Kinky women in Birmingham

141 Kinky women in Birmingham

I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3

I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?

Hi Looking for a long term relationship with clear intentions and expectations towards building a future with my dream daddy dom, I am 5”3 so that typical short spicy lil thing you look down at thinking oh how adorable she’s mad lol I identify as a sweet sub or a middle sub, I am a non regression type sub with a sprinkle of sass and brat. Send me a message as long as you are respectful and hopefully we could have an enlightening conversation. Please be between the ages of 35-40 and a non smoker or drinker or a pet owner as in actual ***s lol not interested in bi sexual orientated men or Switches do it ask me my sexual preferences or fantasies the base line is in my profile stats if you cannot be bothered to read my profile then I will not take you seriously. safe word is cupcakes

Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx

welcome to my bit of Fet Top tips: My honorific/tittle - Goddess Capitalise title and name if you message - Goddess B Read ‘what I am looking for’ and really consider if you are what I seek or if we're even compatible before messaging and wasting both of our time I am not a findom or content seller, however that does not mean I'm easy, inexperienced or willing to take any old shit for nothing in return (eg bring gifts or a certain toy if I request it as part of our scene). Personality type; ESFP-T -- Who I Am I was new to the scene some years ago now (had about 6years of play and experiences), then I met a vanilla man, and now I'm in a vanilla relationship, married, (My husband knows about and agrees to certain aspects of My play, such as domestic servitude, impact play but not about the sexual/sensual aspects of play I partake in). However, after years of marriage, I've realised nothing excites Me more like feeling control and dominance over a man, and I need more than vanilla to feel satisfied and truly Myself. I see Myself as a Goddess, softish Domme, but demanding, I enjoy inflicting ***, being treated well, respected and worshipped with kisses and adoration. What I Am Looking For I am not looking for any regular play partners, other s types. I am happy with My piggy. I am happy to offer advice and guidance for anyone looking at joining the local kink community. What I am looking for is discreet Dom/Domme/sub/slave/Person to teach me more urethral sounding, as this is something I've become quite fascinated by, however, if you are the sub/slave you can't space out too much as you'll be teaching as I'm practising on you, I assume. All initial meets will take place at a munch. This is a non-negotiable! if you "don't do munches" or "would prefer not to" then please don't waste my time. This is something I won't budge on; this is for your safety as well as my own. Just to mention as well, I do sell knickers as I have been asked a few times, most knickers are £10 - £15 depending on the material and how many days wear. I sometimes sell pubes/body hair, shoes, socks, used tampons and other items too upon request. Also, I have a gift list https://www.lovense.com/wish-list/arhp28z?_utm_pro=2112141049 You can contribute to or buy something on this list. Which may give you the opportunity to watch or control the device. Please don't add me as a friend if we haven't met, I won't add you back. If we've met and your adding me, remind me who you are names and fetlife names aren't really enough if I've met you in a darkened club or you have no pictures, plus it's always nice to chat to people I've met in person and keep the rapport going x Summary § I am married this is an extra part of me that my husband does not know about. § I am not seeking any regular s types, I have My piggy § I'm looking for a discreet Dom/Domme to ease Me into urethral sounding. § Looking for subs or slaves only to practice on and learn about urethral sounding, otherwise I don't need any more subs § Dommes, Dom, subs and slaves must live in the Birmingham UK area, close to or frequent Birmingham play events. § All initial meets will be at a munch. § I sell knickers and sometimes other items. § Gift list link for contributions or buy something just for Me. Goddess B x

Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.

Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise. Things I love: Being a good slut for Daddy Having cum on my face, eyes, hair, boobs, tummy, bum etc etc etc Being deeply cared for Being pleasured Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are Making me cum is not particularly easy so only venture on if you have the patience and care to try Things I need for this to work: Trust Honesty and openness Excellent communication Clear boundaries Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs) Consistency Things I want: A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to love and adore me, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me while loving and adoring me at the same time Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say) Lots of praise and worship. To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me. Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise. To be ***d to orgasm. Things I'm not interested in - Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc. - Casual hookups - Long distance anythingships - Drama of any variety - Online only dynamics - **Barrierless sex without first building up trust over time. Complaining on this is a red flag to me. ** Pics are set to private and will show them once we have got to know each other. How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. Ways to win me over Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz) If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way. Words. Lots of words. Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene) I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need

she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret

Having a break, may pop back on soon All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?

Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.

Busy mother, passionate musician, and dedicated master's student. I'm a neurodivergent queen who thrives on a full schedule and loves to rave. Embracing my wild side, I'm always up for a good time and keep things exciting. Looking for someone local to share in the fun and keep me company!

Looking to explore sexual connections with women for the first time. More so looking for a pillow princess to let me explore her body and do as i please. Oral, face sitting etc Bbw are welcome more than most please and thanks?

Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love *** and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high *** tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)

I um I’m kinda new to all this but wanted to put myself out there a bit so yeah, if I get praised I will most likely love you forever 🥺

West Mids, UNITED KINGDOM based. NOT interested in anyone outside the UK. ME: Tattooed & pierced (not there, perves) mum of 2. Plus size/fat/chunky monkey, non smoker & 5' 2" last time I checked. S-type with bratty & sometimes little/middle tendencies. Can be sadistic with women ONLY (but that's mainly unexplored territory). Polyamorous/RA. In relationships and dating separately. Open to: Alt people - WOMEN - primal/masochistic/sadistic/switchy. Bonus if you're plus size, tattooed and/or have long hair! MEN - primal/sadistic/Dominant, chunky, bearded and/or tattooed a definite bonus (but not essential). Couples - ONLY if it's to discuss a connection with both myself AND my partner (not on here). Demi/Sapio/Bi sexual. That means I'll probably need to take my time to get to know you. Neurospicy & have arthritis: I find a few things difficult, but I'm stubborn & refuse to completely give in to it. Dark sense of humour. ☆ Vanilla Likes/Interests: Wicked (the show and film). Action/thriller/comedy movies. Twinkly lights. Afternoon Tea. Heavy metal/rock music. Disney. History. Writing. Documentaries. Theatre. Rugby. Harry Potter (NOT the author ☢️) Always open to new *genuine* friends (not those who want to be 'friends' solely with the goal of 'more'). Pass Go & collect £200 (Yes, I'm kidding!) if you can offer: • Connection/chemistry/communication • Emotional intelligence • UK - Not too far away

30 years old. I know myself and know what I want. More importantly, I know what kind of man will bring out my true self. I respond to strong, assertive men who like to take full control. I'm looking for an emotional connection, not just physical.

Hey! I'm a sub and I'm into exploring a lot of things. Will always try something once. I'm looking for someone who isn't just into the dom/sub lifestyle for the pleasure but someone who is there for the aftercare and the everyday. I am mainly looking for a relationship but I'm down for fun too! fav kinks - being restrained, tied up and tied down, being ***d, impact play, temperature play, being bitten, being used like a slut. Into CNC, sharp objects, danger play but only if discussed and with someone trusted so not a 1st time thing. If it's not listed, I'm probably into it so ask away?

Plus size redhead Domme, looking to meet someone for some more casual fun but regular meet-ups, open to more if the connection is right, friendships or events. vanilla me is studying to become a gemmologist, love being in the countryside, Italian and Thai food, skiing, swimming and I’m a bit of a gamer. general kinks because I’m tired of being asked: Impact play, CBT, chastity, edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, post orgasm ***, pegging, anal play, rimming, restraints, ***, ***, cuckolding, gagging, blindfolding, sensory deprivation, public ***, public play, free use, obviously I like to be worshipped, rough sex, but also gentle femdom as well. It can be varied it depends on my mood but adapt based on my subs limits.

== Results from bdsmtest.org: == 97% Submissive 89% Rope bunny 82% Masochist 73% Experimentalist 70% Non-monogamist 69% Exhibitionist 55% Primal (Prey) 49% Degradee 44% Brat 38% Vanilla 35% Slave 29% Pet 21% Voyeur 0% Ageplayer 0% Little 0% Switch

I am single, unpartnered and interested in a D/s dynamic that can develop to a long-term relationship. I am a D-type and I am interested in male submissives. My local scene is Birmingham, so if you don't live at the max 1 hour away from me, please don't message me as you will be wasting our time. I have no desire for long-distance, online relationships, or a travelling submissive. I am a lifetime Domme, please don't offer me *** to dom you. Vanilla males, Male doms and switches - we can be friends, but don't DM me because you want to experience/explore your submission or submissive side. There are beautiful dommes here and on the Internet that are experienced to carter for explorers, but you pay for the service, which is fair and deserved. I have had a very ***ful, difficult and undeserved experience with a younger male sub and have decided that I am only interested in subs 30 years and above for the sake of my sanity.

I am exhibitionist with love for pinch of *** ,not looking to be submissive to Master , Dom or Switch. Looking to explore what I believe would like or imagine I would like in a safe environment. Just facts that I learn recently about myself ... I am monogamous and would look for the same ... No lies , no hiding , no withholding any emotion ....It’s hard for me to submit out of play ... is not natural for me ... in a play I would if I would like to please the person , pleasing myself at the same time . I would respect and would expect to be respected . The ideal would be to find someone who would dominate me in a play , but would be my friend , partner and mate when not in a scene .

* Please note: I’m not looking for a master or a dom.* if you message telling me your a new master or looking for a new sub don’t expect a reply. If you can’t take the time to read my profile don’t expect me to take the time to reply to you. You will not restrain me or tell me what to do. Most importantly of all, i call the shots. Getting to know someone on a level i find is very important and most importantly… safe. I feel it’s important for people to click, get to know each other, understand each other and be aware of one anothers safe limitations as well as outlining aftercare because i feel mental health is very important BUT underestimated at times when it comes to kink.

❗physically too many messages to reply to all, apologies if I don't get back to you it's because unfortunately, I don't think we'd be a good connection??‍♀️ any rude of overtly sexual messages straight off the bat will be ignored❗ Part of an M/F Bisexual Polyamorous couple (mouthful, I know) Both on here, we're opening up more and would like to have more experiences like the ones we've been having recently. Be that together or apart! I'm pretty nerdy, so is he, I'm more an arty, coffee and book nerd but be warned I'm a coffee snob from working as a barista for 8 years? Love music, mostly rock/alternative but love a bit of the 80s and musical theatre. I tend to go more for women than men at the moment for solo experiences, but definitely not closed to men! However, I'm sure we can agree that women are just?✨ I'm submissive for the most part although have been exploring a more dominant side of myself which I find easier with women! I am not delicate so don't treat me as such, think of that scene from Brooklyn 99 with Pimento listing his limits... that's me without the a.ok to being stabbed??

single sub 9 years experience as owned slave (unowned now) lingerie and latex addiction bondage/bdsm ⛓️ curvy love butt stuff bi curious in bedroom Fantasies- ffm, mmf, free use, kink clubs Not sure what I’m looking for but happy to see where anything goes. B

I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?

Busy mother, passionate musician, and dedicated master's student. I'm a neurodivergent queen who thrives on a full schedule and loves to rave. Embracing my wild side, I'm always up for a good time and keep things exciting. Looking for someone local to share in the fun and keep me company!

welcome to my bit of Fet Top tips: My honorific/tittle - Goddess Capitalise title and name if you message - Goddess B Read ‘what I am looking for’ and really consider if you are what I seek or if we're even compatible before messaging and wasting both of our time I am not a findom or content seller, however that does not mean I'm easy, inexperienced or willing to take any old shit for nothing in return (eg bring gifts or a certain toy if I request it as part of our scene). Personality type; ESFP-T -- Who I Am I was new to the scene some years ago now (had about 6years of play and experiences), then I met a vanilla man, and now I'm in a vanilla relationship, married, (My husband knows about and agrees to certain aspects of My play, such as domestic servitude, impact play but not about the sexual/sensual aspects of play I partake in). However, after years of marriage, I've realised nothing excites Me more like feeling control and dominance over a man, and I need more than vanilla to feel satisfied and truly Myself. I see Myself as a Goddess, softish Domme, but demanding, I enjoy inflicting ***, being treated well, respected and worshipped with kisses and adoration. What I Am Looking For I am not looking for any regular play partners, other s types. I am happy with My piggy. I am happy to offer advice and guidance for anyone looking at joining the local kink community. What I am looking for is discreet Dom/Domme/sub/slave/Person to teach me more urethral sounding, as this is something I've become quite fascinated by, however, if you are the sub/slave you can't space out too much as you'll be teaching as I'm practising on you, I assume. All initial meets will take place at a munch. This is a non-negotiable! if you "don't do munches" or "would prefer not to" then please don't waste my time. This is something I won't budge on; this is for your safety as well as my own. Just to mention as well, I do sell knickers as I have been asked a few times, most knickers are £10 - £15 depending on the material and how many days wear. I sometimes sell pubes/body hair, shoes, socks, used tampons and other items too upon request. Also, I have a gift list https://www.lovense.com/wish-list/arhp28z?_utm_pro=2112141049 You can contribute to or buy something on this list. Which may give you the opportunity to watch or control the device. Please don't add me as a friend if we haven't met, I won't add you back. If we've met and your adding me, remind me who you are names and fetlife names aren't really enough if I've met you in a darkened club or you have no pictures, plus it's always nice to chat to people I've met in person and keep the rapport going x Summary § I am married this is an extra part of me that my husband does not know about. § I am not seeking any regular s types, I have My piggy § I'm looking for a discreet Dom/Domme to ease Me into urethral sounding. § Looking for subs or slaves only to practice on and learn about urethral sounding, otherwise I don't need any more subs § Dommes, Dom, subs and slaves must live in the Birmingham UK area, close to or frequent Birmingham play events. § All initial meets will be at a munch. § I sell knickers and sometimes other items. § Gift list link for contributions or buy something just for Me. Goddess B x

Looking to explore sexual connections with women for the first time. More so looking for a pillow princess to let me explore her body and do as i please. Oral, face sitting etc Bbw are welcome more than most please and thanks?

Having a break, may pop back on soon All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?

Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise. Things I love: Being a good slut for Daddy Having cum on my face, eyes, hair, boobs, tummy, bum etc etc etc Being deeply cared for Being pleasured Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are Making me cum is not particularly easy so only venture on if you have the patience and care to try Things I need for this to work: Trust Honesty and openness Excellent communication Clear boundaries Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs) Consistency Things I want: A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to love and adore me, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me while loving and adoring me at the same time Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say) Lots of praise and worship. To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me. Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise. To be ***d to orgasm. Things I'm not interested in - Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc. - Casual hookups - Long distance anythingships - Drama of any variety - Online only dynamics - **Barrierless sex without first building up trust over time. Complaining on this is a red flag to me. ** Pics are set to private and will show them once we have got to know each other. How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. Ways to win me over Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz) If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way. Words. Lots of words. Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene) I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need

Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love *** and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high *** tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)

Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.

Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.

I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3

she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret

Hi Looking for a long term relationship with clear intentions and expectations towards building a future with my dream daddy dom, I am 5”3 so that typical short spicy lil thing you look down at thinking oh how adorable she’s mad lol I identify as a sweet sub or a middle sub, I am a non regression type sub with a sprinkle of sass and brat. Send me a message as long as you are respectful and hopefully we could have an enlightening conversation. Please be between the ages of 35-40 and a non smoker or drinker or a pet owner as in actual ***s lol not interested in bi sexual orientated men or Switches do it ask me my sexual preferences or fantasies the base line is in my profile stats if you cannot be bothered to read my profile then I will not take you seriously. safe word is cupcakes

Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx

30 years old. I know myself and know what I want. More importantly, I know what kind of man will bring out my true self. I respond to strong, assertive men who like to take full control. I'm looking for an emotional connection, not just physical.

I um I’m kinda new to all this but wanted to put myself out there a bit so yeah, if I get praised I will most likely love you forever 🥺

looking for women to play with and my man to watch us 😩 I can play both roles just let me know what u want me to do to you, and for u to do things for me in exchange

I’m not at all experienced with BDSM and would like to meet people who have are experienced to teach me more.

Hi I’m chaos nice to meet you NOT INTERESTED IN MALES, COUPLES OR AMYONE WITH A PENIS SO DO NOT DM TRYING TO DATE OR FUCK ME

Just a chaotic Goddess who know’s what she wants and won’t accept anything less than the best.

❗physically too many messages to reply to all, apologies if I don't get back to you it's because unfortunately, I don't think we'd be a good connection??‍♀️ any rude of overtly sexual messages straight off the bat will be ignored❗ Part of an M/F Bisexual Polyamorous couple (mouthful, I know) Both on here, we're opening up more and would like to have more experiences like the ones we've been having recently. Be that together or apart! I'm pretty nerdy, so is he, I'm more an arty, coffee and book nerd but be warned I'm a coffee snob from working as a barista for 8 years? Love music, mostly rock/alternative but love a bit of the 80s and musical theatre. I tend to go more for women than men at the moment for solo experiences, but definitely not closed to men! However, I'm sure we can agree that women are just?✨ I'm submissive for the most part although have been exploring a more dominant side of myself which I find easier with women! I am not delicate so don't treat me as such, think of that scene from Brooklyn 99 with Pimento listing his limits... that's me without the a.ok to being stabbed??

I am single, unpartnered and interested in a D/s dynamic that can develop to a long-term relationship. I am a D-type and I am interested in male submissives. My local scene is Birmingham, so if you don't live at the max 1 hour away from me, please don't message me as you will be wasting our time. I have no desire for long-distance, online relationships, or a travelling submissive. I am a lifetime Domme, please don't offer me *** to dom you. Vanilla males, Male doms and switches - we can be friends, but don't DM me because you want to experience/explore your submission or submissive side. There are beautiful dommes here and on the Internet that are experienced to carter for explorers, but you pay for the service, which is fair and deserved. I have had a very ***ful, difficult and undeserved experience with a younger male sub and have decided that I am only interested in subs 30 years and above for the sake of my sanity.

Fun,down to earth,bubbly with a kinky side ? love long talks,love long drives,romance and occasional spanking lol I'm fairly new here,and I'm going for the extreme,so please only the experienced ones to teach me(and break me as well! ?) too wild to be tamed ? come try your luck ? ps 1:No,I'm not going to share "sensual",close up body pics(!?) MY BODY IS MY TEMPLE!,if you want to see me,PLAN A DATE IN ADVANCE and no,I'm not going to get sneaky on the first date! ps 2: please only the experienced,mature and actual doms,I'm not going to just let anyone tie me up! thank you x ps 3: If you're not a gentleman please don't even bother ! You're barking up the wrong tree xx

== Results from bdsmtest.org: == 97% Submissive 89% Rope bunny 82% Masochist 73% Experimentalist 70% Non-monogamist 69% Exhibitionist 55% Primal (Prey) 49% Degradee 44% Brat 38% Vanilla 35% Slave 29% Pet 21% Voyeur 0% Ageplayer 0% Little 0% Switch

Happy go lucky, Neurospicy, ray of sunshine. Brown and round like a cookie.. so if that's not your thing ✌ New to this, I prefer alpha men who are caring, dominant, kind, and affectionate. I'm big on humility, principles, and humanity, and I love a man that actually gives a f.. passion is key. Love deep convos about the world and conspiracies. I have many passions in life such as food, art, ***ting and drawing, Ps4, travelling, tarot, and spirituality ♡ Open-minded, but not into trans folks or bi men. Age range: 28-40- younger lads sorry! I don't have a type, but I prefer Men that are taller, bigger (dad bods or stocky). Not into ONS or flings- I prefer meaningful connections and mental stimulation.