NOT A DOMME. NO COUPLES. NO ONLINE-ONLY.
NO PET NAMES TO ADDRESS ME.
I'm an independent, caring, mum of two, living in the West Midlands. Dating someone, and slowly finding my feet with poly/RA. Masochistic sub, with bratty and sometimes little/middle tendencies (which are just a part of my personality rather than actual age play).
Currently plus size/fat/very curvy/chunky monkey, 5' 2". Bisexual, tattooed & pierced. Non smoker. Can be quiet/shy until I feel comfortable with people. Rubbish at knowing people's intentions so you'll need to tell me if you're interested in friends, dating etc. That doesn't mean I want you to tell me your fantasy though thanks.
I have a dark, sarcastic and silly sense of humour, a dirty mind & absolutely love a good dad joke or pun!
I have arthritis, so that means there are a few things I cannot do/find difficult, but I'm stubborn, refuse to completely give into it, often wanting to try and do it anyway.
LOOKING FOR:
In short, connection.
Open to platonic friendship, LTR, kink event play partners and/or whatever other iteration a relationship might take (excluding ONS).
Preferences:
β’Age 30+ (friendships/dating) 40+ (relationships)
β’Dominant/Daddy types (relationships).
β’Sadistic tendencies (event friends, dating, LTR)
β’Fairly local or can/will travel.
Must haves:
β’Non smoker (LTR/dating)
β’Emotionally & intellectually intelligent (no Mensa membership required though!)
β’Engage & stimulate my brain (or we'll get nowhere)
Absolutely not:
β’Race/teen play.
β’ONS.
β’Online/Text only.
β’Unicorn hunters
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VANILLA ME:
People watcher. Loyal. Prefers alt to mainstream in many things. Baby Witch. Exploring new cities. Coffee shops/restaurants. Spiritual, but not religious. Theatre. Time by the sea. Road trips. Live comedy. History. Days out. Museums/houses. Lots more.
KINKY ME:
I have many kinks. A brief overview: power exchange, pain, impact, praise, electric play, anal, wax play, hair pulling, primal.
Little/Middle me: Disney. Attention. Colouring. Fluffy blankets. More attention. Stuffies. Glitter. Day trips. Praise. Cuddles and more. No diapers, pacifiers or regression.
For those of you who are more visual, I have a blog sharing images/clips of things that appeal to me....
https://novaturient81.bdsmlr.com/
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Dislikes:
Race play. Racists. Teen seekers. Unsolicited friend/gallery requests. Pet names from strangers. Kink-only conversation with strangers. Rude/disrespectful people.
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My location is not correct, but I AM in the West Midlands.
Speak to you soon! β‘