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Howdy humans Im charms a 46 yeat old switch. My dominant side tends to.be sadistic. My sub side i like to do things for my master. Im dealing with some personal stuff so not on here much. I actually left for a few weeks. Im an extremely lucky person to have some amazing friends iv meet via the kink community who are helping me right now. That includes my master. No matter what is going on between us or as happened between us. Iv been extremely lucky that iv been able to just turn up at his apartment and say Please can i get a hug . I am a big on consent , safewords and aftercare. Also cuddles nothing more i like than cuddles. Id do almost anything for a fluffy blanket and cuddles. If you have *** photos on your profile and i message you. Its because I want to know about your ***s not anything else. Love all ***'s apart from rats and mice. Yes totally love spiders. The bigger the better. I have a retired greyhound called Derrick he's my baby. I also own 3 whites tropical tree frogs. I adopted from a friend as they were unwanted pets. Iv ended up with a wide selection of peoples unwanted pets over the years. They come to me and im there forever mom till they pass away. My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS. I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the amazing world of kink. Also love Toronto maple leafs. Yes i know there not the best ice hockey team i dont care. No twinks i dont want to be your mommy or help you with your cougar fetish. I dont want to have to train another male thanks I am here to make freinds. Iv made amazing freinds already on here. Iv learnt so much from talking to other chatters. Not just kink things I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to 1 and other. I'm not a little I'm a furrie. I get asked alot if I'm a little due to wearing lots of animsl onesies
(IF YOU ARE AFTER JUST SEX PLEASE MOVE ALONG BECAUSE I'M MORE THAN A PIECE OF MEAT - THANK YOU KINDLY) Hello weary traveller and welcome, I invite you to pull up a chair and relax as I present you the tales of the dweller of this realm, our adventure together will be sprinkled, with chaos-galour and geek-a-plenty! We start our tale with learning a little about the ‘little lady’ of the realm, she is an odd one that’s for sure with her collection of hobbies as grand and tall of mount crumpit itself - she is never short of interests to talk your ear off about! From colouring, crafts and baking to stories told from far away lands – in fact her obsession with lands far to the east is vast, vast enough to be called that phrase, now what was it again…. Gah curse my cotton tail my memory does not serve me in as well these days, what was that cotton ball name! Ah yes now I recall! WEEBS!!! Well yes that term is most definitely a fitting description of the ‘little lady’ she’s always rambling about an anime she has seen, fan girling over cute yaoi boys or cotton ball forbid she has found some new crazy food to try! Honestly whatever will I do with that girl, she is getting wildly out of paw….. *sigh* Well I digress, back to what I was saying! The little lady enjoys making new friends but can be very shy and wary of new people, what can I say she has been hurt in the past but is growing more each day. However, if you treat her kindly she will be a loyal companion much like the majestic Cavalier itself, why Sir Hughie himself is a very loyal but I must admit ‘slightly’ noisy companion. Perhaps you can tempt the ‘little lady’ into a conversation by mentioning one of her favourite topics, such as: Dogs, Disney, Crafts, Anime or perhaps you could even suggest a new hobby you think she may enjoy! Wouldn’t that be interesting indeed, but please I beg of thee do not ask her to start collecting any other creatures otherwise it will be a world class menagerie in here! As much as I could talk all day about the ‘little lady’ I have many important matters to attend to such as hopping on over with her afternoon snack and colouring book, which needs to be brought to her attention at the up most of hast! So I shall bid you farewell for now but should you wish to learn more about my ‘little lady’ please find the tomes below which will answer many of your questions and perhaps even reveal some mysteries too….. Safe travels adventurer from, Nichikou – the gatekeeper (If you would like to prove you have read my bio, please tell me what *** you think my treasured Nichikou is) ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚 BDSM Test Results (just for fun! This does not mean I am interested in everything listed so please do not assume I am, if you are curious then ask!) 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 97% Submissive 91% Masochist 90% Experimentalist 87% Boy/Girl 79% Rigger 78% Switch 74% Sadist 74% Slave 70% Daddy/Mommy 69% Ageplayer 67% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 60% Voyeur 54% Pet 53% Vanilla 47% Brat tamer 43% Master/Mistress 34% Owner 34% Non-monogamist 31% Primal (Hunter) 4% Degrader 2% Degradee ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚 Oh hello there, I see Nichikou let you in, well I suppose since you've come this far you are trying to learn about me? Oh, you say Nichikou already told you some?! oh gosh I do hope it was nothing too embarrassing 🥺👉🏻👈🏻 Oh cotton balls! Ah well I suppose I should probably introduce myself! Hi ya I am Sam it's lovely to meet you! I'll answer some of the questions I get asked a lot by visitors but if you have any special questions please let me know I don't bite, promise! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 What am I looking for? Hmmmmm well if I could ask for anything it would be a friend, companion and lover all wrapped into one. Someone who I can cuddle and colour with but also explore lots of fun things too! basically I want to be able to be myself with no judgement 🙈 So probably a Daddy with a twist? 🐻 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 My interests? Well a little lady can never have too many interests..... - I want to try to explore my little side after keeping her locked away for so long - I will be very picky about who I trust to have access to that part of me but I'm looking forward to the future of embracing that half of me. - DD/LG & MD/LG (My little side is more of a personality trait I do not do age regression but I do love to cuddle, colour, watch cartoons and Disney and go on fun trips out like to the zoo! ) - Impact (I lean more on the thuddy side of life ) - Sensation play (Especially after some impact or wax ) - Hunter / Prey (would loveeeee to do a hunt at some point) - Collar, Leashes and tails! - Breeding play (Roleplay based only! I am not actively trying to get pregnant!) - Breeding play (unprotected vaginal sex - within soft limit guidelines i.e. only practiced with one tested partner at a time ) - Wax Play (Loving UV at the moment ) - CNC (within soft limits guidelines - do not message me asking to *** me I am interested in consensual roleplay not ***) - Rope Bondage / Shibari (Currently learning so tips are always appreciated 🪢) - Restraints (excluding latex ones due to allergies) - Possession play (Roleplay based only! ) - Marking (biting, scratching, bruises within limits discussed ) 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 What do I want to explore / am I curious about? - Electric play - Wax (Giving in a Domme capacity) - Suspension (Receiving - would be interested in giving but I am not yet experienced enough!) - Rope (Giving & Receiving) - Fem Dom (Exploring slowly - this is a really new side that I'm letting out so slowly does it ) - Impact (Giving in a Domme capacity) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ What are my LIMITS? Soft limits These are things I would be happy to try BUT they would need to be with the correct person and in the right situation. - Degrading (Giving/Receiving) - CNC (Do NOT message me saying about ***, I am not interested in *** I am interested in consensual roleplay) - Severe impact (To the point of drawing ***) - Breeding play - Suspension - Heavy breath play (i.e. using tools to restrict breathing) - Fire play - Needle / Stapling Hard Limits 🛑 These are things at this phase in my life are a no. - Dynamics/ Relationships with Poly people and/or people in committed relationships (I don’t think I can deal with the jealously and insecurity this would entail but I have huge respect for those that have a good healthy Poly relationship – I take my hat off to you!) - *** - Cutting - Cum, *** or marks over my tattoos - Vomit - *** in mouth or on face - *** letting / sharing - Being locked in small spaces - Tickling (giving/receiving) - *** Play - *** Play - Race Play - People who refuse to set limits Well I think that's enough from me , I hope you know a bit more about me and I look forward to chatting with you too. ☺️ ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚
Female (25) Solihull, West Midlands
she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
'Hi, I am a old creative soul, interested in all things fantasy and sci-fi. But with a particular fascination with the darker side of fantasy. I am a great reader and indulge in my hobby regularly, most days you could probably find me curled up with a good story. My other great love is crafting and I specialise in making chainmail and bespoke pieces. I am a curvy girl, with firey hair and smiling eyes. I am looking for a connection with a strong minded Dom/me, I can be a little bit of a handful on occasions and have a fierce streak despite my submissive tendencies. My Dom/me will guide me with a loving spirit and a firm hand, giving me care and support and nurturing my abilities to be my true self.'' I'm ASEXUAL so if your looking for sex in the relationship I'm probably not for you, I'm looking for a longterm connection where I can explore my little/brat side with a strong dom/me who will set rules and routine and en*** them IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME
Female (42) Dudley, West Midlands
I am a confident/dominant female who is looking for someone who will treat me as the Goddess that I am. So sick of the timewasters and liars on here. Only reach out if you are genuine and know how to serve and make me feel totally worshipped. Happy to have friendships but I'll decline those looking for me to be their 'bit on the side' or to help you fulfil your 15 minutes of experimenting with your kinks as this is a lifestyle, not a game to be played.
Female (45) Solihull, West Midlands
I’ve only had sex with men for little bits of *** or weed. Usually a one off and I’ve done it 100 times! I have never had a boyfriend or been in any type of relationship. I am really freaky but end up rubbing myself for 2 mins almost everyday just to cum and find release. I need a daddy or a bf pls help me …
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. not as aggressive as I seem. looking for dates/friends outside of my current relationship/dynamic. stop groveling in my inbox, you won't be indulged.
Hi I'm Pixie **Just here to make/maintain friends. I don't need a daddy dom** its been a long time since my first and only experience of being a domme. I crave domming, its been too long. My ex enjoyed anal play (recieving), breathe play, latex, ***, and other tid bits. I like to think of myself as a sensual pleasure domme ... with a keen interest in toying, pegging, latex, bondage and edging. I am open to discussion when it comes to my submissive. experimentation leads to growth after all. Essentially I'd prefer a relationship as I'm not a 1 and done kinda gal. I am aware there are doms/dommes out there that wish to dom/domme me but that's not what I'm interested in, so please don't ask or worse demand this of me in dms. pixie.
Female (39) Walsall, West Midlands
I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Having a break, may pop back on soon All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Top tips: 1 My honorific/tittle - Goddess 2 Capitalise title and name if you message - Goddess B 3 Read what I am looking for and really consider if you match or if we're compatible before messaging and wasting both of our time 4 I am not a findom or content seller, however that does not mean I'm easy, inexperienced or willing to take any old shit for nothing in return (eg bring gifts or a certain toy if I request it as part of our scene. 5 Contribute to the pleasure; I won't provide everything because you said you like it, its your kink/scene too invest in it aswell 6 Personality type; ESFP-T (https://www.16personalities.com/esfp-strengths-and-weaknesses) _______________________ Goddess Britney, or Goddess B Top, Domme I am looking for a sub/slave **(no switches/kinksters/exploring/undecided/Doms etc at present)** to become my regular play partner (as my previous sub was unpredictable and frequently letting me down I will be vetting my next more thoroughly). The qualities of my regular play partner would ideally be going to munches and events with me and playing privately also. "Play" may incorporate my kinks around impact play, race play (BNWO femdom), ***d feminization, facesitting, water sports/***s, domestic servitude, pegging, bondage, massages, perhaps serving males as I direct/***d bi, ***d orgasms/milking, *** and ***. I would like to take pictures of inferiors with or without face to post on fetlife/fet/social media at times and I would like to explore CBT, cum control and electro more which can be negotiated and developed as we build trust naturally. Be forthcoming in communication and changes of plans, be understanding of both mine and their own needs and be able to express them in a prompt respectful manner. In the Birmingham area or no further than an hour drive from Birmingham. Remember this is to be a regular play partner, so regular play, relationship building, mutual discretion and trust would be at the forefront of our interactions. ___________________________ I am married, my husband knows about some aspects of my play, such as domestic servitude and going to kink munches and events but not about the sexual/sensual parts of play I enjoy and partake in. I have a place to play and regularly use it, it does need some work on it now though, so domestic servitude is a must if we play. ALL initial meets will be conducted at a munch or event, this is non-negotiable so don't message if you don't do munches or whatever because I'm not interested in meeting any other way.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
53 Year old woman no longer seeking any Domme/switch anymore In 2020 i met my Dom for a year i was his faithful sub, then after a year we fell in love, so he can't bring himself to punish me. So he's now my boyfriend now and we are very happy together, he still protects me but has given me his blessing to seek what im looking for My boyfriend supports me fully, he's the most important thing in my life, and we discuss everything I'm now a fully committed Domme to my new Sub , I've started a new journey when I can with him so please note don't try and contact me for play as I'm no longer avaiable Messages from men will be instantly deleted and blocked, so don't waste your time and mine. I will contact men if I like what I see And one sets of cuffs both £40 these we can post at extra cost
Female (53) Dudley, West Midlands
I am a Goddess and I am only interested if you want to be treated like shit on my shoe, and worship the ground I fucking walk on! I’m strict, unsparing & unoplogetic! I don’t involve in any wasteful chit chat. If you can’t spoil me DONT MESSAGE ME!
Hello. I'm in a kind of open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands.
Female (30) Coventry, West Midlands
New to this but into more than most people think or know looking for someone like minded what may lead into more long turm also im not submissive at all would rither be a kinky boss than a kinky follower ? also sell used thongs and underwear price depending on item ? **Desires and Fantasies** have to earn this knowledge
Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise. Things I love: Being a good slut for Daddy Having cum on my face, eyes, hair, boobs, tummy, bum etc etc etc Being deeply cared for Being pleasured Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are Making me cum is not particularly easy so only venture on if you have the patience and care to try Things I need for this to work: Trust Honesty and openness Excellent communication Clear boundaries Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs) Consistency Things I want: A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to love and adore me, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me while loving and adoring me at the same time Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say) Lots of praise and worship. To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me. Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise. To be ***d to orgasm. Things I'm not interested in - Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc. - Casual hookups - Long distance anythingships - Drama of any variety - Online only dynamics - **Barrierless sex without first building up trust over time. Complaining on this is a red flag to me. ** Pics are set to private and will show them once we have got to know each other. How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. Ways to win me over Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz) If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way. Words. Lots of words. Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene) I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi Looking for a long term relationship with clear intentions and expectations towards building a future with my dream daddy dom, I am 5”3 so that typical short spicy lil thing you look down at thinking oh how adorable she’s mad lol I identify as a sweet sub or a middle sub, I am a non regression type sub with a sprinkle of sass and brat. Send me a message as long as you are respectful and hopefully we could have an enlightening conversation. Please be between the ages of 35-40 and a non smoker or drinker or a pet owner as in actual ***s lol not interested in bi sexual orientated men or Switches do it ask me my sexual preferences or fantasies the base line is in my profile stats if you cannot be bothered to read my profile then I will not take you seriously. safe word is cupcakes
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
Busy mother, passionate musician, and dedicated master's student. I'm a neurodivergent queen who thrives on a full schedule and loves to rave. Embracing my wild side, I'm always up for a good time and keep things exciting. Looking for someone local to share in the fun and keep me company!
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for some exciting friends, road trips, different types of sexual experiences
Female (46) Solihull, West Midlands
Looking to explore sexual connections with women for the first time. More so looking for a pillow princess to let me explore her body and do as i please. Oral, face sitting etc Bbw are welcome more than most please and thanks?
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love *** and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high *** tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands

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Howdy humans Im charms a 46 yeat old switch. My dominant side tends to.be sadistic. My sub side i like to do things for my master. Im dealing with some personal stuff so not on here much. I actually left for a few weeks. Im an extremely lucky person to have some amazing friends iv meet via the kink community who are helping me right now. That includes my master. No matter what is going on between us or as happened between us. Iv been extremely lucky that iv been able to just turn up at his apartment and say Please can i get a hug . I am a big on consent , safewords and aftercare. Also cuddles nothing more i like than cuddles. Id do almost anything for a fluffy blanket and cuddles. If you have *** photos on your profile and i message you. Its because I want to know about your ***s not anything else. Love all ***'s apart from rats and mice. Yes totally love spiders. The bigger the better. I have a retired greyhound called Derrick he's my baby. I also own 3 whites tropical tree frogs. I adopted from a friend as they were unwanted pets. Iv ended up with a wide selection of peoples unwanted pets over the years. They come to me and im there forever mom till they pass away. My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS. I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the amazing world of kink. Also love Toronto maple leafs. Yes i know there not the best ice hockey team i dont care. No twinks i dont want to be your mommy or help you with your cougar fetish. I dont want to have to train another male thanks I am here to make freinds. Iv made amazing freinds already on here. Iv learnt so much from talking to other chatters. Not just kink things I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to 1 and other. I'm not a little I'm a furrie. I get asked alot if I'm a little due to wearing lots of animsl onesies
I’ve only had sex with men for little bits of *** or weed. Usually a one off and I’ve done it 100 times! I have never had a boyfriend or been in any type of relationship. I am really freaky but end up rubbing myself for 2 mins almost everyday just to cum and find release. I need a daddy or a bf pls help me …
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
Busy mother, passionate musician, and dedicated master's student. I'm a neurodivergent queen who thrives on a full schedule and loves to rave. Embracing my wild side, I'm always up for a good time and keep things exciting. Looking for someone local to share in the fun and keep me company!
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am a Goddess and I am only interested if you want to be treated like shit on my shoe, and worship the ground I fucking walk on! I’m strict, unsparing & unoplogetic! I don’t involve in any wasteful chit chat. If you can’t spoil me DONT MESSAGE ME!
Looking for some exciting friends, road trips, different types of sexual experiences
Female (46) Solihull, West Midlands
Top tips: 1 My honorific/tittle - Goddess 2 Capitalise title and name if you message - Goddess B 3 Read what I am looking for and really consider if you match or if we're compatible before messaging and wasting both of our time 4 I am not a findom or content seller, however that does not mean I'm easy, inexperienced or willing to take any old shit for nothing in return (eg bring gifts or a certain toy if I request it as part of our scene. 5 Contribute to the pleasure; I won't provide everything because you said you like it, its your kink/scene too invest in it aswell 6 Personality type; ESFP-T (https://www.16personalities.com/esfp-strengths-and-weaknesses) _______________________ Goddess Britney, or Goddess B Top, Domme I am looking for a sub/slave **(no switches/kinksters/exploring/undecided/Doms etc at present)** to become my regular play partner (as my previous sub was unpredictable and frequently letting me down I will be vetting my next more thoroughly). The qualities of my regular play partner would ideally be going to munches and events with me and playing privately also. "Play" may incorporate my kinks around impact play, race play (BNWO femdom), ***d feminization, facesitting, water sports/***s, domestic servitude, pegging, bondage, massages, perhaps serving males as I direct/***d bi, ***d orgasms/milking, *** and ***. I would like to take pictures of inferiors with or without face to post on fetlife/fet/social media at times and I would like to explore CBT, cum control and electro more which can be negotiated and developed as we build trust naturally. Be forthcoming in communication and changes of plans, be understanding of both mine and their own needs and be able to express them in a prompt respectful manner. In the Birmingham area or no further than an hour drive from Birmingham. Remember this is to be a regular play partner, so regular play, relationship building, mutual discretion and trust would be at the forefront of our interactions. ___________________________ I am married, my husband knows about some aspects of my play, such as domestic servitude and going to kink munches and events but not about the sexual/sensual parts of play I enjoy and partake in. I have a place to play and regularly use it, it does need some work on it now though, so domestic servitude is a must if we play. ALL initial meets will be conducted at a munch or event, this is non-negotiable so don't message if you don't do munches or whatever because I'm not interested in meeting any other way.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking to explore sexual connections with women for the first time. More so looking for a pillow princess to let me explore her body and do as i please. Oral, face sitting etc Bbw are welcome more than most please and thanks?
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands
Having a break, may pop back on soon All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise. Things I love: Being a good slut for Daddy Having cum on my face, eyes, hair, boobs, tummy, bum etc etc etc Being deeply cared for Being pleasured Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are Making me cum is not particularly easy so only venture on if you have the patience and care to try Things I need for this to work: Trust Honesty and openness Excellent communication Clear boundaries Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs) Consistency Things I want: A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to love and adore me, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me while loving and adoring me at the same time Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say) Lots of praise and worship. To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me. Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise. To be ***d to orgasm. Things I'm not interested in - Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc. - Casual hookups - Long distance anythingships - Drama of any variety - Online only dynamics - **Barrierless sex without first building up trust over time. Complaining on this is a red flag to me. ** Pics are set to private and will show them once we have got to know each other. How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. Ways to win me over Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz) If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way. Words. Lots of words. Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene) I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hello. I'm in a kind of open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands.
Female (30) Coventry, West Midlands
Hi I'm Pixie **Just here to make/maintain friends. I don't need a daddy dom** its been a long time since my first and only experience of being a domme. I crave domming, its been too long. My ex enjoyed anal play (recieving), breathe play, latex, ***, and other tid bits. I like to think of myself as a sensual pleasure domme ... with a keen interest in toying, pegging, latex, bondage and edging. I am open to discussion when it comes to my submissive. experimentation leads to growth after all. Essentially I'd prefer a relationship as I'm not a 1 and done kinda gal. I am aware there are doms/dommes out there that wish to dom/domme me but that's not what I'm interested in, so please don't ask or worse demand this of me in dms. pixie.
Female (39) Walsall, West Midlands
I am a confident/dominant female who is looking for someone who will treat me as the Goddess that I am. So sick of the timewasters and liars on here. Only reach out if you are genuine and know how to serve and make me feel totally worshipped. Happy to have friendships but I'll decline those looking for me to be their 'bit on the side' or to help you fulfil your 15 minutes of experimenting with your kinks as this is a lifestyle, not a game to be played.
Female (45) Solihull, West Midlands
(IF YOU ARE AFTER JUST SEX PLEASE MOVE ALONG BECAUSE I'M MORE THAN A PIECE OF MEAT - THANK YOU KINDLY) Hello weary traveller and welcome, I invite you to pull up a chair and relax as I present you the tales of the dweller of this realm, our adventure together will be sprinkled, with chaos-galour and geek-a-plenty! We start our tale with learning a little about the ‘little lady’ of the realm, she is an odd one that’s for sure with her collection of hobbies as grand and tall of mount crumpit itself - she is never short of interests to talk your ear off about! From colouring, crafts and baking to stories told from far away lands – in fact her obsession with lands far to the east is vast, vast enough to be called that phrase, now what was it again…. Gah curse my cotton tail my memory does not serve me in as well these days, what was that cotton ball name! Ah yes now I recall! WEEBS!!! Well yes that term is most definitely a fitting description of the ‘little lady’ she’s always rambling about an anime she has seen, fan girling over cute yaoi boys or cotton ball forbid she has found some new crazy food to try! Honestly whatever will I do with that girl, she is getting wildly out of paw….. *sigh* Well I digress, back to what I was saying! The little lady enjoys making new friends but can be very shy and wary of new people, what can I say she has been hurt in the past but is growing more each day. However, if you treat her kindly she will be a loyal companion much like the majestic Cavalier itself, why Sir Hughie himself is a very loyal but I must admit ‘slightly’ noisy companion. Perhaps you can tempt the ‘little lady’ into a conversation by mentioning one of her favourite topics, such as: Dogs, Disney, Crafts, Anime or perhaps you could even suggest a new hobby you think she may enjoy! Wouldn’t that be interesting indeed, but please I beg of thee do not ask her to start collecting any other creatures otherwise it will be a world class menagerie in here! As much as I could talk all day about the ‘little lady’ I have many important matters to attend to such as hopping on over with her afternoon snack and colouring book, which needs to be brought to her attention at the up most of hast! So I shall bid you farewell for now but should you wish to learn more about my ‘little lady’ please find the tomes below which will answer many of your questions and perhaps even reveal some mysteries too….. Safe travels adventurer from, Nichikou – the gatekeeper (If you would like to prove you have read my bio, please tell me what *** you think my treasured Nichikou is) ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚 BDSM Test Results (just for fun! This does not mean I am interested in everything listed so please do not assume I am, if you are curious then ask!) 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 97% Submissive 91% Masochist 90% Experimentalist 87% Boy/Girl 79% Rigger 78% Switch 74% Sadist 74% Slave 70% Daddy/Mommy 69% Ageplayer 67% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 60% Voyeur 54% Pet 53% Vanilla 47% Brat tamer 43% Master/Mistress 34% Owner 34% Non-monogamist 31% Primal (Hunter) 4% Degrader 2% Degradee ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚 Oh hello there, I see Nichikou let you in, well I suppose since you've come this far you are trying to learn about me? Oh, you say Nichikou already told you some?! oh gosh I do hope it was nothing too embarrassing 🥺👉🏻👈🏻 Oh cotton balls! Ah well I suppose I should probably introduce myself! Hi ya I am Sam it's lovely to meet you! I'll answer some of the questions I get asked a lot by visitors but if you have any special questions please let me know I don't bite, promise! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 What am I looking for? Hmmmmm well if I could ask for anything it would be a friend, companion and lover all wrapped into one. Someone who I can cuddle and colour with but also explore lots of fun things too! basically I want to be able to be myself with no judgement 🙈 So probably a Daddy with a twist? 🐻 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 My interests? Well a little lady can never have too many interests..... - I want to try to explore my little side after keeping her locked away for so long - I will be very picky about who I trust to have access to that part of me but I'm looking forward to the future of embracing that half of me. - DD/LG & MD/LG (My little side is more of a personality trait I do not do age regression but I do love to cuddle, colour, watch cartoons and Disney and go on fun trips out like to the zoo! ) - Impact (I lean more on the thuddy side of life ) - Sensation play (Especially after some impact or wax ) - Hunter / Prey (would loveeeee to do a hunt at some point) - Collar, Leashes and tails! - Breeding play (Roleplay based only! I am not actively trying to get pregnant!) - Breeding play (unprotected vaginal sex - within soft limit guidelines i.e. only practiced with one tested partner at a time ) - Wax Play (Loving UV at the moment ) - CNC (within soft limits guidelines - do not message me asking to *** me I am interested in consensual roleplay not ***) - Rope Bondage / Shibari (Currently learning so tips are always appreciated 🪢) - Restraints (excluding latex ones due to allergies) - Possession play (Roleplay based only! ) - Marking (biting, scratching, bruises within limits discussed ) 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 What do I want to explore / am I curious about? - Electric play - Wax (Giving in a Domme capacity) - Suspension (Receiving - would be interested in giving but I am not yet experienced enough!) - Rope (Giving & Receiving) - Fem Dom (Exploring slowly - this is a really new side that I'm letting out so slowly does it ) - Impact (Giving in a Domme capacity) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ What are my LIMITS? Soft limits These are things I would be happy to try BUT they would need to be with the correct person and in the right situation. - Degrading (Giving/Receiving) - CNC (Do NOT message me saying about ***, I am not interested in *** I am interested in consensual roleplay) - Severe impact (To the point of drawing ***) - Breeding play - Suspension - Heavy breath play (i.e. using tools to restrict breathing) - Fire play - Needle / Stapling Hard Limits 🛑 These are things at this phase in my life are a no. - Dynamics/ Relationships with Poly people and/or people in committed relationships (I don’t think I can deal with the jealously and insecurity this would entail but I have huge respect for those that have a good healthy Poly relationship – I take my hat off to you!) - *** - Cutting - Cum, *** or marks over my tattoos - Vomit - *** in mouth or on face - *** letting / sharing - Being locked in small spaces - Tickling (giving/receiving) - *** Play - *** Play - Race Play - People who refuse to set limits Well I think that's enough from me , I hope you know a bit more about me and I look forward to chatting with you too. ☺️ ❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚💙💜❤️💛💚
Female (25) Solihull, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love *** and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high *** tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (23) Birmingham, West Midlands
big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. not as aggressive as I seem. looking for dates/friends outside of my current relationship/dynamic. stop groveling in my inbox, you won't be indulged.
Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
53 Year old woman no longer seeking any Domme/switch anymore In 2020 i met my Dom for a year i was his faithful sub, then after a year we fell in love, so he can't bring himself to punish me. So he's now my boyfriend now and we are very happy together, he still protects me but has given me his blessing to seek what im looking for My boyfriend supports me fully, he's the most important thing in my life, and we discuss everything I'm now a fully committed Domme to my new Sub , I've started a new journey when I can with him so please note don't try and contact me for play as I'm no longer avaiable Messages from men will be instantly deleted and blocked, so don't waste your time and mine. I will contact men if I like what I see And one sets of cuffs both £40 these we can post at extra cost
Female (53) Dudley, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
New to this but into more than most people think or know looking for someone like minded what may lead into more long turm also im not submissive at all would rither be a kinky boss than a kinky follower ? also sell used thongs and underwear price depending on item ? **Desires and Fantasies** have to earn this knowledge
Hi Looking for a long term relationship with clear intentions and expectations towards building a future with my dream daddy dom, I am 5”3 so that typical short spicy lil thing you look down at thinking oh how adorable she’s mad lol I identify as a sweet sub or a middle sub, I am a non regression type sub with a sprinkle of sass and brat. Send me a message as long as you are respectful and hopefully we could have an enlightening conversation. Please be between the ages of 35-40 and a non smoker or drinker or a pet owner as in actual ***s lol not interested in bi sexual orientated men or Switches do it ask me my sexual preferences or fantasies the base line is in my profile stats if you cannot be bothered to read my profile then I will not take you seriously. safe word is cupcakes
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
'Hi, I am a old creative soul, interested in all things fantasy and sci-fi. But with a particular fascination with the darker side of fantasy. I am a great reader and indulge in my hobby regularly, most days you could probably find me curled up with a good story. My other great love is crafting and I specialise in making chainmail and bespoke pieces. I am a curvy girl, with firey hair and smiling eyes. I am looking for a connection with a strong minded Dom/me, I can be a little bit of a handful on occasions and have a fierce streak despite my submissive tendencies. My Dom/me will guide me with a loving spirit and a firm hand, giving me care and support and nurturing my abilities to be my true self.'' I'm ASEXUAL so if your looking for sex in the relationship I'm probably not for you, I'm looking for a longterm connection where I can explore my little/brat side with a strong dom/me who will set rules and routine and en*** them IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME
Female (42) Dudley, West Midlands

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