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Anyone gonna prove me wrong about this site?
Looking for a playmate and see where it leads. Open to online and real time meets, but would prefer real time.
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P.S. I can't see spanks so come say Hi.

Looking for a fun open minded mistress for online or irl sessions. I am a kind caring sub with few limits and an open mind, ready to serve and please, message me to discuss kinks and limits if you are interested. In my vanilla life I am normally quite dominant and enjoy spending time with friends and family, watching football, shopping, eating good food and travelling (would love to go on a kinky holiday one day). If this interests you feel free to send me a message, can send more pics etc also

An ex online sub of mine, female, age 69, is looking for a new dom, she's not on this site so any doms interested please contact me. She's looking for local to B69 age 65 to 75.

Love foot fetish looking for some online fun

Anyone wanting to be told exactly how to touch themselves and when to stop. Give me full control over exactly when and how you cum if at all.

I’m a 20M pleasure dom from the Black Country, I’ve been into kink for 6 years now and I’m curious to get myself out there and see what happens.

I’m into orgasm control, sensory play, bondage (only light at the moment but I’m open to learning), brat taming, ownership, light-moderate impact play (open to more with the right person), rough play, and I have experience in DDLG/CG dynamics. I’m open to pretty much anything except for my hard limits which are listed on my profile. I love talking about the kink lifestyle, and I have experience with both online and in-person dynamics.

My profile has more info on me and I’m open to any questions. Don’t be afraid to pop up 😊

I am seeking a Domme who I can build trust with and let my femme side out whilst supporting her/thier needs.
Although I look naturally like a masculine man, and have a masculine job in a senior position. However what I truly desire is to come home from work and be of service to my women as her submissive. Although I like being in charge now and then, it can be very exhausting being dominant all day in and outside of work. My heart truly lies in being a submissive for my partner. I am also seeking LTR and open to most things, although I enjoy being a dom in the bedroom, I prefer if it is asked of me by my partner.
I also enjoy going to fetish events. Into heavy metal, rock, basically I’m an emo/goth type. Although I responsibilities and honor traditional values in life as a man, I also enjoy the kinky side of life and want to explore it as much as I can. Please message if you are genuinely seeking this dynamic as I have been told I am a gem but nobody seems to notice or make the effort to establish a connection on dating sites despite my efforts.
I prefer face to face interactions as I don’t have time for online games.

I'm basically looking for a Sugar Daddy/Mommy who would treat a sissy to outfits and eventually meet up.

Online they could use me within my limits

Hi Everyone

As we all get ready for Christmas I’m searching for those interested in an online kinky advent calendar. Each day a new window of submission to open and explore.

All submissives welcome. Drop me a message if interested. The more the merrier.

Ho ho ho!

I’m a closet bi crossdresser and i am looking for a trans or femboy friend. Mainly looking for online more like a penpal. Let’s chat and let me live vicariously kinky through you and your experiences, naughty chat and fun is nice but not required

Submissive..open minded, strong sense of self.

Looking for a real connection on both a emotional and physical nature. Not looking for casual or online only.

Hello,

As the title suggests I am an 18 yo Male, who is interested in exploring my submissive side and mainly pegging. I'll make it clear though that I am a switch (not purely submissive), I can travel but not accommodate (happy to book hotels etc), I am not always free as I live a relatively busy lifestyle, I do have a partner (who does not know about this and I do not want them to find out, so please keep that in mind), but I am looking for something a bit extra and learn about myself from someone who would be willing to be patient at times but push me at the same time to go out of my comfort zone and try new things.

IF that hasn't put you off, and would like to help me/play with me then here is a little bit more information:

I am located in the Oxfordshire area, and I can travel freely as I please. I do work regular hours and my weekends can be a bit hit or miss if I'm busy or not. I would rather 'schedule' something in than having a spontaneous session so that I can organise my way around it. Due to my age I am very inexperienced in this world but I am looking forward to being exposed to BDSM more and more as I learn about myself. I don't have any age preferences at all, and I am open to anything at least once. But I would love to try pegging as that is something I have a fantasy for, I don't want to rush straight into it I would need some time to get to know each other before we do anything sexually, this doesn't have to be in person it can be online (please bear in mind I will have notifications silenced as I don't want my partner to find out but I am regularly checking my phone).

I am NOT looking for any kind of FinDom, however I am willing to buy toys/outfits (within reason) to enhance our play sessions, also I have toyed with the Idea of booking a dungeon but have never had anyone to go with, this would be ideal because then there is nothing to worry about and no one can hear anything that's going on . I'm hoping that we click and I would like to go to munches or events together too when we get a bit further down the line.

So if you are interested, please read through my profile before messaging, then please leave a comment or send me a DM and I'll get back to you as quickly as possible.

(I've tried to make this as professional/clear as I can but if there is anything I could do differently then let me know as I am always learning!)

Thank you so much for reading,
-Funnyguy435

Looking to have some online fun with people. Am a fairly versatile dom. Here to be whatever you need me to be. Read my profile and then tell me your fantasy... LOVE voice messaging. Happy to just give but it's nice to receive. Been told I have Mr Darcy vibes.

Happy with one-time only or something more long-term but please be clear about what you're after. If we REALLY connect and it's practical am open to IRL but obviously that needs more discussion. Don't want to exclude all you hot non-Brits from this though.

Searching for a little/sub or pet from the UK that lives within 20-30miles from me, I'm a daddy dom and have a lot of online experience with both sides/the kinks, but I am looking to gain more irl experience. Looking for both sfw and nsfw and those that are open to irl, feel free to msg if interested

Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me now! We'll have to be quick, my living situation is a bit of a mess right now. I just need some NO STRINGS playtime.

I have a vomit kink, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men.

If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach

Sadly I don't throw up much, maybe you could help with that?

I love that weak and light headed, but refreshed feeling one feels after vomiting, when your stomach rumbles as if you were really hungry, but it's just because it's empty, just dare think about food and you're back over the bowl , we've all been there

I am up for chatting about my kink online first off if you want, hows about you begin your conversation with me by telling me the last time you lost your stomach contents?

Please get in touch if you're up for talking about this kink, chatting online, telling me stories about it, maybe more xx

xxx

Does anyone wanna meet tonight or have some fun online

looking for a sub, maybe IRL but online to begin with.

Mutual verification required.

18+

If you got nice feet it’s not the only thing I like but feeling really into my foot fetish today message me would love to have some online play x

Message me if you are a good sub at home bored and not well so looking for some online fun x

I’m going to try and give as much information as I can in this post

Male dom here looking for a sub to work on a relationship that will become TPE. I have been experimenting over the past 3 years learning what I like and don’t like. Trying new kinks and learning about a whole new world that I didn’t know about. I’ve had some very fun times and fun partners that I’ve been able to experiment with and let my dominant side come out.


At the beginning of the year I started a new dynamic with some one online that I had never done before. We started off talking as normal and then she said she wanted to do TPE. This was new for me but I was very interested. For the first couple of weeks we just spent the time getting to know each other and building up a trust. We set up boundaries in the beginning and said we won’t jump right into this. We agreed I’ll slowly get control of things one by one. I ended up getting control over 3 things in her life before we had to call it off. Personal reasons that both us of had no control over.

Now I have got a taste of that kind of relationship,I don’t think I want anything else. I’m looking to try and build this type of relationship/lifestyle again.

What I’m looking for is some one who is committed and really wants the same as me. I know it’s a massive ask for some one to give up all control but with a lot work from both side we could make something amazing. A massive kink and love of mine is being given power. I loved having that control over some one but I also want to be able to help someone. Let me help you become a better version of your self

About me: im 26 years old. Im 5’7 with brown hair and a ginger beard. I have 9 tattoos that are placed all over my body,some of them are big pieces. I have a couple of piercings as well. I would say im a slim toned build.

Sfw side: once comfortable I have a really dark sense of humour. I use to be a big party guy but since getting my own place a couple of years ago I have become a bit of an introvert. I enjoy nights in over nights out, doesn’t mean I don’t go out anymore though. I use to be very big into working out but had a break over the last year. Just getting into boxing training which I’m falling in love with. One thing you should know about me is I don’t ever see kids being in my future. I came to this decision a long time ago and my mind won’t change on that.I want to put my time and effort into other things in my life

NSFW side: I like impact play, breath play, restrains, cnc, fisting. Eating arse, I’m also a pleasure dom,I love giving. I have been getting more into bdsm. I have made my own Czech glory hole that you can be strapped into. I’m wanting to getting into rope classes as well so I can learn to do shibari properly. I’m definitely a bit sadistic so hopefully you are some one who is good with ***

I’m happy with talking online for a bit but I’m not looking for another online relationship . I want to be able to meet up in person and build a proper relationship

It’s ok with me if you have experience or not. This is something we will build together and experiment with so as long as you are open and willing to try then we can make this work. If you have experience in any of it then that’s great

Thanks for reading this long post. Fingers crossed I find the person im looking for

Hi, I'm looking for someone that I can get to know and make happy.

I know everyone's time is precious and I want to make their time fun enjoyable and relaxed.

I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn would be helpful, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or she has one less thing to do around the house. I have had experience with ass play and loved it so would definitely like if she wishes to explore this more.

I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. She liked me to cook for her, she would play and me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.

I am only looking for in person meetings but happy to chat online for bit exchange phots and information to allow you to decide if I'm right for you, preferably around east midlands, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection.

I do have some limits but these are more or less the same as most people's, like no , ***,kids, permanent marks, there are few more but nothing to extreme. I do like to experiment and try new things so I will try most things once unless is against my limits.

If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.

I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she understands and agrees to what I’m doing, I can explain a bit more when we chat.

Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I am also only interested in a female mistress. I would like a friend, someone when we are not playing, we can have a conversation, maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, want to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.

Hello!

I am only just starting out on my submissive journey, and I am looking for an experienced older Dom (30-45) who would be willing to take his time to train and guide me on my journey.

I am ultimately looking for a long term 24/7 style dynamic where my Dom has a majority of control. So please do not message me if you're only looking for one off encounters.

Please take a read at my profile before messaging me. I am only interested in real life dynamics - nothing online!

M x

Hello to you if you are reading this. I am making this advert as I am new on here and would really love to meet some new and interesting people! I am totally open minded and I like to try and push myself and I will try anything pretty much at least once!! I am looking for anything from an online and virtual friend to the real thing.So if you find yourself reading this advert why not now take just a few seconds to get back to me and say hello yourself!!!!!