I'm a Trans Woman who hasn't been on the scene in a while and wants to find an active queer friendly community of kinksters. I've gotten some decent experience with BDSM but I want greatly to continue exploring this scene. I'm a switch but as such that means I have more experience as a dominant because we all know how good dommes are often in short supply. Good job I enjoy both ends of the whip.

What makes me happy? 1. my 4 cats 2. my kpop collection 3. reading my smut books I'm a natural submissive so potentially looking for an experienced Dom, never done it before so they would have to be patient with me. I can and will be bratty, depending on my mood for the day Probably a tiny of a little, had this pointed out to me multiple times. If you're after someone who's skinny I'm not your girl, I'm a BBW (minus the beautiful hahaha)

I am 26, I do have a little side. I have had sex only once in my life and am not sure about trying again but can explore. Would love to explore my little side more but would like to gain more experience in the bedroom. Ideally couples would be best for me.

**Desires and Fantasies** Bisexual. looking for a dom/domme, open to couples if the vibe is right. Generally looking for a positive dynamic with praise, willing to try new experiences Hard limits-- watersports, ***, ***, ***, gags, choking/ asphyxiation,

Don’t be put off by my lack of profile images, I’m attractive I can promise you that- I’m looking for a casual and discreet relationship with a dom. I am willing to share pictures with the right man, could that be you?

INACTIVE ✨ petite whore ✨ not interested in spontaneous hookups. I prefer to meet in person after we've chatted for a while to see if we vibe 420 friendly pls

Rules of engagement (initial messages): 1/ please do not send me a pre written ice breaker message. 2/ please do not immediately or very early in conversation ask for access to my private gallery. 3/ please do not address me with any honourifics (or expect me to do so with you) or pet names. 4/ please do not send me a wall of text about yourself that gives me zero to work with or comment on. 5/ please do not send explicit messages about what you want to do to me or vice versa. Any of the above will either get any immediate block (if you’re lucky) or a sc@thing reply. I feel like I want to write something here yet I know people fail to read my sparse profile as it is so I’m not sure why I’m going to bother. Me, I’m a simple girl who is difficult in the wrong hands. I’ve been strong for too long and honestly I want to be able to be carefree and relaxed. The way to reach me is by intriguing my mind. I’m not impressed by how you look, what you drive, your job title or similar. That’s not to say those things are unimportant, but if you don’t capture my mind then there’s no hope of even continuing conversation. I’ve been told I’m “lovely”, I don’t believe this at all. I’m grumpy, prickly and stubborn. However, in the right hands and in the right way I melt and can become completely malleable - you just need to know which buttons to push. It’s difficult to quantify exactly what I am as different people and dynamics bring out different sides of me, so I’m definitely evolving in ways. That said, I am in no way Dominant, nor am I a switch. Sometimes I think it would make life easier if I were but I can’t change me I’m afraid. I’m sexually submissive with a masochistic streak that enhances my pleasure and a bit of a brat with a “make me” attitude at times. A good girl until I’m not, I need someone strong enough to deal with me and put me in my place yet also nurture me and fulfil my needy, attention wh*re side. I don’t do emotional/mental pa!n nor do I have a “little” side per se. I’m enjoying exploring myself and having an outlet for writing and my images. I’m a lover of correct grammar (if I’ve made a mistake writing this I will be mad but feel free to correct me). If you don’t know the difference between your or you’re, their, there or they’re then please either learn (or have a jolly good reason for your ignorance) or be prepared for me to point it out. I’m not someone who dishes out what she can’t receive - I’m perfectly happy to be corrected. I love good conversation and that which makes me think and question my opinions is most definitely welcome. My love language (unsurprisingly) is Words of Affirmation - someone telling me they’re proud of me or well done or good girl makes my heart beat just a little faster. However, be warned, I can spot insincerity a mile off. A very close second love language is Physical Touch - this does not mean sexual touch. I am an extremely tactile person, I love to touch and be touched and I hate to feel starved of that. That said, I’ve recently come to understand that the theories of love languages are rooted in patriarchy with distinct misogynistic undercurrents. Further that whilst I have a like and enjoyment for certain aspects of what is described by the “love languages” I appreciate that these are fluid and interchangeable within any relationship based on needs at any given time. There’s more, I’m sure, but for now I feel this will suffice. 2/2/25 an addition to the profile for those of you who wish to know more and aren’t faint of heart: Well, I got challenged to write a new, totally honest profile and here it is. It’s a lot harder than it looks to lay yourself bare (emotionally) to the world and it definitely isn’t something I’m used to doing or necessarily comfortable with. Many of the things I do/don’t do are done with my safety in mind. That safety relates to my physical, emotional and mental safety and my ability to be *** with someone. If you have visions of sending one or two messages then meeting up (or even transferring our chat off this platform) I’m not the girl for you. It, usually, takes me weeks to feel safe enough with someone to even give them my phone number and longer still to meet them. I understand that that doesn’t work for many people and maybe some day I shall be able to throw caution to the wind and be carefree (I highly doubt it) but today is not that day. If you can’t understand or accept the cautious side of me or try to change it then we aren’t going to work. As you may have already worked out I’m hard work. I actually don’t mean to be but life has taught me one too many lessons and now I don’t know how else to be. I have huge walls and I try to appear like an ice queen. Unfortunately what I’m hiding is a hopeless romantic who desperately wants to be loved and, stupidly, still believes in happy ever after. And yes, I appreciate this is a kink site however for me kink/play/BDSM whatever you want to call it doesn’t work without a (emotional) relationship underpinning it. I have the greatest affinity to the labels “submissive”, “brat”, “good girl” and “masochist” but they don’t, nor should they, define me. I am me and what I am with one person will be different to what I am with another. I bounce off other people and because of that I am, in a sense, “evolving”. I do know that when someone really, truly sees me they are often surprised by who I am in comparison to what I present. For example whilst I can be a brat it isn’t the “real” me, it’s more of a defensive safety mechanism to keep people at arms length. What I yearn for is someone that I can tease, flirt with, have fun with and who is strong enough and self assured enough to understand me and help me to be the good girl I crave being. A person who can listen to me and talk with me about anything and everything, a person who wants and needs me, who can praise me when I deserve it and discipline me when I need it. Someone who is honest and open and authentic and who I can trust with my mind, body and soul and who I respect, that is absolutely the key to “earning” my submission. If I haven’t scared you off as yet perhaps the following will - I am needy and I thrive on attention. If I like you I will want your time. I will want to bounce messages back and forth with you throughout the day and I’ll really want you to want that too. I will expect good morning and good night messages not because I’ve asked for them but because I’m the first and last thing you think about. I will want to please you but, I know myself well enough to know that I’ll also push you and “test” you to see if you can keep me in check. What do you get in return for all my wants and needs? Me of course, what more could you want 😝 Seriously though, you get a girl who is open to many things, who will want the best for you and who will do whatever she can to please you. You will get someone who wants to help you be the absolute best version of yourself, who will always have your back and fight your corner. Sexually, kink and play wise - well, that’s private for now… I suspect my inbox will be a barren wasteland after this but perhaps the right person will see this for what it is and it could be the beginning of an amazing journey. X

Interested in sub role in the bedroom only. No real experience before. Every day on here I’m learning more. I have no experience of the below but these are the areas that have caught my interest: CNC being tied/restrained orgasm denial ***d multiple orgasms choking I won’t engage with profiles with no pictures on. Sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️😔

Ok, so it's about time I updated my profile..... I've been on fet for a year now. I've met a few people off here. I've had my ups and downs on here, but all in all, it's a positive experience and has helped my journey to where I am now. I've changed a lot over this last year. I have done things and been to places I never thought I would. It just takes that right person who is supportive, understanding, encouraging, and never judges to make you feel comfortable enough to explore and have fun! And I definitely am doing just that! I am in a relationship with the most amazing person!! He came out of nowhere, and i wasn't expecting it, but i wouldn't change it for the world!! He's my best friend, my love, and my Dom. I'm far from perfect and have lots to learn and get right, but I want nothing more than to please him and make him happy!!! Please do not message me asking what i am looking for....I am not looking for anything. I have all I want and need with Him. And all that I am is for him.... i am his princess, his slut, his good girl and sometimes his cheeky bratty girl too (even though he's not a fan of her!) I will not engage in rude conversations or the sending and/or receiving of explicit photos. I enjoy chatting in the lobby and making friends in there. Feel free to say hi in there, but be polite and respectful, please. I am always learning and find the lobby and the app in general, a good place at times to do that. I think that's all there is to say, really. Just wanted to update my profile to stop people messaging and asking what I'm looking for and why I am on the app. Im not looking for anything or anyone. I am on the app purely to chat and make friends. Simple.

Trans woman, 23 year old space nerd Trying to be more gothic, obsessed with shinies and anything I can cuddle. very kinky and freaky but talk to me first open to most things I'm not the best at small talk but will talk your ear off about my interests like MTG, space or percy Jackson

really kinky and open minded to new experiences I mostly just wanna have fun see where it leads xx

Looking for some excitement in my life 🥰😘 Sub and ideally looking for a female Dom or *Women only* *More pics available when I get to know you*

Hi. thanks for stopping by. I’m still just dipping my toe into all things kink but know I don’t want a boring vanilla type relationship next time. mostly been trying things by myself. would love to find someone who knows what they’re doing with rope (you can see my own attempt on here). not into lots of *** or anything messy but I do like someone who is dominant but also gentle.

I'm a sub looking for a proper Dom to help satiate my needs. Feel free to shoot me a message, and we'll see how we get on ;)

very good little girl who’ll do what I’m told both inside and outside of the bedroom, absolutely love being a little and eveyhting sweet and adorable that comes with it both sexually and non sexually. looking for a mommy who’ll be my cg and protector asw as have a firm hand when needed. (I can take plenty ;3) ideally looking for a long term mommy but open to short asw! Please please message me if interested don’t be shy!! Also looking for new kinky friends (esp women) near me to meet up and chat kink with, and maybe go to events with!

✨ artistic gothy switchy shapeshifting soul ✨ lover of food/cooking, music, gaming, fashion, and a whole host of hobbies I have a terrible habit of jumping back and forth between. Not new to the lifestyle by any means - bit off the deep end and an exhibitionist to my core ? I craft fetish, leather, & petplay wear for funsies ✨ Looking for likeminded friends, not really looking for playpartners atm! I can often be found at events & only have interest in friends/playpartners who are on the irl scene as well x Event buddies are always welcome, I'm interested to branch out to events in new regions and explore what the community as a whole has to offer! ✌️ ENM

A bit of a whimsical hippy type, with a passion for kink and a slight sex obsession. I love good, messy, intensely orgasmic sex - and who can blame me! Probably leaning more towards being a brat, sometimes a switch. I do like dominating men albeit I haven’t had much practice as I let my own confidence get in the way! Open to exploring various kinky things and would just like to meet more people locally and have cool friends who also enjoy endlessly talking about sex with me hahaha

looking to meet like minded people to explore kinks nad fantasies Kind of new to this environment so a little shy :p Kinks- •Taboo •Breeding •Milking •Hucow •Caged •Knotting •Horseplay •GangBang •Kidnap •Multiple Cocks in One Hole •Machine •Stretching •Fisting sc - mizzizzylizzy

Female, 20s, mostly SFW age regressor, looking for a mommy/daddy - better at talking to women cause guys scare me a lil!! :3

just a 40 something year old coming out to kink and looking for some new adventures. ideally looking to explore my sub side, limits and discover a few kinks along the way.

I am 26, I do have a little side. I have had sex only once in my life and am not sure about trying again but can explore. Would love to explore my little side more but would like to gain more experience in the bedroom. Ideally couples would be best for me.

Don’t be put off by my lack of profile images, I’m attractive I can promise you that- I’m looking for a casual and discreet relationship with a dom. I am willing to share pictures with the right man, could that be you?

What makes me happy? 1. my 4 cats 2. my kpop collection 3. reading my smut books I'm a natural submissive so potentially looking for an experienced Dom, never done it before so they would have to be patient with me. I can and will be bratty, depending on my mood for the day Probably a tiny of a little, had this pointed out to me multiple times. If you're after someone who's skinny I'm not your girl, I'm a BBW (minus the beautiful hahaha)

I'm a Trans Woman who hasn't been on the scene in a while and wants to find an active queer friendly community of kinksters. I've gotten some decent experience with BDSM but I want greatly to continue exploring this scene. I'm a switch but as such that means I have more experience as a dominant because we all know how good dommes are often in short supply. Good job I enjoy both ends of the whip.

**Desires and Fantasies** Bisexual. looking for a dom/domme, open to couples if the vibe is right. Generally looking for a positive dynamic with praise, willing to try new experiences Hard limits-- watersports, ***, ***, ***, gags, choking/ asphyxiation,

Interested in sub role in the bedroom only. No real experience before. Every day on here I’m learning more. I have no experience of the below but these are the areas that have caught my interest: CNC being tied/restrained orgasm denial ***d multiple orgasms choking I won’t engage with profiles with no pictures on. Sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️😔

I'm a sub looking for a proper Dom to help satiate my needs. Feel free to shoot me a message, and we'll see how we get on ;)

A bit of a whimsical hippy type, with a passion for kink and a slight sex obsession. I love good, messy, intensely orgasmic sex - and who can blame me! Probably leaning more towards being a brat, sometimes a switch. I do like dominating men albeit I haven’t had much practice as I let my own confidence get in the way! Open to exploring various kinky things and would just like to meet more people locally and have cool friends who also enjoy endlessly talking about sex with me hahaha

Female, 20s, mostly SFW age regressor, looking for a mommy/daddy - better at talking to women cause guys scare me a lil!! :3

INACTIVE ✨ petite whore ✨ not interested in spontaneous hookups. I prefer to meet in person after we've chatted for a while to see if we vibe 420 friendly pls

very good little girl who’ll do what I’m told both inside and outside of the bedroom, absolutely love being a little and eveyhting sweet and adorable that comes with it both sexually and non sexually. looking for a mommy who’ll be my cg and protector asw as have a firm hand when needed. (I can take plenty ;3) ideally looking for a long term mommy but open to short asw! Please please message me if interested don’t be shy!! Also looking for new kinky friends (esp women) near me to meet up and chat kink with, and maybe go to events with!

Trans woman, 23 year old space nerd Trying to be more gothic, obsessed with shinies and anything I can cuddle. very kinky and freaky but talk to me first open to most things I'm not the best at small talk but will talk your ear off about my interests like MTG, space or percy Jackson

really kinky and open minded to new experiences I mostly just wanna have fun see where it leads xx

Hi. thanks for stopping by. I’m still just dipping my toe into all things kink but know I don’t want a boring vanilla type relationship next time. mostly been trying things by myself. would love to find someone who knows what they’re doing with rope (you can see my own attempt on here). not into lots of *** or anything messy but I do like someone who is dominant but also gentle.

✨ artistic gothy switchy shapeshifting soul ✨ lover of food/cooking, music, gaming, fashion, and a whole host of hobbies I have a terrible habit of jumping back and forth between. Not new to the lifestyle by any means - bit off the deep end and an exhibitionist to my core ? I craft fetish, leather, & petplay wear for funsies ✨ Looking for likeminded friends, not really looking for playpartners atm! I can often be found at events & only have interest in friends/playpartners who are on the irl scene as well x Event buddies are always welcome, I'm interested to branch out to events in new regions and explore what the community as a whole has to offer! ✌️ ENM

looking to meet like minded people to explore kinks nad fantasies Kind of new to this environment so a little shy :p Kinks- •Taboo •Breeding •Milking •Hucow •Caged •Knotting •Horseplay •GangBang •Kidnap •Multiple Cocks in One Hole •Machine •Stretching •Fisting sc - mizzizzylizzy

just a 40 something year old coming out to kink and looking for some new adventures. ideally looking to explore my sub side, limits and discover a few kinks along the way.

Ok, so it's about time I updated my profile..... I've been on fet for a year now. I've met a few people off here. I've had my ups and downs on here, but all in all, it's a positive experience and has helped my journey to where I am now. I've changed a lot over this last year. I have done things and been to places I never thought I would. It just takes that right person who is supportive, understanding, encouraging, and never judges to make you feel comfortable enough to explore and have fun! And I definitely am doing just that! I am in a relationship with the most amazing person!! He came out of nowhere, and i wasn't expecting it, but i wouldn't change it for the world!! He's my best friend, my love, and my Dom. I'm far from perfect and have lots to learn and get right, but I want nothing more than to please him and make him happy!!! Please do not message me asking what i am looking for....I am not looking for anything. I have all I want and need with Him. And all that I am is for him.... i am his princess, his slut, his good girl and sometimes his cheeky bratty girl too (even though he's not a fan of her!) I will not engage in rude conversations or the sending and/or receiving of explicit photos. I enjoy chatting in the lobby and making friends in there. Feel free to say hi in there, but be polite and respectful, please. I am always learning and find the lobby and the app in general, a good place at times to do that. I think that's all there is to say, really. Just wanted to update my profile to stop people messaging and asking what I'm looking for and why I am on the app. Im not looking for anything or anyone. I am on the app purely to chat and make friends. Simple.

Rules of engagement (initial messages): 1/ please do not send me a pre written ice breaker message. 2/ please do not immediately or very early in conversation ask for access to my private gallery. 3/ please do not address me with any honourifics (or expect me to do so with you) or pet names. 4/ please do not send me a wall of text about yourself that gives me zero to work with or comment on. 5/ please do not send explicit messages about what you want to do to me or vice versa. Any of the above will either get any immediate block (if you’re lucky) or a sc@thing reply. I feel like I want to write something here yet I know people fail to read my sparse profile as it is so I’m not sure why I’m going to bother. Me, I’m a simple girl who is difficult in the wrong hands. I’ve been strong for too long and honestly I want to be able to be carefree and relaxed. The way to reach me is by intriguing my mind. I’m not impressed by how you look, what you drive, your job title or similar. That’s not to say those things are unimportant, but if you don’t capture my mind then there’s no hope of even continuing conversation. I’ve been told I’m “lovely”, I don’t believe this at all. I’m grumpy, prickly and stubborn. However, in the right hands and in the right way I melt and can become completely malleable - you just need to know which buttons to push. It’s difficult to quantify exactly what I am as different people and dynamics bring out different sides of me, so I’m definitely evolving in ways. That said, I am in no way Dominant, nor am I a switch. Sometimes I think it would make life easier if I were but I can’t change me I’m afraid. I’m sexually submissive with a masochistic streak that enhances my pleasure and a bit of a brat with a “make me” attitude at times. A good girl until I’m not, I need someone strong enough to deal with me and put me in my place yet also nurture me and fulfil my needy, attention wh*re side. I don’t do emotional/mental pa!n nor do I have a “little” side per se. I’m enjoying exploring myself and having an outlet for writing and my images. I’m a lover of correct grammar (if I’ve made a mistake writing this I will be mad but feel free to correct me). If you don’t know the difference between your or you’re, their, there or they’re then please either learn (or have a jolly good reason for your ignorance) or be prepared for me to point it out. I’m not someone who dishes out what she can’t receive - I’m perfectly happy to be corrected. I love good conversation and that which makes me think and question my opinions is most definitely welcome. My love language (unsurprisingly) is Words of Affirmation - someone telling me they’re proud of me or well done or good girl makes my heart beat just a little faster. However, be warned, I can spot insincerity a mile off. A very close second love language is Physical Touch - this does not mean sexual touch. I am an extremely tactile person, I love to touch and be touched and I hate to feel starved of that. That said, I’ve recently come to understand that the theories of love languages are rooted in patriarchy with distinct misogynistic undercurrents. Further that whilst I have a like and enjoyment for certain aspects of what is described by the “love languages” I appreciate that these are fluid and interchangeable within any relationship based on needs at any given time. There’s more, I’m sure, but for now I feel this will suffice. 2/2/25 an addition to the profile for those of you who wish to know more and aren’t faint of heart: Well, I got challenged to write a new, totally honest profile and here it is. It’s a lot harder than it looks to lay yourself bare (emotionally) to the world and it definitely isn’t something I’m used to doing or necessarily comfortable with. Many of the things I do/don’t do are done with my safety in mind. That safety relates to my physical, emotional and mental safety and my ability to be *** with someone. If you have visions of sending one or two messages then meeting up (or even transferring our chat off this platform) I’m not the girl for you. It, usually, takes me weeks to feel safe enough with someone to even give them my phone number and longer still to meet them. I understand that that doesn’t work for many people and maybe some day I shall be able to throw caution to the wind and be carefree (I highly doubt it) but today is not that day. If you can’t understand or accept the cautious side of me or try to change it then we aren’t going to work. As you may have already worked out I’m hard work. I actually don’t mean to be but life has taught me one too many lessons and now I don’t know how else to be. I have huge walls and I try to appear like an ice queen. Unfortunately what I’m hiding is a hopeless romantic who desperately wants to be loved and, stupidly, still believes in happy ever after. And yes, I appreciate this is a kink site however for me kink/play/BDSM whatever you want to call it doesn’t work without a (emotional) relationship underpinning it. I have the greatest affinity to the labels “submissive”, “brat”, “good girl” and “masochist” but they don’t, nor should they, define me. I am me and what I am with one person will be different to what I am with another. I bounce off other people and because of that I am, in a sense, “evolving”. I do know that when someone really, truly sees me they are often surprised by who I am in comparison to what I present. For example whilst I can be a brat it isn’t the “real” me, it’s more of a defensive safety mechanism to keep people at arms length. What I yearn for is someone that I can tease, flirt with, have fun with and who is strong enough and self assured enough to understand me and help me to be the good girl I crave being. A person who can listen to me and talk with me about anything and everything, a person who wants and needs me, who can praise me when I deserve it and discipline me when I need it. Someone who is honest and open and authentic and who I can trust with my mind, body and soul and who I respect, that is absolutely the key to “earning” my submission. If I haven’t scared you off as yet perhaps the following will - I am needy and I thrive on attention. If I like you I will want your time. I will want to bounce messages back and forth with you throughout the day and I’ll really want you to want that too. I will expect good morning and good night messages not because I’ve asked for them but because I’m the first and last thing you think about. I will want to please you but, I know myself well enough to know that I’ll also push you and “test” you to see if you can keep me in check. What do you get in return for all my wants and needs? Me of course, what more could you want 😝 Seriously though, you get a girl who is open to many things, who will want the best for you and who will do whatever she can to please you. You will get someone who wants to help you be the absolute best version of yourself, who will always have your back and fight your corner. Sexually, kink and play wise - well, that’s private for now… I suspect my inbox will be a barren wasteland after this but perhaps the right person will see this for what it is and it could be the beginning of an amazing journey. X

Looking for some excitement in my life 🥰😘 Sub and ideally looking for a female Dom or *Women only* *More pics available when I get to know you*