I’m drawn to the dynamic interplay of masculine and feminine energy—where the masculine leads by providing, protecting, and holding space, and the feminine thrives in openness, creativity, and connection.
For me, submission is about surrendering to energy and trust, not to a person or hierarchy.
I value equality in relationships and don’t see myself as beneath anyone.
While I enjoy elements of power exchange, my approach is more fluid, intuitive, and rooted in mutual respect.
I’m exploring the energetic and spiritual aspects of connection, finding pleasure in the polarity between giving and receiving.
I’m not into rigid hierarchies or traditional BDSM protocols—they don’t align with how I see myself or the dynamics I want to create.
I’m here to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate intentional, conscious dynamics and value both strength and softness in partnership.
Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit into the world of BDSM.
While it’s broad, it often emphasizes traditional dynamics—dominance as control, submission as surrender, and activities like impact play or inflicting ***.
That feels incompatible with my values and what I want from these dynamics.
For me, it’s about energetic polarity, where masculine energy leads by holding space, and feminine energy surrenders in trust.
This isn’t something everyone explores, but I don’t think it makes it any less valid.
It’s just different from the mainstream practices of BDSM.
I’m looking for something deeper, softer, and more nuanced—focused on connection, respect, and the flow of mutual energy, rather than physical *** or harshness.
Happily married for 13 years and have a very strong relationship. On another site with same name too. were Both in the swinging scene and experimentalist ‘Go with the flow’ attitude’
Unable to drop tools as we have a life and young family commitments. Therefore we have to arrange play dates in advanced.
Do visit the club scene, Townhouse is our usual go to club at
I’m drawn to the dynamic interplay of masculine and feminine energy—where the masculine leads by providing, protecting, and holding space, and the feminine thrives in openness, creativity, and connection.
For me, submission is about surrendering to energy and trust, not to a person or hierarchy.
I value equality in relationships and don’t see myself as beneath anyone.
While I enjoy elements of power exchange, my approach is more fluid, intuitive, and rooted in mutual respect.
I’m exploring the energetic and spiritual aspects of connection, finding pleasure in the polarity between giving and receiving.
I’m not into rigid hierarchies or traditional BDSM protocols—they don’t align with how I see myself or the dynamics I want to create.
I’m here to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate intentional, conscious dynamics and value both strength and softness in partnership.
Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit into the world of BDSM.
While it’s broad, it often emphasizes traditional dynamics—dominance as control, submission as surrender, and activities like impact play or inflicting ***.
That feels incompatible with my values and what I want from these dynamics.
For me, it’s about energetic polarity, where masculine energy leads by holding space, and feminine energy surrenders in trust.
This isn’t something everyone explores, but I don’t think it makes it any less valid.
It’s just different from the mainstream practices of BDSM.
I’m looking for something deeper, softer, and more nuanced—focused on connection, respect, and the flow of mutual energy, rather than physical *** or harshness.
Happily married for 13 years and have a very strong relationship. On another site with same name too. were Both in the swinging scene and experimentalist ‘Go with the flow’ attitude’
Unable to drop tools as we have a life and young family commitments. Therefore we have to arrange play dates in advanced.
Do visit the club scene, Townhouse is our usual go to club at
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