able to relate to it. I needed something tangible. I still do. So I write the things that I'd have liked to have read from my experience so far in the hope others find it useful but also to get the thoughts out of my head and into some sort of logical form. Some will be reflections on my experiences, some will be questioning, and others will simply be sarcasm. . if you want to know more about me, maybe have a read. . Writing on Fet, though, has taught me that everyone reads through their own lens. No matter how hard you polish those glasses, people will apply their own tint to everything they see. Everyone seems to carry their own agenda around with them like a shopping trolley. Then they unpack the contents in everyone else's kitchen because it will be about them no matter what. . Few people put work into their online reading. They unpack that creaky old trolley with it's wonky wheel before they've even read the first line. I'm certain some of them don't even bother reading the post before disagreeing with it. Quite frankly, I'm quite tired of being manipulated into conversations I never signed up for. I am responsible for what I say, not what you read. . Please send ice cream

I’m not really sure what to say in this… I’m Emily… I’m very new in this world so still trying to find my feet … just trying to explore new things as the stereotypical sex is just not doing it for me anymore… so ask away if you have any questions as I’ll be sure to ask you plenty

**# Do not message me asking if im dtf, or horny or anything vulgar - you will be ignored.** Interested in ddlg stuff primarily Loves respectful kind gentleman and genuine women

I’m a married lady who is looking to explore her kinky side. love ff play and anything else is extra fun. What to live out some of my fantasy

I have some experience in the kink scene but it was a while ago and looking to get back into it. I'm looking to chat with new people and see where it goes, I'm open to try most things once. I would say I'm a switch but tend to be more submissive/brat. If you have any questions just ask

New to this world.... but Iv always had a darker side that I now want to just let out and play. life’s too short... At a stage in my life where I just want to be free and be myself. If you don’t have a picture or not single please don’t message. I like to know who I’m talking to.

I'm 5'3", on the chubbier side, have short often brightly coloured hair. I have tattoos and peircings and have a pretty grungy/tomboyish style. **Desires and Fantasies** I'm newer to the community so I'm looking for someone to show me the ropes ;) I'm a fan of rigging, impact, and temperature play especially, but I'll try anything once. Part of the fun, right?

Shy girl in an open relationship and dipping my toe in to this world. I'm a bigger girl so if that's not your thing I won't be offended. Would love to chat!

I’d say im shy but once you get to know me I’m funny love 4/20 and can’t stand people who can’t laugh away there trauma life sucks let’s at-least laugh about it

I'm a 47 years old and I'm looking for an experienced Dom. preferably older than me or close in age.

I’ve been in an open relationships for the last 2 years with 2024 being the most exciting yet with lots of goals hit I’m looking forward to ticking a boxes on my naughty list 😉 extremely open minded and love to give give and give 😉 however messaging me rudely will get you nowhere dick pics do nothing for me and crude message detailing what you think will happen on our meet as a first message will result in zero responses I’m here to have fun and make friends I need more people to talk to about this stuff 😝 420 friendly

I should really fill this in but never really know what to write . I'm a 45 year old physically fit female I have always been submissive from and early age but only recently started exploring that part of me for the last 7 years. I've taken this test numerous times and it is forever changing/ evolving depending on my experiences so here's a slight insight ... Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 97% Brat 90% Degradee 86% Masochist 85% Boy/Girl 80% Primal (Prey) 75% Pet 70% Slave 68% Exhibitionist 55% Ageplayer 52% Voyeur 50% Experimentalist 43% Vanilla 31% Non-monogamist 0% Switch http://bdsmtest.org/r/5G7JykvB **Desires and Fantasies** My desires is to find the perfect play partner/dom it what ever form that takes My fantasies are for ever changing evolving and would rather share / discuss them privately

I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, *** or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first.

I enjoy being outside, walking with the dog, continuously waiting for my green thumb to appear at my allotment, wild swimming or just exploring. I like to cook good food and bake yummy cakes, this had led to me being a little bit cuddly, but I share... My preference is for a more dominant man. Someone who takes control naturally but isn't looking for a doormat, who can be rough but also caring. A sense of humour and the ability to talk about more than their kink are definite plus points.