I'm looking for my Mr Perfect Primal - you must be out there somewhere!
The best way to describe you would be akin to a vampire, a gentleman with refined manners, high intellect, good taste and a love of the arts but a deep, hidden primal side that is only unleashed behind closed doors to his chosen one...
Asking too much? Maybe...
Sorry but I'm not looking for anyone that's married/in a committed relationship, couples or male submissives, thanks x
**Desires and Fantasies**
I'm a masochist at heart but due to health conditions impact play can be a problem, whips, e-stim, nipple play and creative means of getting those *** juices flowing is what I'm after. I'm also a fan of the more emotional kind of masochism, I don't want to be mentally harmed but if you know how to artfully humiliate and objectify to make me a dripping wet mess barely able to string a sentence together, well, that's my jam!
I've been on the scene (on and off, really) since 2002 (yes, I was a sweet 19 year old now I'm a just as sweet 30 something!) and I have finally realised that I'm not a submissive and certainly not a slave, nor a bottom really. For me, it's about those deep primal urges of sweaty sex, *** instinct, raw emotions, ***, desire, that look you get in your eyes when you have a thirst to cause *** and meet your sexual needs however you can. That's the kind of man I'm looking for but you know, safe, sane, respectful and able to provide the best cuddles, baked goods and kisses to make everything feel warm and rosy again!
I'm not the best at reading situations so I need you to be able to guide me and take control as to what you want, expecting me to know what you need and desire without obvious clues isn't going to happen. That's why the whole D/s thing doesn't work for me really. Tell me what you want, tell me what you're going to do, make me tell you what I want and then we'll make it happen.
Out of the home I'm self-employed, I'm back at uni (again!) studying psychology and trying to better myself, I love theatre, live music and festivals. I don't have the best concentration span and have to keep myself distracted a lot if I want to get stuff done but I have a heart of gold, I'd do anything for my friends, family and pets (of the furry kind) and I can be fierce when protecting those I love.
If I sound like someone you might be interested in getting to know better, please drop me a message! I'm not good at flirting and all that stuff so be blunt, tell me what you like, what you're interested in, etc. I'm getting too old for games!
Hard limits - knife play, ***, watersports, polyamory (sorry, strictly monogomous but room for "outsourcing" on discussion), cheating, permanent marks
Loves - hair pulling, bondage, whips, nipple play/***, having limits tested. electric play (not violet wands though), objectification, ***, men in suits...
Interested in - ask me to find out!