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**************************************************** Sapiosexual, sensual, sometimes sadistic kinkster here, I am evolving quietly but rapidly, that's all I have at the moment to convey. I am vaccinated to fuck and scrupulously clean, I expect that from you, I don't do scat, urine, Poly(ester), needles, scarring, dark stuff... I am in the West Midlands so LOCAL is what I prefer as I am on the HUNT. Here to embark on an amazing journey of kink self discovery. Please feel free to message me if you are a good person, no odd, challenging types please as seeking a like minded soul, and have worked hard on myself and ready to meet. Rope is my main jam and would love to meet a rigger and eventually have a life partner with this qualification. This excites me, I am also researching shabiri for my own pleasure ... I also would love to meet a Pleasure Daddy Dom, I feel I need to be nurtured and moulded to be what you want me to be, omit my bossy, bratty ways from me. Please do not request to view my pics if you only have ONE pic and you have sent me one sentence... NO virtual pen pals as I want to meet in person, I will not be online titillation for your narcissistic and 'lonely' and bored fetish needs and just because this is a fet site, it's a DATING SITE! NO MARRIED/PARTNER MALES AS I'M NOT INTERESTED, as the Ashley Madison site would be more suitable for you cheaters out there. I look forward to meeting you lovely, single men. **************************************************** **Desires and Fantasies** Oh gosh.... Love to write some saucy stuff...
Female (51) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 23 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -tell me all your kinks and limits
Female (24) Birmingham, West Midlands
**Everyone wants to be my friend until I tell them I just want to be their friend.** Just your average girl! I don't want hook ups, I just want to make like-minded friends so I can figure myself out :> I'm geeky, I like drawing & designing game characters & reminiscing the N64 days. I buy a lot of gaming merch.
Female (31) Birmingham, West Midlands
Wanting to meet someone with similar interests like being out doors traveling and the finer things in life I am love to be submissive and do as I'm told, I also have beautiful feet which seem to be popular.
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
Edit: Please stop messaging with one liners! Introduce yourself, say something that captures my attention. DO NOT talk sexual to me or call me any pet names. Be a Dom, not a wannabe. Princess looking for her King!! Bisexual, but looking for a Dom. Possibly a 24/7 dynamic. PVC, tape, rope and chain loving sub. I love bruises and marks on my body. Nipple torture and forced orgasms. But most of all, I love serving my Master. If only I can find one!
Female (49) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hello. I'm in an open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands. No older than 35 (sorry I won't reply)
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there! I am new to all this and finally getting to learn more about myself. I'm a LESBIAN SUBMISSIVE. I'm not interested at all in men, sorry! Submission is given not taken!
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (36) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love pain and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high pain tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (22) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi semi new to this but I'm looking for dominant men to talk and meet up with. Based in Birmingham, I'm 4'11 blonde and blue eyed lets talk if you're interested. I'm happy to trade pictures. I like movies, video games, travelling, and am a big dog momma, quite a chill person except when it comes to nerd stuff. Know what I like but would like to keep exploring more.
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Easy-going woman who likes to take photos. :camera: I usually take photos of my surroundings and my food, but something tells me those would look strange here. :relaxed: I'm not interested in men, sorry! :no_good: Ladies, if you want to touch, you first have to tie me up ♥
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm in a committed and loving poly relationship with a wonderful woman but I am on the hunt to fulfil a need I have. I adore music and vape more than a choo choo train. not looking for anything in particular. I must admit I am inexperienced with Men so be patient. I am interested in Gor (John Norman) and interested in the topic, I have read (listened via audiobook) to the first * I believe. very interesting sub culture within the BDSM lifestyle, I am no free woman nor a kajira I am just interested in the ideology of it. if punishment is s*x then yeah... not for me, all s*x including denial and sadism is a joy for me, I love a good essay thanks but that is still a suitable punishment as it takes time away from me gaming. hoping for someone who respects my relationship I have with my partner and respects that rules need to be along side my vanilla relationship. my relationship with my partner is separate to my BDSM life, they are open to it but is vanilla with me. I am a bigger girl, good womanly curves so if You're after a stick then I'm not for You, I have * and an * which means I also have a tummy and thighs. hope You read all this, I hope You did, I will put as much effort in as You do, this took some time and being so, I hope You gave the time to read it all. **Desires and Fantasies** a gal has to have some secrets...
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
hey it seems no one on here knows how to just talk anymore sending me sexual messages isn't going to get a reply not sure why you think it would to be honest try something more authentic and real ?‍♀️ I love deep conversations I like to talk I'm not on here just for fun I actually do want to find out who I am and meet people who aren't after a quick fuck ?? if you ask what I look like clearly you haven't looked at my profile so don't even bother hitting me up. ? anyway have a blessed day == My BDSM Test made on FET App == 75% Submissive 50% Dominant == My Roles == 75% Brat 65% Slave 55% Little 50% Caregiver 50% Prey 40% Rope Bunny 40% Masochist 35% Rigger 30% Degradee 23% Pet 0% Master/Mistress 0% Degrader 0% Sadist 0% Brat Tamer 0% Hunter 0% Pet Owner https://www.fet-app.com/in_app/quiz_result/en/YMquH8c9
Female (31) Birmingham, West Midlands
Curvy redhead Domme, looking for LTR, friendships or events. vanilla me is studying to become a gemmologist, love being in the countryside, Italian and Thai food, skiing, swimming and I’m a bit of a gamer.
Female (28) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am new to this community. I am looking for a mistress who can control, train and treat me. I wanna try pleasing my mistress as much as I can. I still don't know about my limit yet and wanna explore.
Female (31) Birmingham, West Midlands
Submissive looking for a dom that provides sufficient aftercare. Ideally something long term, though not looking for relationship. Once trust has been built, I can be a good girl and equally as bratty, I find it fun to give my dom a challenge. I’m open to almost everything but my main interests are impact play, degradation and humiliation, overstimulating and breath play. Although I enjoy all of the above, I need someone who will be patient and is happy to keep easing into the new kinks and more intense play. This is a must, if I don’t trust you it will not work. I am anonymous for a few reasons, but after we have talked for a while I’m more than happy to share pics. Other info: I am pretty tall (5’10) and go to the gym a lot to maintain my figure. Outside of the bedroom I’m very creative and enjoy painting, walks and cooking/baking.
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
A little nerdy and super shy. ENM and looking for connection with people with common interests. A good conversation is always a good start ;)
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
What i like people that are intelligent enough to keep my mind active, as i am very intelligent and get bored easily. Someone that can put me in my place, as i can be very stubborn but easily persuade to be a good girl for the right person.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
hey there :) yes I get a lot of messages and I have no clue what I’m looking for, hence why I’m here ? I’m a bratty little sub who’s been on the scene for two years and been in two dynamics. Feel free to drop me a message and we can see what happens
Female (19) Birmingham, West Midlands
**if you mention acts with my dog I’m blocking you** Birmingham based :3 Hi!! I’m on here looking for little friends. If you wanna be friends please message me!!!!!! it’s nice meeting you all !!
Female (22) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for no drama NSA fun with likeminded individuals, or regular FWB to have the banter, explore new experiences and blow off some steam! I work hard but play harder! Happy to exchange pics once I get to know better. Single males; Dom / Viking Heavy / repeated cummers to the front!! Weakness is a good beard and tattoos! (But not essential lols) Couples / play partners; I am not a unicorn, lols! And will not chat to the male only, genuine couples or play pairs for friendship and antics! *** update *** I do now have a regular partner in crime for mutual fun and swaps (MMFF), would be great to find another pair to join us for nights out, socials and attend club scenes. We have an open relationship and we both play together or alone. Thanks for reading you sexy naughty bunch ;)
Female (35) Birmingham, West Midlands
My screening process is designed to provide a higher level of confidence in regard to our mutual understanding, safety and compatibility than what a quick conversation or a checklist could ever offer. My process should not be difficult for those possessing at least an average level of intelligence, and it weeds out the disingenuous, hesitant, and inept along the way⛓ My happiness comes first, I am your #1 priority. “What have I done for Goddess today to make Her smile?” Should be a consistent thought in your little mind. A sub does not represent Me, I represent Myself. Understand that I know males, I know you run from who you are. I know the way you think. (if you have no profile verification or are owned by another dom do not message) i also do modelling which anyone is welcome to watch i do mornings and evenings just ask & i’ll send you the details❤️
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands
NOT A DOMME. NO COUPLES. NO ONLINE-ONLY. NO PET NAMES TO ADDRESS ME. I'm an independent, caring, mum of two, living in the West Midlands. Dating someone, and slowly finding my feet with poly/RA. Masochistic sub, with bratty and sometimes little/middle tendencies (which are just a part of my personality rather than actual age play). Currently plus size/fat/very curvy/chunky monkey, 5' 2". Bisexual, tattooed & pierced. Non smoker. Can be quiet/shy until I feel comfortable with people. Rubbish at knowing people's intentions so you'll need to tell me if you're interested in friends, dating etc. That doesn't mean I want you to tell me your fantasy though thanks. I have a dark, sarcastic and silly sense of humour, a dirty mind & absolutely love a good dad joke or pun! I have arthritis, so that means there are a few things I cannot do/find difficult, but I'm stubborn, refuse to completely give into it, often wanting to try and do it anyway. LOOKING FOR: In short, connection. Open to platonic friendship, LTR, kink event play partners and/or whatever other iteration a relationship might take (excluding ONS). Preferences: •Age 30+ (friendships/dating) 40+ (relationships) •Dominant/Daddy types (relationships). •Sadistic tendencies (event friends, dating, LTR) •Fairly local or can/will travel. Must haves: •Non smoker (LTR/dating) •Emotionally & intellectually intelligent (no Mensa membership required though!) •Engage & stimulate my brain (or we'll get nowhere) Absolutely not: •Race/teen play. •ONS. •Online/Text only. •Unicorn hunters ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ VANILLA ME: People watcher. Loyal. Prefers alt to mainstream in many things. Baby Witch. Exploring new cities. Coffee shops/restaurants. Spiritual, but not religious. Theatre. Time by the sea. Road trips. Live comedy. History. Days out. Museums/houses. Lots more. KINKY ME: I have many kinks. A brief overview: power exchange, pain, impact, praise, electric play, anal, wax play, hair pulling, primal. Little/Middle me: Disney. Attention. Colouring. Fluffy blankets. More attention. Stuffies. Glitter. Day trips. Praise. Cuddles and more. No diapers, pacifiers or regression. For those of you who are more visual, I have a blog sharing images/clips of things that appeal to me.... https://novaturient81.bdsmlr.com/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dislikes: Race play. Racists. Teen seekers. Unsolicited friend/gallery requests. Pet names from strangers. Kink-only conversation with strangers. Rude/disrespectful people. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My location is not correct, but I AM in the West Midlands. Speak to you soon! ♡
Female (42) Birmingham, West Midlands

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**Everyone wants to be my friend until I tell them I just want to be their friend.** Just your average girl! I don't want hook ups, I just want to make like-minded friends so I can figure myself out :> I'm geeky, I like drawing & designing game characters & reminiscing the N64 days. I buy a lot of gaming merch.
Female (31) Birmingham, West Midlands
Edit: Please stop messaging with one liners! Introduce yourself, say something that captures my attention. DO NOT talk sexual to me or call me any pet names. Be a Dom, not a wannabe. Princess looking for her King!! Bisexual, but looking for a Dom. Possibly a 24/7 dynamic. PVC, tape, rope and chain loving sub. I love bruises and marks on my body. Nipple torture and forced orgasms. But most of all, I love serving my Master. If only I can find one!
Female (49) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there! I am new to all this and finally getting to learn more about myself. I'm a LESBIAN SUBMISSIVE. I'm not interested at all in men, sorry! Submission is given not taken!
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hello. I'm in an open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands. No older than 35 (sorry I won't reply)
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Wanting to meet someone with similar interests like being out doors traveling and the finer things in life I am love to be submissive and do as I'm told, I also have beautiful feet which seem to be popular.
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love pain and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high pain tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (22) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi semi new to this but I'm looking for dominant men to talk and meet up with. Based in Birmingham, I'm 4'11 blonde and blue eyed lets talk if you're interested. I'm happy to trade pictures. I like movies, video games, travelling, and am a big dog momma, quite a chill person except when it comes to nerd stuff. Know what I like but would like to keep exploring more.
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
**************************************************** Sapiosexual, sensual, sometimes sadistic kinkster here, I am evolving quietly but rapidly, that's all I have at the moment to convey. I am vaccinated to fuck and scrupulously clean, I expect that from you, I don't do scat, urine, Poly(ester), needles, scarring, dark stuff... I am in the West Midlands so LOCAL is what I prefer as I am on the HUNT. Here to embark on an amazing journey of kink self discovery. Please feel free to message me if you are a good person, no odd, challenging types please as seeking a like minded soul, and have worked hard on myself and ready to meet. Rope is my main jam and would love to meet a rigger and eventually have a life partner with this qualification. This excites me, I am also researching shabiri for my own pleasure ... I also would love to meet a Pleasure Daddy Dom, I feel I need to be nurtured and moulded to be what you want me to be, omit my bossy, bratty ways from me. Please do not request to view my pics if you only have ONE pic and you have sent me one sentence... NO virtual pen pals as I want to meet in person, I will not be online titillation for your narcissistic and 'lonely' and bored fetish needs and just because this is a fet site, it's a DATING SITE! NO MARRIED/PARTNER MALES AS I'M NOT INTERESTED, as the Ashley Madison site would be more suitable for you cheaters out there. I look forward to meeting you lovely, single men. **************************************************** **Desires and Fantasies** Oh gosh.... Love to write some saucy stuff...
Female (51) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (36) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 23 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -tell me all your kinks and limits
Female (24) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
Easy-going woman who likes to take photos. :camera: I usually take photos of my surroundings and my food, but something tells me those would look strange here. :relaxed: I'm not interested in men, sorry! :no_good: Ladies, if you want to touch, you first have to tie me up ♥
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am new to this community. I am looking for a mistress who can control, train and treat me. I wanna try pleasing my mistress as much as I can. I still don't know about my limit yet and wanna explore.
Female (31) Birmingham, West Midlands
submissive young girl who is into: dd/lg (but not the age regression part), anal, bondage, cnc (especially sleep play), public play, mild bdsm (spanking, slapping, choking) and more ;) I like older men (well dd/lg kink duh haha) but ideally a daddy in his late 20’s or 30’s. Also have a particular interest in teachers/professors! teacher/student roleplay is hot not really interested in talking to anyone already in relationships. I’m a slut for attention and get jealous
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
Submissive looking for a dom that provides sufficient aftercare. Ideally something long term, though not looking for relationship. Once trust has been built, I can be a good girl and equally as bratty, I find it fun to give my dom a challenge. I’m open to almost everything but my main interests are impact play, degradation and humiliation, overstimulating and breath play. Although I enjoy all of the above, I need someone who will be patient and is happy to keep easing into the new kinks and more intense play. This is a must, if I don’t trust you it will not work. I am anonymous for a few reasons, but after we have talked for a while I’m more than happy to share pics. Other info: I am pretty tall (5’10) and go to the gym a lot to maintain my figure. Outside of the bedroom I’m very creative and enjoy painting, walks and cooking/baking.
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hellooo, I’m Katie I’m a 25 year old girl with thick thighs and a great personality, I’m into fashion, but I’m single I’m looking for the right person to lift me off my feet and whisk me away
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Only looking to meet guys interested in Daddy roleplay meets be it one off or regular or a Daddy looking for a long term dynamic. I will not do any other meets, it's important you know this and not arrange to meet me if no interest in this roleplay as I will end the meet. Local guys only as I'm not after an online relationship. Not into anything too bdsm, much prefer a caring, loving daddy. I'm a chunky monkey so unless you like a big woman I will not be your type, not into dressing up as I'm body conscious
Female (38) Birmingham, West Midlands
What i like people that are intelligent enough to keep my mind active, as i am very intelligent and get bored easily. Someone that can put me in my place, as i can be very stubborn but easily persuade to be a good girl for the right person.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
??‍❤️‍?‍?? I'm very straightforward, curios about the world of BDSM with some experience in being Dom, degrading and occasionally sub. I'm after pleasure after getting to know eachother well and building trust and mutual respect. I am bigger than average, strong and tall and incredibly sexy, very feisty and I know what I want. If you think you can make me cum easily and impress me easily, think again, if you think rough sex is BDSM don't bother message me. Guaranteed great conversation, and great performance, I love sex and I won't settle for less than intellectual convo and impressive flirting and foreplay. Also if you are tired after round two in bed, DON'T message me. Impress me with how many sex toys you have ?
Female (30) Birmingham, West Midlands
You’ll tend to always have some sarcastic or snarky comment not lingering too far away and honesty is definitely my favourite thing. I’m still pretty new to this community and don’t have heaps of experience but have had a Dom/sub dynamic before. Not on here for anything in particular, just seeing what unfolds. Willing to show my face when I’m more comfortable with you.
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi! I’m a newbie submissive, interested in finding a dom. I’m kinky. I like a older dominant male, so the more dominant you are the better? I like to be a bit bratty, but not always… ;) can you handle a brat?
Female (26) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm a sensitive, fun, loving girl with a kinky side. I am hoping to find a long term relationship with someone that would allow my to play with his asshole. I'm naturally dominant in the bedroom, however I like to play submissive so I'd consider myself a switch. I'm not just looking for fun, but hoping to find someone to build something with starting with any mutual kinkss xox
Female (26) Birmingham, West Midlands
My screening process is designed to provide a higher level of confidence in regard to our mutual understanding, safety and compatibility than what a quick conversation or a checklist could ever offer. My process should not be difficult for those possessing at least an average level of intelligence, and it weeds out the disingenuous, hesitant, and inept along the way⛓ My happiness comes first, I am your #1 priority. “What have I done for Goddess today to make Her smile?” Should be a consistent thought in your little mind. A sub does not represent Me, I represent Myself. Understand that I know males, I know you run from who you are. I know the way you think. (if you have no profile verification or are owned by another dom do not message) i also do modelling which anyone is welcome to watch i do mornings and evenings just ask & i’ll send you the details❤️
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands

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