I would like to have some fun, no strings attached. This is something a bit new to me but exciting

I've embraced who i truly am a long while ago. I tried nilla life but something was always missing! Now i know who i am and what i like, there is no turning back. Currently looking for submissive/dominant or switch males. I'm a switch, with many years experience on the public scene. As a top i like cute toys to play with and hurt. As a bottom i love thuddy impact, rope, knives and various other delights So want to know who i am, its simple just ask.

? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess. I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent. I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real. I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist. I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully. I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.

Orange hair , 7 tattoos, 5’1, size 16 Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me Sorry but only play with my age range **Desires and Fantasies** Love to be tied and made to cum Love toys used on me Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men) Want to explore my sub side Sorry , I don’t see likes PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine

Just a very open minded girl trying to navigate her way through the kink world. Think I’m a sub leaning switch? Don’t quote me on that… I have a reeeally soft spot for femboys, let’s play dress up together and take pretty pictures? My littlespace is non-sexual and wholesome asf - don’t like that, LEAVE. You don’t have to be into CG/l for us to connect, there’s a lot more to me if you’d like to find out. Fellow subby friends are more than encouraged, two subs could get up to a lot of mischief… I will add to this over time, I promise!

Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures. I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.

Hey I have been in the lifestyle for a good while. Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you. If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me as I have both so saves the time. I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my nephew is my world. I have both a dog, a cat, and a gerbil. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside. I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs. I'm at the point in my life where I want to settle down. If I don't reply straight away, don't worry. It becomes flooded occasionally and I work full time. I also may be doing a hobby to clear my mind. whether this be diamon ***tings, colouring which are both the***utic or gaming.

Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable My BDSM test results: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 93% Submissive 82% Degradee 75% Experimentalist 72% Masochist 62% Brat tamer 62% Degrader 62% Rigger 59% Dominant 58% Primal (Prey) 52% Voyeur 50% Sadist 48% Vanilla 32% Primal (Hunter) 20% Non-monogamist 18% Master/Mistress 15% Owner 9% Slave 6% Daddy/Mommy 1% Exhibitionist 1% Pet 0% Boy/Girl 0% Ageplayer

New to this looking to explore my submissive side with experienced Dom male or female that can show me the ropes **Desires and Fantasies** 1. - list text

First up, i do have a dom! I‘m happy with him I do not need some new dom! I‘m here to search another Female for FFM! Together with my dom! If you do not read this then maybe you shouldn‘t text me at all…

I am a sadistic Mistress looking for play partners .. **Desires and Fantasies** Ultimate fantasy is to stay at BDSM hotel for a couple of nights with a favourite slave. I would like to explore different roles as a Domme e.g. Teacher police woman dr etc. Finding out what my limits are and exploring how far I want to go with BDSM. To be adored by others Joined Fetish as Khadi58 now MistressK_CAE

If you must refer to me, it's Vixx. I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, If you're under 28 please leave me alone If you're over 55 also respect my wishes and leave me alone This boundary used to be at the end of my profile but it made no difference so, do not expect a positive response if you get in touch and you're not 28-55 😊 I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them. I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals. What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song? I don't think many will get this far, but if you do... I've been in the kink and BDSM world coming up 11 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience. I'm sadistic, I'm masochistic, I'm a pleasure slut, I'm a massive brat. I'm *not* yours or anyone else's "good girl" and I don't use titles. I'm a woman not a girl. I'm not interested in being your pen pal so your location matters. If it's not easy to visit one another, then I'm going to send you on your way to save both of us the effort. If it matters, I run 2 munches and coordinate a play event in Nottingham You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?

Hi! I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way. I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!

Not looking, I have all my needs met. Poly bi sadist. I have MS, I wobble, hopefully I don’t fall down, it doesn’t stop me. Not tall, not thin, not wearing latex or heels.

Submissive I need a daddy I’d like to meet someone who’s dominant and caring. I Cant have a profile picture but happy to send them over chat

Hi 🐱 I'm SensorumFox (also on fetlife). Not new to the kink lifestyle, only new to here. I'm looking for my Daddy/Caregiver (for real life!) in or around the Nottingham area who wants to build a genuine connection and relationship with me with the CG/l dynamic firmly in place. I'm polyamorous and live with one of my partners. My other partner lives overseas with his own family. We all practice ENM very successfully and plan to keep it this way so understanding, and being able to navigate within, an ENM-relationship is vital. CG/l for me is a lifestyle and not something I just do as a sex-fantasy or an act. I am never not Little, but may "turn it down", or pull a blanket over myself so to speak, if I feel like I have to be more adult. Little is what I am at my core. That's why I am looking for a genuine caregiver- someone who is naturally caring, encouraging, and comforting, and loves to be that way. Someone patient but able to be assertive when necessary and someone who needs to be needed. I'm neurodivergent which is to say I'm autistic. That's just something that comes with a couple of implications that I'd need you to understand and show patience and compassion for. I suspect I've got ADHD, too, but I haven't paid anyone to tell me on a piece of paper yet.😋 I generally like the way I am; quirks and all. I'm very sensitive to sensory input like smell, feel and sound. I'll pick up on many of these things before anyone else. Often smell can be an issue for me for example frying smell can send me into complete panic-mode where I must "save" my stuffies and myself from the smell getting at us as that would be something I'd hate. Can't relax till it's gone which often means I have to change my clothes and/or wash the stuffies and so on. My partner's luckily mostly figured out the damage-mitigation on that one. As a person I tend to be very excitable, bubbly and giggly. Above all I think I'm very playful and cheeky. If a situation comes up that can be made into a game most of the time I'll squee when it does turn into a game. Play tag around the house! I can be quite loud and fun- I'm very extroverted when I feel secure. I thrive on outside encouragement and love succeeding at tasks I'm given. Starting tasks can be tough but once I'm made to get going I often don't want to stop! I love art so drawing, coloring and ***ting are great activities; arts and crafts in general. Having a cartoon like Bluey or Bear in the Big Blue House on while doing anything like it is great, and having my stuffies around me is even better. I love my stuffies lots and most of them have names and their own personalities. They're very important little companions and very real to me. You know how people sometimes say to stop and look at your surroundings? I love doing that. I will stop for lots of things even if they're tiny. Spotting a colorful little bug on the pavement can make my whole day. I got a voice recorder recently so I can record little things I hear like rain or birds and stuff. 😊 Anyways I also like playing video games like Wandersong was one of my most recent ones alongside A Short Hike and Path of Exile (one of them is not like the others lol). I'd love playing games together, too! # You are..; ..caring by nature; caregiver isn't just a random kink title for you but a term you deeply relate to. I enjoy a stocky build and have a preference, but I find physical attributes come secondary to your personality and have little to say for how well we connect. Your age is between 30 to 45 ish but if you're slightly outside of this range don't let that discourage you. I'm cutting it off at the higher end mainly because I want you to be able to wrestle me and win. I also want you to be able to catch me and pick me up when I book it after you've caught me red-handed in the cookie-jar. 🤭 ...and I want you to be around for a long time. Basically I like it when you feel Bigger and older than me so that I can be small. You take initiative in life, are creative and are comfortable taking the lead on decision-making or what-have-you (without me prompting you). You're a calming presence able to give direction and comfort, and communicate on the same level as me or better. You put me as a priority; setting asside quality-time for us. I don't have to be your nr1 but I should be high up there. You enjoy outside and indoor activities the same and encourage me to want to go outside for whatever together. You like to be involved in the kink community and join munches and want to attend events; particularly CG/l events! You want a cheeky kitten to play with at events (that'd be me😋) and this idea doesn't scare you. You are reasonably knowledgeable within kink and safety and don't need me to teach you the ropes; you've gone on your own discovery journey already. There are very many nuances for lots of this stuff and I've not just put down some recipe for you to follow but rather I want this to be an indicator of what I am hoping for and what I need- for it is a need. Sure I do this whole kink thing for fun but it is also an innate need for me. It's not something to "spice up my life"; it's part of my life. There's much more written on my profile on fet such as interests, kinks, etc, and I strongly advice you to read it all should you be on there. If you aren't comfortable with yourself, don't put effort into communication, can't be assertive or like to be called Daddy just as a bedroom kink then there is very little point in you messaging me for we will be incompatible. Ignoring all who have NSA on their looking for thingy. Small disclaimer of what I'm NOT looking for: - infidelity - expectations of monogamy - kink- or sex-only - submissives / slaves, etc - online-only - dynamic-only - luke-warm approaches & weak personalities - vanilla - disposability - dispensers - smokers/druggies/alcoholics - no strings - men who have too many commitments to make time for us - if you are a subby bitchboi I will sus you out 😝 Happy to hear from you if you think this could be something. Best way to meet me is via the Notts mini munch. I am unlikely to go on a 1-on-1 date with you first thing; I'll want to get to know you a bit before that so show initiative. Please ask me about things you wonder about relating to my profile text.

Just here to chat and remain in contact with existing friends. No photo no chat - please I don't want to talk to an avatar ! Size 18 so if you like skinny I'm.not for you. No I won't send you videos and I don't wish to see you wank. phobia of large full face beards.

Welcome stranger! I’m Bunni, I’m submissive by nature but I do love flipping the script every now and then. I love to play mind games, tease and seduce, your pleasure is my goal, bonus points if you’re vocal (moan for me daddy). I’m a book girly and lover of smut, dark romance holds a special place in my soul, do with that information what you will. *** is one of my favourite aphrodisiacs, mix it with praise and *** and a slut is born. If you chase me in a mask I will fall in love, you have been warned. Be respectful of boundaries, I promise I am human even if I come across as a succubus. I won’t just randomly meet you until I get to know you, if you wish to just have a flirty chat I’m your girl but there will be no expectations from either party to continue at any point. If you wish to know more then drop me a message, I won’t bite unless you ask me nicely.

Any men out there with any future goals towards a committed relationship who won’t waste my time? 😅 I am here to date not for sex only, so please don’t waste my time if that’s all you are after 🙄 I want to know you and then your sexual fantasies, not the other way around 😌 Should you pass the vibe check, you may unlock a bratty submissive who is very curious and eager to please and always be pleased 👀😈 but you will also have an intelligent, ambitious and driven young lady with actual life goals and not just fantasies in the bedroom ☺️ I'm looking to find a dom who can tame the naturally cheeky, independent and fiery woman that is me, who knows how to earn my submission, affection and can put me in my place when needed ⛓️ A gentleman who can control my desires, overpower me with their masculine energy and treat me like a queen but also use the needy, naughty sub in me for their pleasure as well as my own 😏 Love, romance, cuddles and affection are just as important to me as spankings, new bed sheets, sore wrists and being unable to sit for days 😉 Please be kind and respectful, vulgarness and sexual *** will not be tolerated. Feel free to message or follow me, I don't add friends for the sake of it. *Single men only, no open relationships, without ***, preferably the same age or older than me* **Desires and Fantasies** There is a very long list I can provide if we get on well, but heres a little insight: - Dominant/submissive - Brat taming - CNC - Sadism/Masochism - Bondage - Primal/Prey - Edging - Orgasm denial - Sensory deprivation - Anal play/toys - Sex toys

Hoping for a real connection. My (46M) Dom and I (45F) sub, are looking for a woman to join us for a MFF threesome. We would ideally like a regular arrangement and would potentially be open to a throuple. We are open to one off fun too. We can travel or accommodate. Happy to make friends along the way. I am open to solo dating a woman, ENM (No men thanks)

Cute smart sexy baby, looking for someone fun to talk to. I am slowly working on my sexology qualifications, but love to talk about non-kink things too. Don't expect a meet-up, just because we texted for a week. I let you know myself, if I want to give you access to my body. My kinks are hard to fullfill, and you need to do so first. My body is extremely broken from all the dancing I do, so massages are appreciated.

Tell me all the naughty things you want to do with me Young dumb and unfortunately not full of cum **Desires and Fantasies** Fuck me and feed me. Kidding I want someone who can take care of both my sexual needs and my emotional ones too

little bit about me: i'm shan! 20 years old from the uk - Veterinary Nursing student at uni:) i love to bake and watch disney movies, i am also an age regressor and find it very important that i separate the two. I love to read sci-fi books and play piano & drums. I am currently on the waiting list for autism so please me patient with me as i can be a bit slow socialising! Me as a submissive: very quiet, loves to chat about my day, very creative, clingy, loves to listen and enjoys instructions, can seem quite childish at times and may be a little bratty to challenge you? but i always work hard for a reward! my fav kinks: ddlg, age play, pet play, cnc, knife play, somnophilia, discipline/praise and many more! What I'm looking for: a partner where we can get to know each other online, build trust and explore new exciting activities! someone also into hard kinks and has experience in being a good play partner, the more experience the better! communication, humour and respect is very important to me❤️ ALSO: No profile picture = no reply..i'm sorry! * due to autism i can get very overwhelmed with messages so please don't get mad if i don't reply fast!

Howdy humans Im charms a 46 yeat old switch. My dominant side tends to.be sadistic. My sub side i like to do things for my master. Im dealing with some personal stuff so not on here much. I actually left for a few weeks. Im an extremely lucky person to have some amazing friends iv meet via the kink community who are helping me right now. That includes my master. No matter what is going on between us or as happened between us. Iv been extremely lucky that iv been able to just turn up at his apartment and say Please can i get a hug . I am a big on consent , safewords and aftercare. Also cuddles nothing more i like than cuddles. Id do almost anything for a fluffy blanket and cuddles. If you have *** photos on your profile and i message you. Its because I want to know about your ***s not anything else. Love all ***'s apart from rats and mice. Yes totally love spiders. The bigger the better. I have a retired greyhound called Derrick he's my baby. I also own 3 whites tropical tree frogs. I adopted from a friend as they were unwanted pets. Iv ended up with a wide selection of peoples unwanted pets over the years. They come to me and im there forever mom till they pass away. My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS. I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the amazing world of kink. Also love Toronto maple leafs. Yes i know there not the best ice hockey team i dont care. No twinks i dont want to be your mommy or help you with your cougar fetish. I dont want to have to train another male thanks I am here to make freinds. Iv made amazing freinds already on here. Iv learnt so much from talking to other chatters. Not just kink things I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to 1 and other. I'm not a little I'm a furrie. I get asked alot if I'm a little due to wearing lots of animsl onesies

I would like to have some fun, no strings attached. This is something a bit new to me but exciting

First up, i do have a dom! I‘m happy with him I do not need some new dom! I‘m here to search another Female for FFM! Together with my dom! If you do not read this then maybe you shouldn‘t text me at all…

Just a very open minded girl trying to navigate her way through the kink world. Think I’m a sub leaning switch? Don’t quote me on that… I have a reeeally soft spot for femboys, let’s play dress up together and take pretty pictures? My littlespace is non-sexual and wholesome asf - don’t like that, LEAVE. You don’t have to be into CG/l for us to connect, there’s a lot more to me if you’d like to find out. Fellow subby friends are more than encouraged, two subs could get up to a lot of mischief… I will add to this over time, I promise!

Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable My BDSM test results: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 93% Submissive 82% Degradee 75% Experimentalist 72% Masochist 62% Brat tamer 62% Degrader 62% Rigger 59% Dominant 58% Primal (Prey) 52% Voyeur 50% Sadist 48% Vanilla 32% Primal (Hunter) 20% Non-monogamist 18% Master/Mistress 15% Owner 9% Slave 6% Daddy/Mommy 1% Exhibitionist 1% Pet 0% Boy/Girl 0% Ageplayer

Hey I have been in the lifestyle for a good while. Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you. If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me as I have both so saves the time. I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my nephew is my world. I have both a dog, a cat, and a gerbil. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside. I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs. I'm at the point in my life where I want to settle down. If I don't reply straight away, don't worry. It becomes flooded occasionally and I work full time. I also may be doing a hobby to clear my mind. whether this be diamon ***tings, colouring which are both the***utic or gaming.

If you must refer to me, it's Vixx. I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, If you're under 28 please leave me alone If you're over 55 also respect my wishes and leave me alone This boundary used to be at the end of my profile but it made no difference so, do not expect a positive response if you get in touch and you're not 28-55 😊 I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them. I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals. What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song? I don't think many will get this far, but if you do... I've been in the kink and BDSM world coming up 11 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience. I'm sadistic, I'm masochistic, I'm a pleasure slut, I'm a massive brat. I'm *not* yours or anyone else's "good girl" and I don't use titles. I'm a woman not a girl. I'm not interested in being your pen pal so your location matters. If it's not easy to visit one another, then I'm going to send you on your way to save both of us the effort. If it matters, I run 2 munches and coordinate a play event in Nottingham You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?

? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess. I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent. I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real. I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist. I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully. I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.

Hi! I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way. I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!

Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures. I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.

Not looking, I have all my needs met. Poly bi sadist. I have MS, I wobble, hopefully I don’t fall down, it doesn’t stop me. Not tall, not thin, not wearing latex or heels.

I've embraced who i truly am a long while ago. I tried nilla life but something was always missing! Now i know who i am and what i like, there is no turning back. Currently looking for submissive/dominant or switch males. I'm a switch, with many years experience on the public scene. As a top i like cute toys to play with and hurt. As a bottom i love thuddy impact, rope, knives and various other delights So want to know who i am, its simple just ask.

Orange hair , 7 tattoos, 5’1, size 16 Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me Sorry but only play with my age range **Desires and Fantasies** Love to be tied and made to cum Love toys used on me Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men) Want to explore my sub side Sorry , I don’t see likes PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine

Submissive I need a daddy I’d like to meet someone who’s dominant and caring. I Cant have a profile picture but happy to send them over chat

New to this looking to explore my submissive side with experienced Dom male or female that can show me the ropes **Desires and Fantasies** 1. - list text

I am a sadistic Mistress looking for play partners .. **Desires and Fantasies** Ultimate fantasy is to stay at BDSM hotel for a couple of nights with a favourite slave. I would like to explore different roles as a Domme e.g. Teacher police woman dr etc. Finding out what my limits are and exploring how far I want to go with BDSM. To be adored by others Joined Fetish as Khadi58 now MistressK_CAE

Hi 🐱 I'm SensorumFox (also on fetlife). Not new to the kink lifestyle, only new to here. I'm looking for my Daddy/Caregiver (for real life!) in or around the Nottingham area who wants to build a genuine connection and relationship with me with the CG/l dynamic firmly in place. I'm polyamorous and live with one of my partners. My other partner lives overseas with his own family. We all practice ENM very successfully and plan to keep it this way so understanding, and being able to navigate within, an ENM-relationship is vital. CG/l for me is a lifestyle and not something I just do as a sex-fantasy or an act. I am never not Little, but may "turn it down", or pull a blanket over myself so to speak, if I feel like I have to be more adult. Little is what I am at my core. That's why I am looking for a genuine caregiver- someone who is naturally caring, encouraging, and comforting, and loves to be that way. Someone patient but able to be assertive when necessary and someone who needs to be needed. I'm neurodivergent which is to say I'm autistic. That's just something that comes with a couple of implications that I'd need you to understand and show patience and compassion for. I suspect I've got ADHD, too, but I haven't paid anyone to tell me on a piece of paper yet.😋 I generally like the way I am; quirks and all. I'm very sensitive to sensory input like smell, feel and sound. I'll pick up on many of these things before anyone else. Often smell can be an issue for me for example frying smell can send me into complete panic-mode where I must "save" my stuffies and myself from the smell getting at us as that would be something I'd hate. Can't relax till it's gone which often means I have to change my clothes and/or wash the stuffies and so on. My partner's luckily mostly figured out the damage-mitigation on that one. As a person I tend to be very excitable, bubbly and giggly. Above all I think I'm very playful and cheeky. If a situation comes up that can be made into a game most of the time I'll squee when it does turn into a game. Play tag around the house! I can be quite loud and fun- I'm very extroverted when I feel secure. I thrive on outside encouragement and love succeeding at tasks I'm given. Starting tasks can be tough but once I'm made to get going I often don't want to stop! I love art so drawing, coloring and ***ting are great activities; arts and crafts in general. Having a cartoon like Bluey or Bear in the Big Blue House on while doing anything like it is great, and having my stuffies around me is even better. I love my stuffies lots and most of them have names and their own personalities. They're very important little companions and very real to me. You know how people sometimes say to stop and look at your surroundings? I love doing that. I will stop for lots of things even if they're tiny. Spotting a colorful little bug on the pavement can make my whole day. I got a voice recorder recently so I can record little things I hear like rain or birds and stuff. 😊 Anyways I also like playing video games like Wandersong was one of my most recent ones alongside A Short Hike and Path of Exile (one of them is not like the others lol). I'd love playing games together, too! # You are..; ..caring by nature; caregiver isn't just a random kink title for you but a term you deeply relate to. I enjoy a stocky build and have a preference, but I find physical attributes come secondary to your personality and have little to say for how well we connect. Your age is between 30 to 45 ish but if you're slightly outside of this range don't let that discourage you. I'm cutting it off at the higher end mainly because I want you to be able to wrestle me and win. I also want you to be able to catch me and pick me up when I book it after you've caught me red-handed in the cookie-jar. 🤭 ...and I want you to be around for a long time. Basically I like it when you feel Bigger and older than me so that I can be small. You take initiative in life, are creative and are comfortable taking the lead on decision-making or what-have-you (without me prompting you). You're a calming presence able to give direction and comfort, and communicate on the same level as me or better. You put me as a priority; setting asside quality-time for us. I don't have to be your nr1 but I should be high up there. You enjoy outside and indoor activities the same and encourage me to want to go outside for whatever together. You like to be involved in the kink community and join munches and want to attend events; particularly CG/l events! You want a cheeky kitten to play with at events (that'd be me😋) and this idea doesn't scare you. You are reasonably knowledgeable within kink and safety and don't need me to teach you the ropes; you've gone on your own discovery journey already. There are very many nuances for lots of this stuff and I've not just put down some recipe for you to follow but rather I want this to be an indicator of what I am hoping for and what I need- for it is a need. Sure I do this whole kink thing for fun but it is also an innate need for me. It's not something to "spice up my life"; it's part of my life. There's much more written on my profile on fet such as interests, kinks, etc, and I strongly advice you to read it all should you be on there. If you aren't comfortable with yourself, don't put effort into communication, can't be assertive or like to be called Daddy just as a bedroom kink then there is very little point in you messaging me for we will be incompatible. Ignoring all who have NSA on their looking for thingy. Small disclaimer of what I'm NOT looking for: - infidelity - expectations of monogamy - kink- or sex-only - submissives / slaves, etc - online-only - dynamic-only - luke-warm approaches & weak personalities - vanilla - disposability - dispensers - smokers/druggies/alcoholics - no strings - men who have too many commitments to make time for us - if you are a subby bitchboi I will sus you out 😝 Happy to hear from you if you think this could be something. Best way to meet me is via the Notts mini munch. I am unlikely to go on a 1-on-1 date with you first thing; I'll want to get to know you a bit before that so show initiative. Please ask me about things you wonder about relating to my profile text.

Just here to chat and remain in contact with existing friends. No photo no chat - please I don't want to talk to an avatar ! Size 18 so if you like skinny I'm.not for you. No I won't send you videos and I don't wish to see you wank. phobia of large full face beards.

Hiya 👋🏻 I'm new to this and looking for people to connect with and learn more. i've been submissive for a year or so now my ex introduced me to it and I really liked it so looking to learn a lot more and find someone to help me on that journey x x I dont use face pix because of my work but after talking for a bit I'm happy to send x

I'm quite submissive but only once we've established that connection. I'm a masochist and I love having my limits tested. I have a praise kink and I'm into the whole ddlg dynamic

25 year old sub fairly new to the BDSM world. owned and just looking to meet new people and make some friends along the way

I'm not really great at writing so here it goes I'm very new to this so please be gentle until I get to know you then my lil devil side cums out hehe

hii, call me bubs! i’m into: - sado-mascochism - cnc - somno - ddlg - pet-play - control - roleplay - semi exhibitionist no face but if you’re nice enough i can show myself to someone. sub lean - still can help a person out by being dom. trying to see how much i can take. me as a sub: - look after me and be kind but also show a good amount of aggression - make it everything clear by communicating - can understand and regulate your emotions - make me feel safe - weakness: physical touch / acts of services / my physical weak spot are my ears and neck / if you’re taller / you have any experience - caregiver or owner me as dom: - you don’t have to have a ton of experience - be a masochist or a pet preferably - you being more passive over bratty - let me baby you - tend to slip into service topping - weakness: public touching / extremely needy / you get more pleasure than i do let’s talk!

Happily taken submissive, just looking for friends and social events (does not share) I am an ameuter novelist and journalist. I enjoy yoga, ballet and reading to manny classic novels. I spend a lot of time baking and cooking when I’m not working